I should begin by saying that I’m really really worried and I really need some help/advice.
Recently I decided to be honest with myself and realized that I don’t like giving my boyfriend blowjobs. Like, at all. Moreover, I’ve never liked it, so it’s not about him. I simply do not enjoy it, I don’t find it pleasurable, it’s boring and sometimes pretty inconvenient. I mean, I gladly do it to make him happy - and, apparently, I don’t suck at it (pun intended) - but it feels like a chore to me.
I’ve tried “minding my own business” if you know what I mean, but I’m not that great at multitasking and one of the actions ends up severely lacking in enthusiasm.
I’m flooded with all those stories about women who can literally cum while sucking a dick, and that a “throat orgasm” is a thing, and that “it’s just so arousing to hear him moan!”? Yeah, I guess it is, but I cannot make myself enjoy it, no matter what I do. I surely don’t want to stop doing it, because he loves when I go down on him, but aghghrrrr…. It’s like I’m broken or something. It feels like I should be enjoying it, and there so many tips on how to enjoy it, but they don’t work for me.
Is there something wrong with me? Are there women out there who don’t like giving blowjobs, too? I’m really frustrated, would really use some help. Thanks.
PS - no gag reflex.
Recently I decided to be honest with myself and realized that I don’t like giving my boyfriend blowjobs. Like, at all. Moreover, I’ve never liked it, so it’s not about him. I simply do not enjoy it, I don’t find it pleasurable, it’s boring and sometimes pretty inconvenient. I mean, I gladly do it to make him happy - and, apparently, I don’t suck at it (pun intended) - but it feels like a chore to me.
I’ve tried “minding my own business” if you know what I mean, but I’m not that great at multitasking and one of the actions ends up severely lacking in enthusiasm.
I’m flooded with all those stories about women who can literally cum while sucking a dick, and that a “throat orgasm” is a thing, and that “it’s just so arousing to hear him moan!”? Yeah, I guess it is, but I cannot make myself enjoy it, no matter what I do. I surely don’t want to stop doing it, because he loves when I go down on him, but aghghrrrr…. It’s like I’m broken or something. It feels like I should be enjoying it, and there so many tips on how to enjoy it, but they don’t work for me.
Is there something wrong with me? Are there women out there who don’t like giving blowjobs, too? I’m really frustrated, would really use some help. Thanks.
PS - no gag reflex.