Wow, such a great question!
Had my tongue pierced a couple of years ago and wore the piercing for like a year and a half. Blowjobs was one of the biggest things we were looking forward to.

I'm sure that it was 100% a personal experience, and it, in no possible ways, means you could experience any of the same issues. Just feel like I can give you an idea of what you can avoid to stay safe.

The first couple of time felt invigorating, interesting, very unique, but as time passed and the novice wore off, I started feeling deeply uncomfortable. Any hard thrusting and rough throat humping were off limits because it could hurt my tongue really badly. Some moves worked on him perfectly, while some other moves felt off - especially doing something with the frenulum, which, I believed, would have been the best part. He got very sensitive, and the cold metal felt intimidating instead of refreshing and sexy.

I'm very sorry to throw shade like this, and I'm sure everything will work fine with your piercing, Just make sure not to wear any particularly "fun" options, with bling or charms or some other pizzazz. Stay simple, and keep the pole of the piercing as short as possible for when you're going down on him.

Best of luck! Please keep us posted! less

Wow, such a great question!
Had my tongue pierced a couple of years ago and wore the piercing for like a year and a half. Blowjobs was one of the biggest things we were looking forward to.

I'm sure that it was 100% a personal experience, and it, in no possible ways, means you could experience any of the same issues. Just feel like I can give you an idea of what you can avoid to stay safe.

The first couple of time felt invigorating, interesting, very unique, but as time passed and the novice wore off, I started feeling deeply uncomfortable. Any hard thrusting and rough throat humping were off limits because it could hurt my tongue really badly. Some moves worked on him perfectly, while some other moves felt off - especially doing something with the frenulum, which, I believed, would have been the best part. He got very sensitive, and the cold metal felt intimidating instead of refreshing and sexy.

I'm very sorry to throw shade like this, and I'm sure everything will work fine with your piercing, Just make sure not to wear any particularly "fun" options, with bling or charms or some other pizzazz. Stay simple, and keep the pole of the piercing as short as possible for when you're going down on him.

Best of luck! Please keep us posted! less

I am by no means an expert - but it seems to me that the fad of tongue piercing seems to have faded - probably due to the issues you described - not to mention potential tooth and gum damage.

For what it's worth - if you feel the need of a piercing, I'd say get something else pierced less

I used to have my tongue pierced and my husband loved it. Pushing my tongue stud firmly against the bottom of the head of his penis on and off always yielded great results.

We also bought a vibrating tongue stud that we loved. It felt a little strange at first but the effect it had was well worth it. less

Well, I already have pierced nipples, haha.

A lot of the issue with tooth and gum damage is where the tongue is pierced. If it is placed too far forward it constantly hits the teeth and gums.

I was actually very lucky with my tongue piercing. After doing a lot of research on piercers, I went to the best one in the area.

My tongue piercing was actually done so that it does not not my teeth or gums. She put it in literally the perfect spot. Once my piercing healed, I changed to a shorter bar, and I barely even notice I have it most of the time. less

I'm so glad you are happy with the experience. It is good to know that someone has it going for them.

About your experience with blowjobs - that is all definitely disappointing, but it's not your fault in any way. Although we didn't face the same problem, because my fiance was circumcised, we had our struggles, as well.

To ease the foreskin stretching process, may I suggest penis pumps? A slight pump of two during the day could make his skin more used to the sensations of being stretched, after some time resulting in relieving the tightness

Hope this helps! less