Whats the one piece of good advice all you women would give a guy on oral sex?

Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Ok... to the women here... I want your best tip or piece of advice on what to do (or what not to do) to best satisfy you when giving you oral sex. What's the one thing you'd like to get across to us on the "giving end" that would make your receiving that much better?
03/13/2011
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Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Don't speed up when you sense I am enjoying it...keep the pace the same. My husband tends to flick his tongue a little faster whenever I start moaning, and I have to remind him that I like what he's doing, no need to change the pace That said, he gives me EXCELLENT oral pleasure!
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Contributor: MMMARY MMMARY
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Originally posted by Kitt Katt
Don't speed up when you sense I am enjoying it...keep the pace the same. My husband tends to flick his tongue a little faster whenever I start moaning, and I have to remind him that I like what he's doing, no need to change the pace That ... more
YES! PAY ATTENTION. If I start responding to something, don't change it!
03/13/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Solar Ray
Ok... to the women here... I want your best tip or piece of advice on what to do (or what not to do) to best satisfy you when giving you oral sex. What's the one thing you'd like to get across to us on the "giving end" that would ... more
A woman will let you know by her body language what she likes and what she doesn't. If shes enjoying herself she will be a lot more active for you.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
The clit is a lot more sensitive than the penis. Harder and faster isn't always better. Take your time, don't rush and if you get bored, move on to something else. Don't do us any favors. I assure you that if she knows you don't want to be down there, she's not going to be having a good time.

Also, everyone is different! So like others said, take cues from her.
03/13/2011
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
What a woman wants can change depending on factors like has she come yet, are you using a vibe, how turned on she is when you start. Be open to changing it up along with her mood.
03/13/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Be patient and don't fall asleep.
03/13/2011
Contributor: AngelicaU AngelicaU
I definitely agree with the first two answers
03/13/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Ok... to the women here... I want your best tip or piece of advice on what to do (or what not to do) to best satisfy you when giving you oral sex. What's the one thing you'd like to get across to us on the "giving end" that would ... more
Love what you're doing or don't do it at all.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Do not fixate on the clit, but don't be afraid to suck on it. For the love of God, go slow and penetrate with your fingers at the same time. Mmmmm.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Crash Crash
Whoa good tips. I tend to pick up the pace :/. Oops. makes sense.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Pay attention to the way her hips are moving. If she's pressing her pelvis down with the mons (or mound) tilted toward you, she wants you to either up the pressure or move up to the more fleshy part of the clitoris instead of between the inner labia. Or both. If her hips are elevated and flush with your mouth/chin, you're probably doing exactly what she wants. If she's pulling back, definitely back off the pressure.

When I say she, I mean me. Every person is going to be different, your mileage may vary.
03/13/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I'll have to go along with the song:"I want a man with a slow hand, I need a lover with an easy touch. I want somebody who can spend some time, not come and go in a heated rush."
I also agree with TheSinDoll "Love what you're doing or don't do it at all"
03/14/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
I think every guy who enjoys cunnilingus is guilty of the tempo thing. When she gets excited, I get excited. And not in the "oh thank god I'm about to make her come and I can stop soon" but in the "holy crap she's so freakin hot when she starts bucking" sense. I constantly have to keep focused on her or else I just go off in my own world.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Work hard but be gentle. I love all the clit-licking, fingering and dildoing as long as my husband does them gently.
03/19/2011
Contributor: mkhotshot mkhotshot
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Originally posted by Solar Ray
Ok... to the women here... I want your best tip or piece of advice on what to do (or what not to do) to best satisfy you when giving you oral sex. What's the one thing you'd like to get across to us on the "giving end" that would ... more
Thank you for the tips. I have always had what I am told was a very good technique but I love hearing from interested parties what can make it better.

I ABSOLUTELY believe that if you don't like it, DON'T DO IT! Then work on liking it and DO IT RIGHT!
03/22/2011