Teaching A New Partner

Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Did your partner 'teach' you what they wanted orally, or did you just learn as you went? Did you have to 'teach' them what to do, or did they learn on their own? How important was it to communicate as you were starting that type of play together?
03/15/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: married with children married with children
we just learned as we went. We have only been with each other. And this has not been a problem. We know what each other likes and what works for us.
03/15/2013
Contributor: kandy anjel kandy anjel
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Did your partner 'teach' you what they wanted orally, or did you just learn as you went? Did you have to 'teach' them what to do, or did they learn on their own? How important was it to communicate as you were starting that type of play together?
i just go with the flow
03/15/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Lets just say I had plenty of experience before meeting my wife - and I had also done a lot of research and reading about what women like.

From there it just takes attentiveness. You should be able to tell by your partner's progression of arousal if your doing well. If she's not getting wetter and more turned on - you're in trouble. Change strategy or move on - she may be craving something else.

My wife doesn't like 'instructing' me, so we stay tuned in to one another - although the occasional request is always honored.
03/16/2013