Does it bother you that he's older? What potential problems are you concerned with? There is no set 'acceptable' age difference - it just matters what you and he are comfortable with. Certainly don't feel pressured into anything with anyone, of any age, but if you're interested in him and physically attracted to him, there's nothing wrong with that.

I'm 27 and my man turned 42 last month. It is hands down the healthiest and most stable and overall best relationship I've ever had. The only concerns either of us have ever had regarding age in our relationship, is that if we look at things down the road, I'm not sure I'd want to have a baby with him (which he is willing to do - he has 4 as it is), he'd be in his mid-60's when our child graduates high school. Also, not to be morbid, but chances are he will die before me, seeing as women already statistically live longer to begin with. But I'm OK with that, I'd rather be with him now and be widowed a little earlier than some if that's what life has in store.

Do what feels right for you and him. Communicate and make sure you're on the same page. And if neither of you are looking long term but still want the same things right now, that's ok too. Figure out what works for YOU. less