MEN: Do you get turned on by gagging during oral sex?

Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Do you get turned on when your partner gags while deep-throating/ giving oral? If so, why? Answer the poll and explain below.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
Sir
1  (3%)
No
OhMy! , Endocott , OhioJoe , slynch , leatherlover , RonLee , Howells , Jul!a , EastCoast36 , El-Jaro , Kissaki , Miss Anonymous , BeautifulDarkness , Keegski , AngelvMaynard , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , ToyGurl , jeangel246 , goofballmaster , Lucky21 , That Man from Mars , kokopelli , newfoundlust , Bignuf , Istanbull , potstickers
26  (90%)
Not sure
Sometimes
pj1983 , PuddlePuppy
2  (7%)
Total votes: 29
Poll is closed
08/11/2011
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08/11/2011
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Sorry. It's never been a turn-on. If anything, it's a major turn-off!
08/12/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
Lack of oxygen does not sound pleasant.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I answered for my husband. It does absolutely nothing for him and it actually makes him worry when he hears me gag.
08/12/2011
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
Guess gagging and deep throat are two different things, but there is no way my wife would do that or would I want her to. Sometimes she takes me in pretty far, but not to the point where she has to open her throat or gag. We also hate seeing this when we watch porn together. Major turnoff, and we are watching to get turned on.
08/12/2011
Contributor: pj1983 pj1983
Done intentionally on a regular basis? No, I wouldn't say that would turn me on. It certainly doesn't in porn and the idea of doing it intentionally just seems kinda weird.

On the other hand, I have to admit a slight thrill when my wife and previous partners have gagged accidentally while giving me head. There's something about the level of excitement and fervor that accidentally gagging implies. If she's taking me that deep (or letting me give it to her that deep) it means she has thrown all caution to the wind and, at that moment, is completely committed to my pleasure, even at the risk of her own discomfort.

But, as I said, it's something that has to be completely unplanned. If my wife ever started doing it every time she went down on me, I'd probably 1) worry about her safety/comfort, 2) become desensitized to it, and 3) start to think it was disgusting, which, when you think about it, it kinda is.
08/12/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I answered for my husband. It does absolutely nothing for him and it actually makes him worry when he hears me gag.
Ditto.

My first thought is "Crap! I didn't thrust too hard did I?"

This one of the main reasons I'm not a bj fan.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
My boyfriend likes it. He does, but he said he has no idea why.
08/15/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
My husband knows if he hears that sound the oral is over. Once my gag reflex starts it doesn't stop till whatever is in my mouth comes out. It's a pain in the butt when I'm brushing my teeth
08/15/2011
Contributor: Marziba Marziba
I asked my boyfriend this one time out of curiosity and the answer was a very firm 'no'. I asked why and he told me that he just doesn't like the feeling that he'd be hurting me. No guy likes hurting their partner.
08/16/2011
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you get turned on when your partner gags while deep-throating/ giving oral? If so, why? Answer the poll and explain below.
Gagging yes. Heaving no.
I like th fact that the gagging does infer that I am bigger (than an average of four inches at least.) in the junk region.
The heaving is an instant turn off cause I don't like the idea of my penis covered in vomit.
There is a very precarious balance to keep in giving me a gaggish bj
08/19/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you get turned on when your partner gags while deep-throating/ giving oral? If so, why? Answer the poll and explain below.
NO NO NO! If anything like that goes on I am pretty much freaked out and done for the evening.
08/20/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Nope. Nor do I like that spitting stuff that they do in porn. I'm totally baffled about why that supposedly sells.
09/04/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Ugh, no way. Completely ruins the mood and makes me feel bad.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
HAHAHA! I love how I'm the only one who said yes!

It gives me a huge ego boost. As long as they don't throw up on me, gagging is a very, very good thing. So much fun, I love impaling someone's mouth and having their throat flex around me.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Do you get turned on when your partner gags while deep-throating/ giving oral? If so, why? Answer the poll and explain below.
We are both into fun, not pain or discomfort. Gagging does not seem like fun. I would be more worried then turned on. She does, however, super deep throat me, and thankfully has NO gag reflex the way she does it.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
HAHAHA! I love how I'm the only one who said yes!

It gives me a huge ego boost. As long as they don't throw up on me, gagging is a very, very good thing. So much fun, I love impaling someone's mouth and having their throat flex around me.
Does SHE enjoy it??? That is the key question you failed to mention.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Anonymous
My boyfriend likes it. He does, but he said he has no idea why.
Once again...I have to ask. HE likes it, but do YOU like it??? Just asking.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Does SHE enjoy it??? That is the key question you failed to mention.
That wasn't asked in the poll.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
1. 95% of the time she's not enjoying it, then it's not sexy.

2. The potential to be wearing barf is also not sexy.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
My boyfriend liked it when I gagged during oral. He bragged to his friends about it. And I liked it too.
09/05/2011