Trying to get past the gag of swallowing

Contributor: TheSexista TheSexista
For all you oral sex pros I need some help. I have a very bag gag reflex and damn near about puke from swallowing. Is there anything that helps? I have tried the throat lubes and stuff like that. Is it just experience that helps or is there any lil trick to get it down without getting sick?

My hubby swears it feels better if he cums in my mouth (not sure if that is BS or not) but his semen is so thick I have a very hard time getting it down and normally pull out when he is about to cum.

He does not complain about it but has said it feels better for him when he cums in my mouth.
07/24/2010
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I agree - but swallowing involves a lot of variables and is likely not an option for everyone. For our first 10-12 years my wife would not do it. Then on her own she decided to 'grow up' and stop acting like a teenager (her words).

She normally can tell when I'm going to cum and will back-off enough to keep me from shooting in the back of her throat - but recently she didn't pick up the impending shot. It caused her to choke a bit - but not drastically.

So I guess the advice would be to have your partner signal what's going to happen so you can prepare. BTW - pineapple is reported to enhance the taste of both your secretions and his semen. I drink it some - I think it's more important stay hydrated so that the semen isn't too thick.

It's easy to try - promise him you'll try if he agrees to drink plenty of water for a couple of days prior to - can't hurt to try!

I applaud your desire to satisfy your partner - I'm sure he'll be grateful
07/24/2010
Contributor: Taylor Violet LXIX Taylor Violet LXIX
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Originally posted by TheSexista
For all you oral sex pros I need some help. I have a very bag gag reflex and damn near about puke from swallowing. Is there anything that helps? I have tried the throat lubes and stuff like that. Is it just experience that helps or is there any lil ... more
Your partner sounds like he could be dehydrated if his semen is remarkably thick. Lots of water and citrus fruits should improve the consistency, which makes swallowing easier. I've also picked up a trick I learned (in choir funny enough), but if you drop your jaw and relax your throat the cum just kind of sails in without making too much contact with the tongue and tastebuds

Hope this helps, and your dedication is sweet. =]
07/24/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Taylor Violet LXIX
Your partner sounds like he could be dehydrated if his semen is remarkably thick. Lots of water and citrus fruits should improve the consistency, which makes swallowing easier. I've also picked up a trick I learned (in choir funny enough), but if ... more
I second all this
07/24/2010
Contributor: TheSexista TheSexista
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I agree - but swallowing involves a lot of variables and is likely not an option for everyone. For our first 10-12 years my wife would not do it. Then on her own she decided to 'grow up' and stop acting like a teenager (her words).

She ... more
Hey Gun, Thanks for the message! It is greatley appreciated! Will have to try the pineapple!!!!!
07/24/2010
Contributor: TheSexista TheSexista
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor Violet LXIX
Your partner sounds like he could be dehydrated if his semen is remarkably thick. Lots of water and citrus fruits should improve the consistency, which makes swallowing easier. I've also picked up a trick I learned (in choir funny enough), but if ... more
Hi Sissor,
He drinks a massive amount of water. I mean a lot, so I wonder if he could be dehydrated?

Gonna have to try and drop the jar! I can not believe you learned it in Choir! How funny! Do I even wanna know what you were up too that day... HE HE
07/24/2010
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I can usually tell when he is about to finish and I aim it towards my cheek to that it does not hit the back of my throat
07/24/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
The further back his cock is in my mouth, I don't even feel it or taste his cum. It helped me to practice deep throating with progressively larger dils. It helped my gag reflex (it was bad) and now I just try to get his cock back as far as possible as he is about to cum.
The taste depends on diet, suggestions above are right on. The thickness? Hydrating should help as well as an earlier masturbation session.....
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