What are the logistics of a surpirse morning BJ?

Contributor: finniberry15 finniberry15
I've heard guys talk about how much they love being woken up with a BJ in the morning, and I want to do it for my man on his birthday...but I'm not exactly sure how to go about it!! Do I wake him up?? Just head down there while he's still asleep and get going?? Any tips or advice, experiences??
04/30/2010
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04/30/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
Usually 1-2 a week I wake my man up with a morning BJ. It usually leads to morning sex which I'm a BIG fan of. It really depends on the day what we do. Sometimes he's already fully stiff and still dead asleep, this is the easiest way to just go at it without waking him up and allowing him to really wake up to morning head. If he is sorta awake I'll usually fondle him with my hand/grind my butt against him until he gets at least half hard then go at it. He is usually somewhat awake during this, but still sleepy enough that it isn't like he is awake fully.

Really, whatever works for the day. Feel what is right in the moment.
05/01/2010
Contributor: Army.Wife Army.Wife
I completely agree with JonsBabydoll but with one side note brush your teeth first and have mints on the night stand for him... Morning breath is a killer and kissing with morning breath is a turn off for both my husband and I so mints are a great quick fix.
05/02/2010
Contributor: Yesenia Yesenia
No do not wake him up Just head down there and get going he will enjoy waken up like this
05/03/2010
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
I don't wake him up, I will just grope around until I feel him getting hard and then slip under the blankets. I'm sure he will *love* it.
05/05/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I find a nice way to proceed with a special day type sex act is to slip your hands over his body until he naturally moves into a position you can access his cock and then kiss and lick all round the area, go for the main even and let him wake to a "good morning!"
05/07/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'm trying to figure out the reverse - how to successfully give her a surprise morning (not sure how you'd put it - I guess "surprise morning cunnilingus?") - but the problem is how to get down there and positioned without waking her up. Any tips? (I know this isn't strictly on-topic, but since it would also apply to morning BJs I thought I'd tack it on).
05/08/2010
Contributor: luvinluv luvinluv
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Originally posted by ScottA
I'm trying to figure out the reverse - how to successfully give her a surprise morning (not sure how you'd put it - I guess "surprise morning cunnilingus?") - but the problem is how to get down there and positioned without waking ... more
Honestly, I would have to say if you really don't want to wake her, it would depend on how she sleeps:} If she is in fetal position you may be able to get down below her and get between her legs while they are closed and just use the very tip of the tounge;I personally like being liked like that anyways:} And she may just roll over on to her back so you can get at her. Just a suggestion, it's worth a try :}
05/08/2010
Contributor: Darling Dove Darling Dove
My worry about morning sex thing is I always.. always... ALWAYS have to pee when I wake up and I WILL NOT enjoy anything done while I feel like I'm about to wet myself xD
TMI but, as far as I know, dont most people have to pee when they wake up? I dunno. I'm just not sure it would work as well with girls since, guys, I know they kinda cant pee when they're hard, but with girls we don't really have that luxury. I don't anyways.
05/08/2010
Contributor: sexyeri sexyeri
Definitely better without waking him up first. My husband lovessssss it! If you cant get to it then wake him with some tongue action else where on the body. Pee thing can sometimes be a problem.
06/09/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I've done it a few times but mostly ive done it in the middle of the night, when I cant sleep. I check to see if he is hard or semi-hard and work at it until he is hard then I just ride him until he comes!
06/10/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
My b/f is usually almost rock hard in the am, I will sometimes move down and work his cock with my mouth. He usually wakes up just as he starts to ejaculate, if he wakes up prior to ejaculating, I lie back and he fucks me....too bad we are always rushed, have different schedules and he does not live with me.....
06/10/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
If he is asleep I always give him a quick little stroke first. If he comes to attention, I go for it. Trust me, no man should ever get upset with you for waking him this way.
06/29/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
I just go down on my husband, he loves when I wake him up that way. I start with his testicles first, which makes him hard....
07/31/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by ScottA
I'm trying to figure out the reverse - how to successfully give her a surprise morning (not sure how you'd put it - I guess "surprise morning cunnilingus?") - but the problem is how to get down there and positioned without waking ... more
Scott, I usually wake up with a Stiffy stuck into my back and a "Hey, ya wanna?" or says nothing. Or he heads South, while I'm not awake yet. Being a woman, I like to go pee, brush my teeth, wake up, take my morning meds and get a drink of water first, so after he "wakes" me, he usually has to wait a few minutes.

I can't come if I have to pee, so that's necessary. He also needs to plan this Wake Up carefully. If I was up with a fussy baby all night, or something, it is NOT the day to do this.
07/31/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
For My Man, I just dive on Down and get to work. Sometimes, then he wakes up and has to pee, and that may take a while, if he's got hard. I can hear him getting frustrated in the bathroom, because he wants to get back to me, but needs to pee, too.

Sometimes just hugging, kissing and stroking him is enough, and he can pee before full Hard Mode happens.

I've actually TRIED to do this in the evening, if he falls asleep first (he always tells me one of his favorite things is to be woken up during a blow job) but at night, he sleeps like a log. I've gone at it for as long as 15 minutes with him snoring away. What a waste of half a boner.
07/31/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by P'Gell
For My Man, I just dive on Down and get to work. Sometimes, then he wakes up and has to pee, and that may take a while, if he's got hard. I can hear him getting frustrated in the bathroom, because he wants to get back to me, but needs to pee, ... more
Haha, that's a great battle, to satisfy self or to please thy self. My guy also has a dog so sometimes when a BJ is going on and we can hear the dog whining on the other side, it becomes a little LOL moment.

I'll do this every once in a while to change things around. I thing when he is sleeping is fun. To catch him off guard completely is great. Also, when he is slightly awake but drifting back to sleep is a good time.
08/03/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Scott, I usually wake up with a Stiffy stuck into my back and a "Hey, ya wanna?" or says nothing. Or he heads South, while I'm not awake yet. Being a woman, I like to go pee, brush my teeth, wake up, take my morning meds and get a drink ... more
I've kind of given up on the idea of waking her up with oral. I mow save it for "Act two" and get her up with something else.
08/04/2010
Contributor: liljeepr liljeepr
I tried this a few times and my hubby actually got mad (yes, I know, he's weird; every guy he's talked to thinks he's insane for not liking to be woke up that way). Don't get me wrong, he LOVES BJ's, but he's NOT a morning person. I mean, he is GRUM-PY when he wakes up. I thought this would help him wake up in a good mood, but it just made him mad. Now, once he wakes up, then it's time for a BJ.

If your man really, really isn't a morning person, I would proceed with caution!
08/05/2010
Contributor: happeegrl03 happeegrl03
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Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
Usually 1-2 a week I wake my man up with a morning BJ. It usually leads to morning sex which I'm a BIG fan of. It really depends on the day what we do. Sometimes he's already fully stiff and still dead asleep, this is the easiest way to ... more
HAHA! I have a funny story about this. Once upon a time when I was married, I woke him up by fondling him with my mouth. He awoke and liked it and then had me climb on top of him. So, I did. Halfway through the sex he looked at me and said "omg, are you raping me?". HAHA! It turns out that he was not really awake until that moment. I bet to this day he still thinks he had nothing to do with me begin on top of him.
08/05/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
Usually 1-2 a week I wake my man up with a morning BJ. It usually leads to morning sex which I'm a BIG fan of. It really depends on the day what we do. Sometimes he's already fully stiff and still dead asleep, this is the easiest way to ... more
Took the words right out of my mouth!
08/05/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by ScottA
I've kind of given up on the idea of waking her up with oral. I mow save it for "Act two" and get her up with something else.
"Act two", lol.

My man doesn't wake me up with oral but he does touch me and I love being woken in this way if I have sufficiantly slept. Then we move onto the following "Acts"
08/08/2010
Contributor: joja joja
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
"Act two", lol.

My man doesn't wake me up with oral but he does touch me and I love being woken in this way if I have sufficiantly slept. Then we move onto the following "Acts"
This. I love being woken up with a nice massage, moving on to my breasts and mound, etc. Then I can decide for myself where I want it to go next.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
My boyfriend is an insanely hard sleeper and I'm quite shy. I think I'd die if he didn't wake up from a morning blowjob. I wanna do it though.. but he tosses and turns... so I've gotten him on his back and thought about it.. but chickened out. I suck. ><!
08/10/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by Army.Wife
I completely agree with JonsBabydoll but with one side note brush your teeth first and have mints on the night stand for him... Morning breath is a killer and kissing with morning breath is a turn off for both my husband and I so mints are a great ... more
I totally aggree with the breath mints. LOL, talk about ruining the mood a few times, all cause we were in to much of a hurt to brush out teeth and well breathminds I dont think were close by.
08/17/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i sneak my hand down his pants, get it hard or hard enough, and start sucking it. he loves it. or sometime he wakes up with a woodie. those case, i go right at it.
10/16/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I've really been wanting to do this, but I'm kind of a chicken, too. My boyfriend has told me he'd like it, but still. When I try doing things with him while he's tired, he doesn't like it, which is understandable. But I guess I'm afraid he'll wake up and be mad if I try giving him a BJ while he's sleeping. I'll still try it eventually. Hopefully.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
I've really been wanting to do this, but I'm kind of a chicken, too. My boyfriend has told me he'd like it, but still. When I try doing things with him while he's tired, he doesn't like it, which is understandable. But I guess ... more
I'm the same.
He says he'd love it, but he sleeps so wildly... and what if my actions don't wake him.. or something. I don't know.
10/16/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Illusional
I'm the same.
He says he'd love it, but he sleeps so wildly... and what if my actions don't wake him.. or something. I don't know.
As a potential reciever I'd be worried that I might work it into a dream and say something embarassing.

Not that that would happen, but I'd be worried all the same.
10/16/2010