Who gets it more often?

Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
You or your partner? Who asks for it more often? Do you only get it when you ask?
12/07/2010
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Contributor: Throwingawaysoon Throwingawaysoon
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
You or your partner? Who asks for it more often? Do you only get it when you ask?
Easily me. But, we know when we both want it, so in a way we both initiate a lot of the times together. So I don't always have to ask
12/07/2010
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I'm currently in a long distance situation, so really we both jump each other as soon as we get the chance! Team effort.
12/07/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
It's pretty equal.
12/15/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I get it more, but that's only because I was really uneasy about my boyfriend's penis for awhile. (I have some sexual insecurities.) I'll give it to him pretty much whenever he asks and he'll do the same, but he initiates a lot more than I do and when he does, 99% of the time, he wants to do something for me. I would definitely give him more oral if we had more chances to see each other. I think about it almost every day. D:
12/15/2010
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
It's pretty much half and half, although, I think I'm bolder and more likely to ask.
12/16/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by ellejay
I'm currently in a long distance situation, so really we both jump each other as soon as we get the chance! Team effort.
Same
12/16/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
He does at the moment.
12/17/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
he does.
12/17/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Overall, I think it is about equal but I am usually aware of his need (from his state of arousal) before he says something.
12/17/2010
Contributor: Lurr Lurr
I get way more. she is not a fan of recieving, dosn't hate it just prefers penetration
01/15/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I receive more, and never have to ask. I enjoy giving it too though.
01/15/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
bf gets it more =/
01/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
He gets it more...but only because I'm ALWAYS wanting to give it to him. I just can't help it.
01/16/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
He gets it more and never has to ask... I don't usually ask for it, as I would rather give than receive, but he gives willingly also.
01/16/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I get it more, but that's because he loves giving it to me.
01/16/2011
Contributor: Crash Crash
She does. She seems to think that because I have never orgasmed from oral that I don't enjoy it as much. And she has only done it once without a request.
01/24/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
You or your partner? Who asks for it more often? Do you only get it when you ask?
husband gets it like everytime - bj, and we 69 sometimes but yea i get it in other ways while giving that =] so its 1/2 and 1/2 sometimes
02/04/2011
Contributor: Sparfitt08 Sparfitt08
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
You or your partner? Who asks for it more often? Do you only get it when you ask?
My husband definitely gets it more, pretty much every time. I only get it when he feels like it or I ask for it. I don't mind giving, but would like to receive more. He gets it regardless without asking.
02/07/2011
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
it's about equal
07/25/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
my boyfriend asks all the time and is always wishing we could make love. Because of our schedules we aren't around each other as much as we used too so we don't get to partake in our adventures as much as we used to. When we do though he usually gets what he wants more than us doing a session together or a session that is just for one of us. He may argue that the sessions we do have are usually for me but we never really keep track so its not a definite. Here recently they have become more equal though. In the beginning they were usually more for him and what he wanted (his pleasure more than mine) but now he is more concerned about it being equal. He still and always will ask for it more though ^^.
07/25/2012