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Are you a cuddler after sex or not? What about your partner? How does the post sex cuddle factor play out in your relationship?

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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
In today's SexIs article by Rachel Kramer Bussel, she asks: Do Straight Women Need an After Sex Doll to Cuddle With?

Please share your thoughts.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a woman and I love to cuddle after sex and so does my partner
17  (44%)
I'm a woman and I love to cuddle after sex but my partner doesn't
2  (5%)
I'm a woman and I don't like to cuddle after sex and neither does my partner
2  (5%)
I'm a woman and I don't like to cuddle after sex but my partner does
1  (3%)
I'm a man and I love to cuddle after sex and so does my partner
8  (21%)
I'm a man and I love to cuddle after sex but my partner doesn't
3  (8%)
I'm a man and I don't like to cuddle after sex and neither does my partner
I'm a man and I don't like to cuddle after sex but my partner does
1  (3%)
And of course, the obligitory "Other" Please explain
5  (13%)
Total votes: 39
Poll is closed
03/23/2011
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm the cuddler - usually she's not. But after an unusually intense orgasm she'll cuddle long enough to catch her breath and absorb the emotion.
03/23/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
I agree with Gunsmoke. I love to cuddle afterwards, but usually my wife doesn't. I found by laying on top of her gives me what I need. I don't let her up for awhile!
03/23/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
I agree with Gunsmoke. I love to cuddle afterwards, but usually my wife doesn't. I found by laying on top of her gives me what I need. I don't let her up for awhile!
LOL markeagleone! You really made me laugh out loud with that comment!
03/23/2011
Contributor: viciouschristine viciouschristine
I selected "other" because I am a woman who *sometimes* likes to cuddle and sometimes does not, and my partner is the same way.
03/23/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
If there is enough time, we both like to cuddle afterwards.
03/23/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I chose Other because I'm a women as is my partner and we both love to cuddle.
03/23/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Does cuddling include rolling over and going to sleep? If it does... I love cuddling.
03/23/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
We both like to cuddle!
03/23/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Neither of us is really much of a cuddler. But my husband probably is a tad more than me.
03/23/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Does cuddling include rolling over and going to sleep? If it does... I love cuddling.
I am pretty sure that is the opposite of cuddling.
03/23/2011
Contributor: burnbright4me burnbright4me
I like to cuddle afterwards, even if it's just a brief "you're still here" hug. He usually likes to cuddle with me, although for some reason he tends to get songs stuck in his head after sex, and wants to go listen to them. So sometimes the cuddling is shorter than I'd like.
03/24/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I'm female and it does not really matter much to me.
03/24/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Cuddling is awesome. It's cute and snuggly, even if it was a very rough session. It's also our talking time, unless it's really late and he's tired.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
We dont really lay there and cuddle. We are usually cleaning up.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I like to cuddle some of the time, but he always wants to cuddle like for hours.
03/31/2011