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Ladies: Do you orgasm through cunnilingus?

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Contributor: lecanis lecanis
I've seen a lot of variety in this. I personally can orgasm quickly from cunnilingus... when I'm comfortable enough with a partner to allow them to perform it on me in the first place. It's one of my 'only with the right person' and 'only under certain circumstances' sex acts.

I have dated quite a few women with various levels of interest in and reactions to cunnilingus, from being able to get off from it quickly to not being able to get off from it at all. I've had the best results with partners willing to TELL me exactly what it is they enjoy most during the act, such as where they want me to focus stimulation and what types of movements do or don't do it for them.

I had one gf who could get off in five minutes just from having her pussy licked in exactly the right pattern and then a single hard long suck to her clit would do it!
06/27/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
yeah, it's my favorite
06/27/2012
Contributor: Tart Tart
I like the way it feels, but it isn't intense enough to take me over the edge.
06/28/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I have never come from oral, but I still really enjoy it.
06/28/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Depending on the day it can take a few minutes, but my man gets me there and it's well worth the effort
06/28/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
My favorite too!
06/28/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I haven't really but my partner has. It takes them a bit over 20 minutes.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
My boyfriend is very good at this. : ] : ]
07/03/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
Can anyone who can't come from cunnilingus alone come when you're being fingered too?
10/26/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
It takes a while for me, but I chalk that up to white-knuckle syndrome because the stimulation always feels too gentle.
10/26/2012
Contributor: pyratess pyratess
I've never been able to get off from oral, though I'd be more likely to get off from a combination of oral & fingering or oral & toys
10/30/2012
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and ... more
i like both
11/01/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
For a while it was the only way I could cum!
11/01/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
We managed to go from a small amount of time to a short amount of time now that he's learned what gets me off XD. Fun for me! and him! XD
11/01/2012
Contributor: Dystobian Dystobian
It's a wonderful experience, just takes forever -.-
11/01/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
Guess I'm fortunate to have a hubby who a: loves giving oral, b: loves to make me orgasm, c: has the patience to do both!
PS, he also likes to go down on me after reaching his own orgasm in order to finish me off, he's the first (and most likely the last!) guy who I have known to do this!
11/07/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Takes a few minutes, longer than with a vibrator but I can consistently orgasm from it and they are some of my best orgasms.
11/07/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I'm super sensitive so I need a light touch & I want to take it slow to savor every delicious second.
11/07/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
It doesn't do anything for me - at all. *sad face*
11/14/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
my wife loves it!
11/14/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
My gf loves to have a clitoral orgasm through cunninglus, and to be quiet honest I love for her to have it that way too. lol
11/15/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'm thrilled to be able to say yes to this question! For the longest time, up until just a few months ago, I could never orgasm from ANY encounters with partners, until I met my man Took him all of twenty minutes to get me off the first time it happened...
The key for me is anal stimulation I have a tough time having an orgasm without it I never realized it was so important 'till I was with this guy!!
11/15/2012
Contributor: wildhoneyjohnson wildhoneyjohnson
I'm 49 and will be 50 this Sunday. I met my new boyfriend back this last January. In the beginning when he went down on me I would cum every time no problem usually within 20 minutes or so. For the past month I haven't been able to have an orgasm when he goes down on me. He does everything right, I'm starting to feel broken and wonder: what's wrong with me? He thinks he's not doing something right but he hasn't changed his routine and it still feels great. I have no trouble getting off on a vibe or fingers. After about 20 to 30 minutes I tell him to stop. I want an orgasm, it feels like it's coming but it's just not forthcoming. When I have an orgasm after he has penetrated me for a while then gets off, the orgasms are stronger and last longer. What's going on with me? Any advice? Thanks.
06/20/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and ... more
It doesn't take long for my wife. Maybe 10 minutes, and sometimes she does like a toy as well.
06/21/2013
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and ... more
I absolutely love it when my partner performs oral sex on me. I orgasm every time from it. The key for me is a flat wet tongue and consistent strokes.
08/07/2020
Contributor: Mati Mati
Always
06/12/2021
Contributor: Domino's Brand Sugar Cubes Domino's Brand Sugar Cubes
I felt like I was the only one! My tongue is quite a bit more textured than his, which is soooo very smooth that there is barely any friction at all when he licks me. It feels nice, but it takes a lot of concentration on my part to get off from it. Though, when I'm really excited, anything works. Fingers are the way to go for me, though!
07/21/2021
Contributor: Timid.fox Timid.fox
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I've searched the forum high and low and could not find a poll like the one I am about to make.

Basically, I'm curious to know how many ladies out there can orgasm through cunnilingus. I wonder because I have yet been able to do so and ... more
So yes, but only twice!

There are multiple pieces to this. Past trauma is one, another is just generalized body confidence, and honestly... I am just notoriously difficult to bring to an orgasm any form - especially with a partner.

My husband is the only one who has ever been able to get me there (period) and I can count the number of times on 1 hand in our 17 years together (we had 7 kids in the first 8 years we were married so it certainly wasn't for lack of trying ??)

I have found that I can get much closer during oral if he has me straddle his face, but he doesn't necessarily enjoy "giving" and so gives up pretty easily

I wish I knew the key to getting there every time.... He seems to think it makes him a failure because I can't orgasm easily. I think he would be much more "interested" if it wasn't so dang difficult ????
07/23/2021
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Timid.fox
So yes, but only twice!

There are multiple pieces to this. Past trauma is one, another is just generalized body confidence, and honestly... I am just notoriously difficult to bring to an orgasm any form - especially with a partner.

My ... more
Have no issues with orgasming during oral sex. My partner always knows what I want, just because I can direct him. As we know, communication being it verbal or non-verbal (moans, heavy breathing, etc.), is our 'best friend' in the questions of pleasure, so we 'talk'. Giving him feedback about what I like works for us.
07/30/2021
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I only get very very excited and randy. He spends 10-15 mins lapping me up but no O, not even little one.
07/30/2021