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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
do you prefer lights on or off during sex?
I have pretty sensitive eyes when I remove my glasses so an overhead light shining in them is just not sexy for me. We have a very soft bedside table light that sort of mimics candle light which is perfect.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I don't mind so I let the other person choose. If the lights are on then it has to be soft lighting though, a brightly lit room isn't exactly romantic.
01/11/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I prefer only some light, but in general, I don't care.
01/11/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
It doesn't matter to me.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
do you prefer lights on or off during sex?
Prefer them on
01/11/2013
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
On but not extremely bright. My eyes can't handle normal house lights cause I find them to bright and normally use shady lamps whenever I need more light. Same goes with sex. I like them on just not blinding me!
01/11/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
I prefer not to see myself if possible
01/11/2013
Contributor: Lurr Lurr
i like them off but then again if i lived alone i might never turn on any lights except the one in the fridge!
01/11/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
do you prefer lights on or off during sex?
off.
01/11/2013
Contributor: brevado brevado
Just depends on the moment
01/11/2013
Contributor: John E W John E W
I prefer them on! But it makes no difference what I get.
01/12/2013
Contributor: featherhead featherhead
I usually don't really care, but if it is on I like them dim.
01/13/2013
Contributor: dks210 dks210
On! I like to see what's going on, and his expressions.
01/13/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I picked on but not to bright it's distracting. Nice dim light so I can see whats going on.
01/13/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Usually I don't mind very much. But I have a color-changing lamp with a remote.
I really like red light during sex because it makes a sensual, kinky mood.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I prefer some form of lighting be on.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
We have a dimmer for our bedside lamp and we usually put it on the dimmest setting. It's just enough light to see and still have a romantic ambiance.
01/15/2013
Contributor: skittlezjoyann skittlezjoyann
Being able to see him is a turn on.
01/16/2013
Contributor: nosrslylol nosrslylol
I prefer off.
01/28/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Off or low light.
01/28/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I don't really care, but usually off.
01/28/2013
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I don't like it bright, but I am not a fan of pitch dark either.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Full Tang Full Tang
On ALWAYS! mostly because I prefer it that way partially to avoid the horrible question "Do you think I'm fat?".
03/19/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I have a bright side lamp that's perfect when we're going at it. I like the lights on, so I can see what he's doing.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Off, we have a streetlight across the street that lets in enough light to see where each other is at. Other than that I don't want any lights on. I prefer the dark to bring out the other senses and anticipation of what it is to come next. My husband is on a kick to have them on though.
03/23/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
do you prefer lights on or off during sex?
I don't have a preference!
03/25/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
It doesn't matter to me.
03/25/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
I actually prefer dimly lit.
03/25/2013
Contributor: MasquedAngel MasquedAngel
I don't typically care but sometimes (on my less confident days) I prefer extreme darkness. It can also be super exciting when you can only use your touch sensory.
04/08/2013
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I wish there'd been an "other" option.
Lights on or off doesn't matter to me, but my favorite is having the lights off and just having 2 or 3 lit candles placed around the room. It provides enough light for you to see, but enough shadow to make things more sensual.
04/08/2013