Oral and manual or just oral?

Contributor: BrokeNHorny BrokeNHorny
I'm always looking for ways to improve my game, so I'd like to ask all you ladies a question. When getting oral, do you like it better if your partner also uses their hand (g spot or something like that), or do you prefer oral alone? Also, any tips would be nice. My partner is not inclined toward oral sex, but I always like to surprise her by making it great.
05/22/2009
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Contributor: DreamyLove DreamyLove
When my partner just uses his mouth, it feels amazing, but for me, him using his fingers or a toy during oral enhances it and takes it to another level. I wouldn't say one is better than the other personally.
05/22/2009
Contributor: bodymodboy bodymodboy
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I'm always looking for ways to improve my game, so I'd like to ask all you ladies a question. When getting oral, do you like it better if your partner also uses their hand (g spot or something like that), or do you prefer oral alone? Also, ... more
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05/22/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I would say I probably prefer just oral but it's a personal question and answers will vary.
05/23/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It really depends. Oral alone is great, but manual stimulation with it is also great. I also like when he uses anal toys while doing oral.
05/23/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
For me, it depends on the day, mood, and time. I love oral that is unhurried w/o the pressure of my partner wanting to immed. penetrate me and fuck.

Also communicate...listen for feedback.
05/23/2009
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
Just oral alone doesn't quite do it for me. I like a bit more. fingers, a toy. I like it when my partner keeps it interesting.
05/24/2009
Contributor: deceased deceased
Depends on my partner. My hands are usually busy when my mouth is busy, but then sometimes she reaches the point where she has to have something in her like a hand or a dildo.
06/10/2009
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Both are pretty awesome in my opinion.
06/10/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
For me, it depends on my mood, his mood, the timing, and just general circumstances. Sometimes, oral alone is great and sometimes additional stimulation is great! Just talk to her and keep the communicaiton lines open. I agree with Playful Grrl- both are pretty awesome!
06/11/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
Oral on the clit is wonderful by itself or the vagina by itself, but when both are being stimulated at the same time--dynamite!
07/21/2009
Contributor: Miss Jane Miss Jane
I like an alternation. Just manual, just oral, and both.. switched up. It also depends on the particular mood I'm in. A tip I would give is to ask what she wants at that particular moment; if you do it in dirty talk, it will both turn her on (assuming she likes that, if not, I'd just ask flat out), and let you know exactly what she wants.
12/22/2009
Contributor: P-townGal P-townGal
I like both!! Call me greedy, but there is something amazing about a mixture of sensations depending on the intensity of the moment. I do the same for my male partner - using my hands & mouth, just hands, and just mouth at different points in the session. I love having oral on the clit while being penetrated with fingers - ooooolala
12/23/2009
Contributor: Saraid Saraid
If I have penetration I can't really concentrate on the sensations on my clit, which I need to do to get off, so for me no penetration.
12/23/2009
Contributor: xsapphirexangelx xsapphirexangelx
i agree with saraid. its distracting to me althoght i prefer a mixture of sensations. i had and ex inform me after the split that just oral was boring to her, but she was kinda rude about it. cominicationg is absoultly vital know what your partner likes. if its distracting to talk during talk after and tell them how much you liked a particlar move or not, and ask qesions. its all about preferences.
12/30/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
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Originally posted by P-townGal
I like both!! Call me greedy, but there is something amazing about a mixture of sensations depending on the intensity of the moment. I do the same for my male partner - using my hands & mouth, just hands, and just mouth at different points in ... more
I am so in agreement with everything you said. For me, it's the only way to fly.
12/30/2009
Contributor: Inkblot Inkblot
I like it when he switches between just oral and oral + fingers. (Not a fan of toys during oral for some reason.) When he's using his fingers, it almost becomes a sensation overload and so what he's doing to my clit with his mouth/tongue can be very light and still send me over the edge! lol
02/21/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I agree with the other posters who said just ask her what she prefers. I like both but I also like just oral.
02/21/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I've never had a partner skilled enough to give me a good orgasm by oral alone. So I will enjoy oral, but I'll need some manual eventually.
02/21/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife seemed to loose interest in oral for a long time. My 'routine' included manual stimulation with my fingers - but 'routine' is generally a bad idea when it comes to any type of stimulation!

Recently my wife started shaving her vulva - and I started mixing in various toys and it seems she's fallen in love with oral again! BTW - she's also started squirting which makes it more interesting for both of us! Desert anyone!
02/21/2010
Contributor: Domineight Domineight
I love the use of fingers but usually once I'm already all warmed up. I require a lot of teasing with oral, though I'm sure a lot of women would think, "Enough with the teasing already. Get down to business!"
02/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
My fiance had gotten used to just performing oral when he was with his previous partner, so it took a few months to retrain him for my preferences. While yes, I can achieve an orgasm with just oral alone, it almost seems unfulfilling without something inside of me. We haven't started playing with toys during this yet, but we do plan to in the future.
02/24/2010
Contributor: northstar northstar
Definitely manual as well as oral. I really require g-spot stimulation to get close to orgasm and to take the focus off my clit which often becomes too sensitive. It's pretty much impossible for me to actually go over the edge without a vibe, so will definitely be introducing that soon!
12/03/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I'm always looking for ways to improve my game, so I'd like to ask all you ladies a question. When getting oral, do you like it better if your partner also uses their hand (g spot or something like that), or do you prefer oral alone? Also, ... more
I like mouth and fingers simultaneously
12/03/2010
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
It really depends. A lot of times, though, it's really nice to have some fingers to at least squeeze around. Guys shouldn't hesitate to ask us about it! I think most of us appreciate the thought.
12/04/2010
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
I'm always looking for ways to improve my game, so I'd like to ask all you ladies a question. When getting oral, do you like it better if your partner also uses their hand (g spot or something like that), or do you prefer oral alone? Also, ... more
I love just oral, but occasionally a middle finger is used for g spot...both are amazing!
12/05/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by darkkitty
I love just oral, but occasionally a middle finger is used for g spot...both are amazing!
I like moving between the two. When I give her both fingers and tongue the stimulation is so obviously more intense for her.
12/05/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I mostly just like oral. Him licking my clit and pinching my nipples is plenty to make me cum. Manual stimulation in general doesn't really do a whole lot for me.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I prefer oral with a little manual. Most of the time, I rarely get oral anyway, so when it happens, I am instantly almost at my peak.
12/05/2010