Another Fingering Question

Contributor: Sarah <3 Sarah <3
Do you...Or have you ever fingered your mans butt hole?? I think thats just super weird...So have you?
10/28/2011
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Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I have and I do on a regular basis. I don't think it's weird at all, the anus has a ton of nerve endings and the prostate is super sensitive... Not to mention that he makes the most beautiful noises and he orgasms so easily that way.
10/28/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
I have and I do on a regular basis. I don't think it's weird at all, the anus has a ton of nerve endings and the prostate is super sensitive... Not to mention that he makes the most beautiful noises and he orgasms so easily that way.
I love that expression: he makes the most beautiful noises. <3

I have not, but only because my husband isn't into it.
10/29/2011
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I have with previous male partners. I love doing it. Now I don't because I have fake nails that make it hard for me to determine what is safe and getting stuff underneath them is easy but hard to clean out.
10/29/2011
Contributor: jenn g jenn g
I haven't but want to sometimes
10/29/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I have with previous male partners. I love doing it. Now I don't because I have fake nails that make it hard for me to determine what is safe and getting stuff underneath them is easy but hard to clean out.
There is a solution to that. If you tuck a bit of cotton under each nail and wear latex or non-latex medical gloves, they provide adequate protection from nails. (I've used that method myself once or twice.
10/29/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Wife does it quite a bit, it really intensifies the climax and it's good for the prostate.
10/29/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Nope. Neither of us are into that.
10/29/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Wife does it quite a bit, it really intensifies the climax and it's good for the prostate.
Agreed - seems that younger couples find this a bit offensive, at least in our case, we learned to understand and appreciate the pleasures of all types of anal stimulation.

Because almost all anal play starts with fingers - it's a valuable place to start.
10/29/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
No. I don't want to and he doesn't want me to.
10/29/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
He isn't so much into it. We've only been married two years, I'm sure we'll eventually branch out there.
10/29/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Sarah <3
Do you...Or have you ever fingered your mans butt hole?? I think thats just super weird...So have you?
If it's not for you, then don't do it. For the rest of us, we will do what we like.
10/29/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Agreed - seems that younger couples find this a bit offensive, at least in our case, we learned to understand and appreciate the pleasures of all types of anal stimulation.

Because almost all anal play starts with fingers - it's a valuable ... more
You put it much more politely than I would Gunsmoke.
I would perhaps point out that lack of knowledge is also called ignorance.
10/29/2011
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
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Originally posted by Sarah <3
Do you...Or have you ever fingered your mans butt hole?? I think thats just super weird...So have you?
I haven't.
10/30/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I haven't only because my husband isn't really into it. If he asked me to I'd give it a try, but wear some kind of rubber/latex gloves for cleanliness.
11/01/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by RonLee
You put it much more politely than I would Gunsmoke.
I would perhaps point out that lack of knowledge is also called ignorance.
RonLee - ignorance is a pretty harsh evaluation. Inexperience can be 'cured' with patience and education. I don't consider my 19 & 20 year 'ignorant' but nor do I expect that they have the same level of understanding of sexual nuance that my wife and I have. There are just some things you don't learn from your parents!
11/01/2011
Contributor: Liz123 Liz123
Depends on the guy. I don't mind fingering a guy, but not all guys are into it.
11/06/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Maybe 2-3 times in the last 2.5 years we've been together. He seems to really like it, but doesn't say anything about it. He does it to me quite a bit more than that.
11/17/2011
Contributor: samopayn samopayn
I have a few times. He swears he doesn't like it. His recations say he's lying!
11/19/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by Sarah <3
Do you...Or have you ever fingered your mans butt hole?? I think thats just super weird...So have you?
Yes while rolling and toying with his balls, licking and sucking his ball sack and bobbing up and down on his cock kneeling down in front of him and giving him my best porn star bedroom eyes
11/24/2011
Contributor: Jobo Jobo
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Originally posted by Sarah <3
Do you...Or have you ever fingered your mans butt hole?? I think thats just super weird...So have you?
I hear it makes the man cum twice as more. I couldnt try it lol
11/27/2011
Contributor: komona komona
omg never would do that to my man ever.
02/24/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
i told my wife that ive thought about her playing around with my ass a little bit more, but shes not up for it, and im not going to push her into it. if she changes her mind in the future, im not going to say no
02/25/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I've done it a few times. He wasn't very into it. But I think maybe if I learned to do it a little better and he relaxed enough to enjoy himself we could have a good time with it. I don't see what's weird about it.
02/25/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Sarah <3
Do you...Or have you ever fingered your mans butt hole?? I think thats just super weird...So have you?
I'm sorry you think that is "super weird". Asking a question with a negative comment attached shows it not a question, but a statement.

I would find it "super weird" to deny my man such pleasure if I knew I could give it).

YES....in fact I do it EVERY time I give him oral. He has a PROSTATE that can be massaged and gives him AMAZING orgasms. He also fingers MY tush, and it is INCREDIBLY sensitive and along with oral makes ME cum with incredible intensity too. VERY nerve rich environment.

If you do a bit of reading here, you may discover that it is not only NOT "weird" but a LOT of happy lovers make that part of their regular sex play....and those who have HAPPY love lives have HAPPY LIVES in general.

Oh....FYI, I keep a fingernail SHORT at all times, JUST FOR THAT REASON. Very trim, very pretty, but SHORT. All he has to do is hold my hand when we are out walking, or glance at my hand at dinner, and it is an INSTANT "turn on" for HIM to know that finger is ALL HIS, and WHY, and an instant turn on for ME to know HE knows!!!!
02/25/2012
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
If I tried this, I'd probably get seriously injured! LOL

He associates anal play with homosexuality. I've tried a million times to explain it has nothing to do with what you're sexually attracted to, but I've recently realized it's like talking to a brick wall on that topic!

If I had a partner that was into it, I wouldn't mind at all... and I wouldn't think it was weird either.
02/25/2012