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Am I the only woman who loves sex, but hates being "on top"???

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Over and over I read about how "GREAT" an orgasm you can have when "on top". Cowgirl, reverse cow girl, etc, etc. Sitting, squatting, whatever.

I have never, ever, ever enjoyed being on top. Never had ANY orgasm that way and just don't enjoy the feelings.

ANY other position is FINE...but not this "on top" thing.

Am I alone or are there other woman like me???
04/06/2012
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Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I love sex but I don't like being on top either. You are not alone. xoxo
04/06/2012
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
Being on top isn't my favorite, but it's actually the only way I can orgasm having sex.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't hate it, just not crazy about it. If the angle is good, I still get a lot of stimulation, but I can't achieve a real orgasm by being on top.
04/06/2012
Contributor: voenne voenne
I'm not crazy about it either. But maybe it's just because it takes more work than being able to sit back and relax, and I've never really been in good sync with anyone before.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I can't stand being on top. It never works well for us. I think he enters me too deep. It just hurts.
04/06/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
It's not my favorite. Sometimes he'll hit me too deep and it's just too uncomfortable.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
I'm not all that fond of being on top. My man loves it tho. I don't like it cause I never get to be in control when I'm on top. I like long deep thrust, while he enjoys short quick thrusts. He usually gets impatient and takes over. Not that I mind him having control, I just wish he'd leave me on bottom while he's in control.
04/06/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I've never been able to do it. Not only am I afraid of crushing my man (I'm 60 pounds heavier than he), but his erections are angled too....upward for it to be comfortable for him.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I'm not a fan of being on top. I will, but it is probably my least favorite position.
04/06/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
I agree completely...I hate being on top and I always have! for 1 im in control of everyother aspect in my life sex is one that I dont like being incontrol and 2 i cant get off that way and 3 im just never fast enough for my partner 4 i feel it being an unflattering positionand feel uncomfortable when in it and 5 I agree with what one said i have only found the right sync a couple times of my sexual life on top and thats prob. because i just have never liked it!so no your not alone!!!!!
04/06/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I hate it!! I have very short legs and it is such a stretch for me to even move much less orgasm.
04/07/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't like being on top either. Honestly, I can't feel a darn thing when I'm top - and that's really frustrating! I certainly don't mind doing it from time to time, but I'm not able to orgasm that way.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I don't always like being on tops the times that I am. I'm self conscious about my body =/
04/07/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Over and over I read about how "GREAT" an orgasm you can have when "on top". Cowgirl, reverse cow girl, etc, etc. Sitting, squatting, whatever.

I have never, ever, ever enjoyed being on top. Never had ANY orgasm that way ... more
I orgasm better on top. However, all in all I've gained some weight, so sometimes being on top just makes me feel unsexy.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I also hate being on top. It doesn't feel any better and it's so much work, more so than when a man is on top. A man doesn't have to keep his legs out to the side as he moves.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I don't like it either. I used to think there was something wrong with me because of it too since I would read women's magazines like Cosmo that always said it was the best position for women to get off.

It hurts my hips to be in that position long, It doesn't feel good, and it's tiring.
04/07/2012
Contributor: jc123 jc123
I refuse to be on top. I would rather not have sex at all.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Not my favorite. It hurts my knees, I can't really feel much of whats going on, and my husband always insists on going at a different pace than me.
04/07/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
I love being on top. I like setting the pace and being the one in control. The first time I ever had penetrative sex, I was the one on top. To me, it seems like the most natural position to go to.
07/23/2012