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Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing after I go down on her but not the other way around. Anyone else have a lover do the same? If you don't like to or she doesn't, why?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a woman and...
P'Gell , Beck , - Kira - , Taylor , WhoopieDoo , MamaDivine , DeliciousSurprise , Rossie , mpfm , melissa1973 , purple579 , mistressg , underHim , Rawr4483 , sexystuffeve , hall5885 , Positwist , Sally Forth , Zombirella , guro , wrmbreze , dragonn , Alyxx , SaraU29 , CASpookygirl , SarahSillyYak , K101 , deltalima , wetone123 , funluvinmama , Khanner , BiJess , Lizzy , Graniteal , Princess-Kayla ♥ , smashthepatriarchy , Bex1331 , Peaches2000 , roskat , x203 , lillmiss5054 , nikki6639 , ily , pinkpottergirl , nope , Chami , Liz123 , All His , potstickers , RiahPapaya
50
I'm a man and...
EastCoast36 , slynch , guro , married with children , Pi , Falsepast , Caulfield , Istanbull
8
My lover does NOT like to kiss me after he/she gives me oral sex
deltalima , Istanbull
2
My lover does NOT like to kiss me after I give oral sex
EastCoast36 , Taylor , prettynpink , slynch , mistressg , underHim , married with children , SaraU29 , Pi , deltalima , Khanner , Princess-Kayla ♥ , WD40watcher , Caulfield , All His
15
I do NOT like to kiss my lover after I give oral sex
Teddixox , funluvinmama
2
I do NOT like to kiss my lover after he/she gives me oral sex
- Kira - , MamaDivine , prettynpink , DeliciousSurprise , purple579 , sexystuffeve , Zombirella , funluvinmama , Darklyvan
9
My lover likes to kiss me after I give oral sex
P'Gell , Beck , WhoopieDoo , MamaDivine , Rossie , Stagger13 , mpfm , melissa1973 , purple579 , Ciao. , Rawr4483 , sexystuffeve , hall5885 , Positwist , Sally Forth , wrmbreze , Alyxx , CASpookygirl , SarahSillyYak , Lizzy , Bex1331 , x203 , alayamae , lillmiss5054 , nikki6639 , ily , pinkpottergirl , potstickers , RiahPapaya
29
My lover likes to kiss me after he/she gives me oral sex
P'Gell , Beck , WhoopieDoo , MamaDivine , Rossie , Stagger13 , melissa1973 , underHim , Ciao. , Rawr4483 , sexystuffeve , hall5885 , Positwist , Sally Forth , wrmbreze , Alyxx , CASpookygirl , Pi , SarahSillyYak , x203 , lillmiss5054 , nikki6639 , ily , Chami , All His , potstickers , RiahPapaya
27
I like to kiss my lover after I give oral sex
P'Gell , Beck , - Kira - , Taylor , WhoopieDoo , Rossie , mpfm , melissa1973 , purple579 , mistressg , Ciao. , sexystuffeve , hall5885 , Positwist , Sally Forth , guro , wrmbreze , dragonn , Alyxx , CASpookygirl , Pi , SarahSillyYak , wetone123 , mlgrant , Graniteal , Princess-Kayla ♥ , roskat , lillmiss5054 , nikki6639 , pinkpottergirl , potstickers , RiahPapaya
32
I like to kiss my lover after he/she gives me oral sex
P'Gell , Beck , EastCoast36 , tinadice , Taylor , WhoopieDoo , Rossie , Ciao. , sexystuffeve , hall5885 , Positwist , Sally Forth , wrmbreze , dragonn , Alyxx , Teddixox , CASpookygirl , Pi , SarahSillyYak , wetone123 , Khanner , Graniteal , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Pandaski , Caulfield , x203 , nikki6639 , pinkpottergirl , nope , All His , potstickers , RiahPapaya
32
My lover doesn't care whether or not we kiss after oral sex
- Kira - , sexystuffeve , K101 , funluvinmama , Bex1331 , Peaches2000 , pinkpottergirl , nope , Chami
9
I don't care whether or not my lover kisses me after oral sex
gloomybear , sexystuffeve , married with children , SaraU29 , K101 , smashthepatriarchy , ily , Chami , Liz123
9
Other, The Infamous
sexystuffeve , Falsepast
2
Total votes: 226 (68 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
We both will kiss anytime.

He really wanted me to kiss him after he rimmed me the other day, I was thinking about it and he grabbed me and made up my mind for me.

He used to be more hesitant about kissing after regular oral sex (if I gave him a BJ, but only if he came) but he's overcome his "jizz fear" quite a while ago.

Me? I love it when we kiss after he goes down. It just makes it more fun.

Maybe she thinks you don't want to. Have you told her you'd like it? Often verbalizing what you want is all it really takes.
03/21/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
We love to suck the juices off our each others tongues, fingers, and anything else. I have come across those who don't like it. I really don't know what kind of advice to give you, sorry I am not of much help.
03/21/2012
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I like to kiss after receiving, don't cum in her mouth often, so it's just a wetter, hotter kiss. She doesn't like to kiss after I have given her oral.
03/21/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
my bf used to joke about not kissing me after i went down on him but thats stopped
03/21/2012
Contributor: tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
We both will kiss
03/21/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
If I am in the mood and really getting into it, then sure, why not!? In the heat of the moment I really don't think about it. But, if Im not really "into it" as much, then Ill have issues with it. Im weird like that lol
03/22/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
We kiss before and after giving each other oral sex.
03/22/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
My partner and I kiss after I give him oral, but not if he cums in my mouth. I always kiss him after he gives me some action, it doesn't bother me at all because I know that I take care of myself down there.
03/22/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Quote:
Originally posted by dbm6907
My partner and I kiss after I give him oral, but not if he cums in my mouth. I always kiss him after he gives me some action, it doesn't bother me at all because I know that I take care of myself down there.
That's what I'm curious about, why do you choose not to?
03/23/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I have no hangups about kissing/getting kissed after giving/receiving oral. Seems a little silly to me. It's all your juices or your partners, nothing scary! And if they are willing to put it in there mouth why shouldn't you be willing to have some in yours as well?
03/23/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
I used to not like to kiss him after he wen't down on me, but I've learned not to care recently.. and he doesn't care either way.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
I have no hangups about kissing/getting kissed after giving/receiving oral. Seems a little silly to me. It's all your juices or your partners, nothing scary! And if they are willing to put it in there mouth why shouldn't you be willing to ... more
Yep, exactly this. Kissing always goes in my bedroom.

I do kinda have hangups about partners who aren't okay with kissing after oral, though.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
I won't let him kiss me til he takes a drink or rinses his mouth
03/24/2012
Contributor: dragonn dragonn
My boyfriend sometimes hesitates but we kiss.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
We both enjoy kissing each other after either of us has given the other oral.
03/25/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
I never understood why people were grossed out so badly by their own privates! Ha. If you think it's clean enough to let your partner put their mouth there then shouldn't it be clean enough for YOU to put your mouth there? I'm fine, totally fine with my own and don't think anything of it when my partner kisses me afterward. I really can't figure out what is so gross about it... well... unless you aren't a very hygenic person, but if that's the case then you really shouldn't let someone else put their mouth there. Lol
03/29/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
Mine is the opposite.
03/29/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
He doesn't care but I find it kind of yucky. I don't know why I just really don't like to kiss after oral. I guess it makes me think of going down on another female, I would be with another woman for a fantasy I have, but I won't give oral.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
I don't mind my own taste at all. I find it dissipates quickly, too.
He doesn't even want to try with his. I don't mind too much.
03/30/2012
Contributor: mlgrant mlgrant
Neither one of us really has a problem with it.
03/31/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
You should be thankful your gettin head
04/01/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I love making out with my husband after he goes down on me. He usually doesn't mind me kissing him during oral, but once he cums into my mouth he won't kiss me until I take a drink of water. Even then, it's never tongue kisses.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Quote:
Originally posted by Lizzy
You should be thankful your gettin head
The unexamined life is not worth living
04/05/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
My partner loves it.
04/07/2012
Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
For years, my wife refuses to kiss me after she gives me a blowjob, but she always loves to kiss ME after I give her oral. When I asked her about it, she said she just doesn't want to. I think it's odd that she's fine with us kissing ... more
My girlfriend doesn't like the taste of her own vagina, so she doesn't like when i try to kiss her after.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
My bf won't go down on me but I wouldn't mind if he kissed me after. I kiss him after I go down on him but he dosent care, he's not really a fan of kissing at all so it dosent really come up.
04/07/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I think I'd be a little offended if my partner wouldn't kiss me after oral.
04/08/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
eh i dont mind either way it's no big deal, really. but i ususally do kiss after and he does the same
04/08/2012