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Contributor: crushemall crushemall
I've read so much sex lit, advice, columns, talkshows, and my own personal experience that I'm usually overwhelmed with techniques ... I really love to give oral and hand jobs, and preference really does depend on the person, but I'm eager to find out what the most popular choices are.

Feel free to add your own preferences in the comments. I'm excited to hear what most men lost most!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
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Total votes: 218 (96 voters)
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09/20/2010
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09/20/2010
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
I starting voting in the boxes then stopped to realize, FUCK, its all good. I love the variety.
09/20/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by Penguin
I starting voting in the boxes then stopped to realize, FUCK, its all good. I love the variety.
haha Gotta agree with Penguin on this in'

its like an Arby's Menu to me... I want and love it all
09/21/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
I've got to agree with Penguin and Viktor too - it's all good
09/28/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I voted on behalf of my guy just to bump this topic, I actually like it a lot. Very interesting to see where the majority of dudes - at least in this forum - stand on blowjob preferences.

I actually just learned something new here: "Hands continuously stroking down on cock, simulating penetration again and again"

My partner LOVES this and I always just kind of thought it was a quirk that we accidentally stumbled upon one day. Now I know it's "a thing" and that others like it too. Very cool
09/28/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Too many magazines and books talk about the "two hands twisting in different directions" method. My Man doesn't even seem to notice (he notices he's getting a Blow Job, but I'm thinking, "This is NOT easy. Look what I'm doing!" I've pretty much given up on that technique, as other things, like DT etc seem to excite him more.
09/28/2010
Contributor: crushemall crushemall
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Too many magazines and books talk about the "two hands twisting in different directions" method. My Man doesn't even seem to notice (he notices he's getting a Blow Job, but I'm thinking, "This is NOT easy. Look what I'm ... more
I totally agree, it totally takes work!! I've heard so much about the hands twisting in opposite directions while simultaneously using your mouth. No one seems to appreciate this move as much as some of my others, which is what lead me to this poll ... sex books/articles definitely pull some shit out of their asses.
10/07/2010
Contributor: crushemall crushemall
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I voted on behalf of my guy just to bump this topic, I actually like it a lot. Very interesting to see where the majority of dudes - at least in this forum - stand on blowjob preferences.

I actually just learned something new here: ... more
Yeah, it totally depends on my partner, some are indifferent, some LOOOOVE it. If I had a penis, I would totally love it!!
10/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Too many magazines and books talk about the "two hands twisting in different directions" method. My Man doesn't even seem to notice (he notices he's getting a Blow Job, but I'm thinking, "This is NOT easy. Look what I'm ... more
I know right! I read about all sorts of weird techniques and all I am thinking is I feel like I'm trying to start a fire with a stick and my man is looking at me weird...

He would have to say that his favorite is when I use hand and mouth and add the occasional ball licking in between. His favorite technique is when my hand follows my mouth in the up and down movement and and I move up I squeeze my hand so its tighter and I flick my wrist at the same time. Once I start he is paralyzed!
10/13/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Quote:
Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
haha Gotta agree with Penguin on this in'

its like an Arby's Menu to me... I want and love it all
lol
10/13/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I know right! I read about all sorts of weird techniques and all I am thinking is I feel like I'm trying to start a fire with a stick and my man is looking at me weird...

He would have to say that his favorite is when I use hand and mouth ... more
Yeah, save us from Cosmo! My (least) favorite "trick" from Cosmo was "frozen grapes place in your vagina during oral sex, and then keep them in during intercourse." WHAT THE FUCK? Really.

Sugar containing food, and breakable stuff in your puss, that would be really difficult to remove? I can't imagine how this could be good for your body.

I think they sit around and just think up stuff no one has done. Weird.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
I voted other. My wife won't do oral, but I have been in relationships in the past with woman who did. This one woman did something she called "The Swirl". I don't know where her hands were. All I know is WOW, and I think I passed out!

My wife has a way of stroking me where she splits her fingers lightly and gently over the top and bottom of me, and that is very enjoyable.

But I gotta agree with Penguin, Viktor, and B8trDude, It's ALL good!!

As I like to say, happiness is a well chocked chicken!
11/22/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Yup, like others it is all good. I will add a finger or toy in my butt will put me over the edge, and fast.
11/22/2010
Contributor: Blu Blu
It's all good!
11/22/2010
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
The head in her mouth while one hand does the twisting motion while imitating the mouth up and down.
12/13/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Voted for hubby. He would be "all the above"
12/15/2010
Contributor: menotu menotu
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I've read so much sex lit, advice, columns, talkshows, and my own personal experience that I'm usually overwhelmed with techniques ... I really love to give oral and hand jobs, and preference really does depend on the person, but I'm ... more
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12/27/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I voted for my husband "all the above" I am always looking for new techniques though
01/05/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Voting for my man on this one... two things he would add are: he likes to see cheek bulging and also eye contact.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Need to add some p-spot stimulation to the options
01/20/2011
Contributor: Mnemosyne Mnemosyne
All of the above.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Kinkypixie Kinkypixie
Its interesting to hear what guys have to say
01/27/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
He loves when I play with "the boys." Just loves it. He unintentionally will knock my head away with his knee, if I suck on them, it get so intense.
02/08/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I don't see any finger in the butt/cock in the mouth on the list, and that tops everything up there.

The other thing I don't hear often is sticking your tongue out as far as it'll go and pressing it as hard as you can against the shaft. He ought to last through about 20 seconds of that.
02/08/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
My guy likes me to give as much attention to his balls as I give to his cock. He also likes me kissing it, nuzzling it, and stroking one side with my cheek against the other side. Those I think are mainly for cute appeal, though. And he likes deepthroating, gagging or no.
04/20/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I've read so much sex lit, advice, columns, talkshows, and my own personal experience that I'm usually overwhelmed with techniques ... I really love to give oral and hand jobs, and preference really does depend on the person, but I'm ... more
As others say, anything is good. However, for me the very best is one hand on cock twisting and stroking, other hand on balls/perineum and finger teasing then entering anus.
04/20/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
He: Both hands - One on the balls, or the penis. The other playing a little lower.

She: He actually said "cock," but I'm too much of a nerd to type that. Except right there, in quotes.
04/22/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
As long as her mouth and hands are doing something it's good for me.
04/24/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My hubby likes my mouth and hands all over his cock and balls except his tip - said it's way too sensitive.
04/25/2011