Orgasm from BJ

Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
Guys how long does it take you to cum from a BJ?
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3  (18%)
14  (82%)
Total votes: 17
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12/22/2017
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Room for 'Other' here. As a young man I would say I had PE (premature ejaculation) issues - a good BJ would have me finished in 1-2 minutes.

As an 'elder statesmen' (going on 64) I rarely orgasm at all - and never from oral - maybe I shouldn't say never, I can think of once in the last couple of years.
12/22/2017
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
I voted 5 minutes, though in reality it is often much more. There were times in the past that, due to extended foreplay I orgasmed in just a few seconds or under a minute. Mostly now it takes a while, maybe up to 15 minutes, if at all. I also am older, so that factors in. Often it starts with oral and ends up something else to climax. I envy those guys who get off quickly with oral.
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Contributor: spacepotato11 spacepotato11
Actually, for me it depends on the intensity, our mood and some other factors, but in overall I could say it's in the 10 up to 30 minutes range. Keep it hard on
05/03/2018
Contributor: ud328 ud328
Takes me a while to cum from oral but that doesn't mean I don't love it! It's just not as overwhelmingly stimulating as penetrative sex. Even better I last significantly longer during sex after a good blowjob.
12/19/2018
Contributor: kissHIGH kissHIGH
You are an expert so!!!!
02/14/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
For my fiance, blowjob rarely ends in orgasm. To reach the peak, he has to be in control, and during the BJ, I'm the one controlling the scene, It certainly brings him to the peak, and I think there was a couple of times he came during the process, but he usually stops me when he feels like it's getting hard to handle, and proceeds to penetration - that is what gets him off.

On the other hand - no pun intended - if I top off the blowjob with a handjob, he orgasms 7 out of 10 times. Don't know what's the deal with that, but I'm guessing my hands can't be softer than my mouth, huh?
02/19/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
For my fiance, blowjob rarely ends in orgasm. To reach the peak, he has to be in control, and during the BJ, I'm the one controlling the scene, It certainly brings him to the peak, and I think there was a couple of times he came during the ... more
You are right - your hands are harder than your mouth - and more to the point, they can apply more pressure than your mouth can ever provide.

In the old days my wife always used her hands for a BJ - I considered it 'cheating' because she really wasn't giving me a BJ at all - which was obvious when I would cum and she would pull her mouth away.

Things have changed, she actually likes giving BJs and loves for me to cum in her mouth - the problem is, at my age that's nearly impossible.

The irony of the duality is rather disappointing.
02/22/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
You are right - your hands are harder than your mouth - and more to the point, they can apply more pressure than your mouth can ever provide.

In the old days my wife always used her hands for a BJ - I considered it 'cheating' because ... more
Dear Gunsmoke,
I got an impression from your comment that your wife didn't like giving you BJs before, hence she was using her hands more. Guess I got that wrong?

So, any blowjob with some hands stuff involved would be "cheating"? How about mixing it up a bit? After all, the word of mouth is that the best blowjob is a handjob a little bit
02/26/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
Dear Gunsmoke,
I got an impression from your comment that your wife didn't like giving you BJs before, hence she was using her hands more. Guess I got that wrong?

So, any blowjob with some hands stuff involved would be ... more
I don't want to misstate the situation. I love HJs - not quite as much as BJs, but they are still great. What I was trying to communicate is that as a young woman my wife's BJ 'enthusiasm' left something to be desired.

When you have to ask 100% of the time - and when the resulting BJ turns out to be a tongue assisted HJ - it just wasn't worth it.

The irony is that her enthusiasm now is now fantastic - she tries to deep throat me (nearly succeeding), never uses her hands and begs me to cum in her mouth. But at 65, for me that's nearly impossible. I feel bad that I can't give her what she wants
02/28/2019
Contributor: Sam Man Sam Man
Quote:
Originally posted by AlaskanBeauty
Guys how long does it take you to cum from a BJ?
Although I voted 5 minutes, it can depend on many factors....sometimes longer rarely less than 5 minutes. If you massage my prostate while giving me a blowjob it might takes less time...
08/01/2019
Contributor: NinaH NinaH
I don't know for sure, but I guess it takes a bit more than 5 minutes for my partner to cum from BJ. Sometimes he can last over 10 mins. And now I wonder, maybe I'm not so great at giving BJ
08/09/2019
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
It varies. Usually around 4 or more minutes. I have ejaculated in a minute before and longer than 10 minutes.
08/11/2019
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
Quote:
Originally posted by NinaH
I don't know for sure, but I guess it takes a bit more than 5 minutes for my partner to cum from BJ. Sometimes he can last over 10 mins. And now I wonder, maybe I'm not so great at giving BJ
Finger in the butthole might help.
08/11/2019
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I have so seldom been able to orgasm from oral that each time is a memorable event. The last time anyone has been able to give me that particular pleasure was more than ten years ago.

Back then I was dating a Transgender Woman. On one of our dates we were intimate and I found that either she was orally skilled beyond anyone I've ever been with or perhaps it was that I was overwhelmingly enamored with her... probably both. In any case, she was able to suck me to orgasm not once but twice back to back. I still remember that date in great detail. As it turned out our relationship did not last and for a while I was heartbroken. A few years ago we reconnected but as friends. Though we will never again be lovers, we do still love each other but now as friends.
06/16/2020
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by AlaskanBeauty
Guys how long does it take you to cum from a BJ?
My partner takes a lot longer than 5 minutes, but he can cum from oral.
08/08/2020