A young office mate of mine is in "early dating" of a really sweet young gal, but he went out with her KNOWING she had just been "on a date" earlier with another guy. SHE didn't let him know...but he had seen them.

They ended up in bed and he "immediately knew" she had slept with this other dude.

His rule would have been "condom time", but she is on the pill and he had none, so he had to decide, "ask her about it", "back out of the sex tonight", or "go for the sloppy seconds". He is young, horny and admits it was better to have "second course" sex then none. He went for it.

Now, regular intercourse is one thing, but what actually DID "oogg out" a bunch of folks (male and female) in the office is that he performed ORAL on her...knowing this other guy had been there. About 75 percent of the ten of us there said they might be okay with the regular intercourse in that scenario, but no one else said they would even think to do oral.

Would YOU go there? Ladies, is it okay to have a guy "go there..orally" without telling him "someone was there, VERY recently before him"? less

A young office mate of mine is in "early dating" of a really sweet young gal, but he went out with her KNOWING she had just been "on a date" earlier with another guy. SHE didn't let him know...but he had seen them.

They ended up in bed and he "immediately knew" she had slept with this other dude.

His rule would have been "condom time", but she is on the pill and he had none, so he had to decide, "ask her about it", "back out of the sex tonight", or "go for the sloppy seconds". He is young, horny and admits it was better to have "second course" sex then none. He went for it.

Now, regular intercourse is one thing, but what actually DID "oogg out" a bunch of folks (male and female) in the office is that he performed ORAL on her...knowing this other guy had been there. About 75 percent of the ten of us there said they might be okay with the regular intercourse in that scenario, but no one else said they would even think to do oral.

Would YOU go there? Ladies, is it okay to have a guy "go there..orally" without telling him "someone was there, VERY recently before him"? less

A young office mate of mine is in "early dating" of a really sweet young gal, but he went out with her KNOWING she had just been "on a date" earlier with another guy. SHE didn't let him know...but he had seen them.

They ended up in bed and he "immediately knew" she had slept with this other dude.

His rule would have been "condom time", but she is on the pill and he had none, so he had to decide, "ask her about it", "back out of the sex tonight", or "go for the sloppy seconds". He is young, horny and admits it was better to have "second course" sex then none. He went for it.

Now, regular intercourse is one thing, but what actually DID "oogg out" a bunch of folks (male and female) in the office is that he performed ORAL on her...knowing this other guy had been there. About 75 percent of the ten of us there said they might be okay with the regular intercourse in that scenario, but no one else said they would even think to do oral.

Would YOU go there? Ladies, is it okay to have a guy "go there..orally" without telling him "someone was there, VERY recently before him"? less