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Is a MORNING "woody" harder?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Last night we had "cake and tea" after dinner. Hubby drank two cups of tea before bed. This morning, he woke up with a ROCK HARD "woody"...actually he had it in his sleep, and I woke him up with my lips around it!!! (He didn't complain). This afternoon, we had some nice "afternoon delight" sex, but there is NO QUESTION in my mind that in our case, his "bladder full, morning erection" is harder then ANY other kind, any other time.

Anyone else find that to be true?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
YES, that morning erection, especially with a full bladder, is the "hardest" he (or I) get.
P'Gell , Bignuf , Peggi , Rossie , oregal , Falsepast , wdanas , 2BudZ , Gunsmoke , dirtythoughts:) , Beck , crazycouple7281 , MistressDandelion , Bethy Cassatt , gorgeous
15
I don't think it matters, it can be harder or softer, depending.
deltalima , married with children , epiphanyjayne , Vaginas
4
Nope, it's harder then that at other times (please share examples).
Other?
Kissy , unfulfilled , potstickers , Chefbriapink , PropertyOfPotter
5
Total votes: 24 (24 voters)
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Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I just asked my man, he says his morning wood isn't harder than other wood. In fact, he said his morning wood is less hard than his regular wood. I am not sure which poll option that fits though!
06/10/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My husband is in his 50s, so yeah, Morning Wood is the hardest. Oddly, he prefers anal in the evening (usually because we usually have marathons at night, and are more likely to have anal during a marathon.) The first few times we had anal in the morning, I was a little anxious, but not anymore.

He usually has to empty his bladder before we have sex. So, I lie there yearning for him, as he tries to coax his poor swollen member to release that valve so he can go. Neither of us are comfortable having sex with a full bladder, but it doesn't seem to matter with his hard on. He's still pretty firm even after he pees.

Men have higher testosterone in the morning, so it makes sense that they'd be harder.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I just asked my man, he says his morning wood isn't harder than other wood. In fact, he said his morning wood is less hard than his regular wood. I am not sure which poll option that fits though!
YOU need to check it out and report back. HIS impression may not be accurate!!!!
06/10/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
My husband is in his 50s, so yeah, Morning Wood is the hardest. Oddly, he prefers anal in the evening (usually because we usually have marathons at night, and are more likely to have anal during a marathon.) The first few times we had anal in the ... more
Cialis... AMAZING stuff at 50!!!

Meanwhile, since we are in the same age group, we understand the issues. Actually your whole answer sounds SO familiar. Good point about the Testosterone too. I have always enjoyed anal, but really only when we DO have time to "go slow". He never "performed" at his best, when rushed...even when younger. Given time, he is....a virtuoso with that "instrument".
06/10/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I think my man's morning wood is harder than any other time.
06/10/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I just asked my man, he says his morning wood isn't harder than other wood. In fact, he said his morning wood is less hard than his regular wood. I am not sure which poll option that fits though!
Mine is the same.
06/11/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Sometimes it is, but you get random ones through sleep, so it may just be my body saying "stop already!"
06/11/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Last night we had "cake and tea" after dinner. Hubby drank two cups of tea before bed. This morning, he woke up with a ROCK HARD "woody"...actually he had it in his sleep, and I woke him up with my lips around it!!! (He didn't ... more
yes i do but my man wont let me do that my ex husband did but not the guys im with now your lucky that i think thats the best sex
06/11/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Cialis... AMAZING stuff at 50!!!

Meanwhile, since we are in the same age group, we understand the issues. Actually your whole answer sounds SO familiar. Good point about the Testosterone too. I have always enjoyed anal, but really only when ... more
When I started having orgasm issues, my GYN gave me a prescription for Viagra. It didn't solve the problem for me, but I shared it with him. He said it was OK, but he's one of those people who hates to take medication. I think if he couldn't get it up at all, he might think about it. But, he wouldn't take it just for a semi-softy.

Besides My Man tends to take his time more if he's not dealing with a raging hard on. We seem to have more marathons when we have to work for a good woodie. It works out for us. I wasn't really complaining, as long as it works.
06/11/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
When I started having orgasm issues, my GYN gave me a prescription for Viagra. It didn't solve the problem for me, but I shared it with him. He said it was OK, but he's one of those people who hates to take medication. I think if he ... more
For me both Viagra and Cialis help with getting - but more importantly sustaining erections. I prefer cialis because it isn't so time sensitive (works for up to 36 hours) - but also because it seems to help me delay orgasm.

Recently I took Viagra for the first time in about a year and I have to admit the results were impressive. Some men prefer Viagra - but I keep taking Cialis because of timing.

Cialis is also approved for at least two other conditions including Pulmonary Hypertension and BPH - the stuff is practically a wonder drug!
06/11/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never had sex with him at that time so I'm not sure.
06/11/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
I've never had sex with him at that time so I'm not sure.
Oh my...you should try. It's WONDERFUL. I am sure he will appreciate "waking up" to you that way. My hubby sure does.
06/11/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
For me both Viagra and Cialis help with getting - but more importantly sustaining erections. I prefer cialis because it isn't so time sensitive (works for up to 36 hours) - but also because it seems to help me delay orgasm.

Recently I took ... more
Remember, these were all developed as cardiac drugs...NOT erection pills. Like with hair growth drugs, actually developed to treat hypertension!!! Go figure. Love those "side effects"!!!
06/11/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Rossie
I think my man's morning wood is harder than any other time.
Tested it again this morning. YUP. Harder.
06/11/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
its different every day. sometimes harder, sometimes softer
06/14/2012
Contributor: crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
Sometimes it's harder, sometimes I have softer morning wood.
08/07/2012
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
There is something about those pee hard-on's. one time recently we had sex he came before I did but he didn't say anything he just stopped for a minute and then went back at it and came again because his full bladder kept his penis hard even though he had already came. which was awesome because that was just the right amount of time for me to finish.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
I love waking up to my boyfriend's morning wood
08/07/2012
Contributor: lineswecast lineswecast
Harder than usual, but not as hard as when we're doing something (at any time of the day) that he REALLY likes.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Seems harder to me
10/14/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
With my ex he was so much harder when we first woke up.
10/14/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
My husband almost never had morning wood and when he does it's not nearly as hard as other times.
10/14/2012