Sorry Man, I think you either like it or you don't. I like giving BJ's to my husband anytime!I don't like him going down on me...weird I know but he doesn't complain!

I think you might want to try asking her why she's not in the mood to do it at other times. If she can tell you what it is about it that she doesn't like maybe that will help figure out what can be done to make it more enjoyable for her. It's possible that maybe a yummy tasting lube could help (I like sliquid swirl) or maybe if she learned other techniques then just the standard suck and bob. (I don't mean to sound as if that's what she does since I obviously have NO idea..I'm just saying back when that was all I did I didn't like it so much) If I go back and forth between nibbles and licks and sucking it makes it a lot more enjoyable for me and my jaw doesn't get as tired. It's all important that my husband is closely trimmed down there and that he's showered recently because that is one sweaty area!

Another thing that could be is what you do while she gives it. I personally never liked it when exes would just lay there and give me no clue how they were enjoying it. I certainly have no issues with them laying back and enjoying..but at least give some feedback. Also I have been with guys who like to thrust their cock into my mouth. I now like when my husband does that..but when I was first starting to give oral sex I did not like that, I needed to go at my own pace and control the depth.

I personally like giving my husband oral sex but I do not like giving blow jobs to completion. My jaw gets tired and that gets painful after a while and also I have never been a huge fan of the consistency of cum. So, while I'll gladly give oral each time we have sex..heck I CRAVE giving it to him, I only actually give a blow job to completion maybe a few times a year. Which, works for him anyway because he likes to cum when inside me and for us blow jobs are just part of foreplay.