Who does oral better? Men or women?

Contributor: oopsy oopsy
I've heard mixed reviews about women knowing the area better but men just going be expirience! Who's better in your opinion?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Men
8  (22%)
Women
4  (11%)
Don't know
25  (68%)
Total votes: 37
Poll is closed
03/26/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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03/26/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
it's the individual person and their talents, not their genitals,
and their ability to take direction and pick up on cues and show how much they love it
03/26/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I agree it depends on the individual. I think it might be harder to do it on a guy tho since there is more to put in your mouth and deep throating is tricky to learn.
03/27/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't tried both. I do know I've been with a guy who thought it was bad to overstimulate the clit. Correcting that belief was probably the best advice I ever gave him...

But everyone's different, so i dunno :\
03/27/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Depends on the person... it's too general to say women are better or men are better imo.
03/27/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Talent not gender is the key. An educated, attentive enthusiastic practitioner is going do well no matter what.

Educated - you have to know the lay of the land - where the nerve bundles are
Attentive - you have to pay attention to whats working for your partner and whats not
Enthusiastic - if your enjoying yourself, there's a good chance they will as well

All of us can be great, we just have to want it.
03/27/2011
Contributor: sexapus sexapus
Haven't had tried both so not incredibly sure myself, also I figured you meant for women as you said women know the area better. I have been told once by someone that she needed to recommend me to her friends
03/27/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
An inexperienced man or woman is not going to be better than someone from the opposite gender. I think its bad on experience and talent and not on gender specifically.
03/28/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
An inexperienced man or woman is not going to be better than someone from the opposite gender. I think its bad on experience and talent and not on gender specifically.
03/28/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Talent not gender is the key. An educated, attentive enthusiastic practitioner is going do well no matter what.

Educated - you have to know the lay of the land - where the nerve bundles are
Attentive - you have to pay attention to whats ... more
I agree.
04/06/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by oopsy
I've heard mixed reviews about women knowing the area better but men just going be expirience! Who's better in your opinion?
im working on getting a better BJ for my husband but hes amazing everytime he does oral on me!
04/08/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Not trying to brag, but my SO claims I do an amazing job giving her oral...better than the girls she has experienced. However, other guys have not been as successful. So, as stated earlier, you really cannot make a blanket statement!
04/08/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Talent not gender is the key. An educated, attentive enthusiastic practitioner is going do well no matter what.

Educated - you have to know the lay of the land - where the nerve bundles are
Attentive - you have to pay attention to whats ... more
I agree. Some girls respond well to soft and gentle, some like rough and fast, some like direct contact to the clit, some like it to be teased. Paying attention to what is working for that particular lady will prove to be much more important than your gender. Heck some women change based on their moods that day, or hour.

I have always worked to try many different methods during a session, trying to key in on what happens to be working that day, and some days just pure enthusiasm can do the trick--instinct and enthusiastic tongue play can do the trick quite well sometimes!!
04/09/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
Quote:
Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
it's the individual person and their talents, not their genitals,
and their ability to take direction and pick up on cues and show how much they love it
I agree. Being able to understand when I say that feels good and keep doing that. Not keep doing something that I say hurts. Hate when guys just do not listen.
04/11/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Guys are better then a lot of people give credit for, i know many lexbians n they said i was better then many girls they been with in the past.
04/11/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
Not sure. It just depends on the person
04/12/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
It really does depend on the person, every person male and female does it differently, but in my own experience, men have pleased me better. Then again, I'm straight so that could be part of it. I've never really been totally pleased with anyone's oral sex besides my current partners though.
08/20/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Don't know? never had a women give me oral.
08/20/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It depends on the person, not the gender.
08/20/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by oopsy
I've heard mixed reviews about women knowing the area better but men just going be expirience! Who's better in your opinion?
I have been with four chicks in my life... none were very good at eating pussy. I will take a guy any day.
08/23/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by oopsy
I've heard mixed reviews about women knowing the area better but men just going be expirience! Who's better in your opinion?
its an equal thing tho i have to say i love when they both go downat teh same time
08/23/2011