Is forplay equal in your relationship?

Contributor: LLmama LLmama
How does forplay work out in your sex life? I know for sure, hubby gives wayy more than I do! Then later he jokes that I'm greedy! I'm making extra extra efforts to please him more often, but he still totally does more!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
He gets more!
Eliyahu , DreamWolf , SexyRayne , gloomybear , KRD
5
She gets more!
sekmetrn , Ciao. , underHim , irishlove , DiamondKoala , Gunsmoke , destinationtwilight , Rossie , LLmama , married with children , Hallmar82 , BlooJay , <3BF , TheirPet , stlouisxxx , marshmallow , raglin , meticulousluck , Trysexual , Girly Juice
20
It's equal!!
Sinfully , OhMy! , SexyStuff , dhig , spineyogurt , plaidvulva , Various , potstickers , Ashley B , pinkpottergirl , justme23 , Llahsram , Bittenflame , Heatherbipoly , Anteaterz , Boyfriend , CadmiumKitty , Squeaky , princessss , hot lil momma
20
Total votes: 45 (45 voters)
Poll is closed
03/11/2012
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Engaging topic analysis of Oral sex enhancers:

Bubble Cum
Have you even blown a bubble out of cum? I saw a porn here named Bubble Cum and it made me wonder if people really do this outside of porn. I've...

Cleopatra's Secret; Best flavor?
My question is: 1) What flavor of Cleopatra's Secret do you recomend? OR 2) What other flavored product would you recomened to sweeten oral sex?...

Oral while she is on her period?
Would you go down on your ladyfriend while she is on her period? why or why not?

what to do?
what do you do if you like to give oral but the other person doesnt like to recieve it?

Here's for the STRAIGHT men! Have you ever had a female give you a blowjob that you DIDN'T enjoy?
I'll make another thread for the gay men, but I feel like it's different for gay men since they know what they would want during head. Giving them...
03/11/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I would say it's fairly equal now. There was a time I was putting in a lot more than I was getting, but things have changed for the better
03/11/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
My partner definitely tends to be on the receiving end of more foreplay than I get. Not that I mind at all
03/11/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
She goes down on me way more than I go down on her...not because I don't want to or don't enjoy it, quite the contrary...she just doesn't always do the prep stuff in advance she feels she has to do to feel comfortable with me going down on her. I tell her all the time that that's totally unnecessary, but it's just a thing with her...always has been in the 7 years we've been together.
03/11/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
I never thought about it but he probably does put alot more work into it than I do.
03/11/2012
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
I'm not going to lie, my boyfriend gives more than I do. He has always been that way and enjoys it. Also, he's a bit big for me and I'm not a huge fan of lube (makes me feel dirty) so for foreplay equal more wetness too. More times than not, I end up with a tear from our sex
03/11/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
She definitely gets a lot more, but it's not like something I would be particularly taking issue with since it makes me happy.
03/11/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Equal here.
03/11/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
its pretty equal
03/11/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by DiamondKoala
She definitely gets a lot more, but it's not like something I would be particularly taking issue with since it makes me happy.
Precisely - she gets more, because that's the way I prefer it. I absolutely love massaging, kissing and licking her all over. When it's my turn she does a fine job - no complaints.
03/11/2012
Contributor: destinationtwilight destinationtwilight
Quote:
Originally posted by LLmama
How does forplay work out in your sex life? I know for sure, hubby gives wayy more than I do! Then later he jokes that I'm greedy! I'm making extra extra efforts to please him more often, but he still totally does more!
He did more
03/12/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
Interesting answers! I don't feel so "greedy" now!
03/12/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
I do all the work!
03/12/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Oh well oh well, well, my PreciousMaster is the Entitled One to revel more in the Sweetest Pleasures of life, and I wait patiently for some for this one too sometimes... I know, it isn't oh so wonderful, but I assume it will just get better, hopefully... ^^
03/12/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I get a little more.
03/12/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
Equal. We've spent entire days doing nothing but foreplay, it's fun stuff.
03/12/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
Wow! I'm so interested in this post. More answers, guys! /
03/13/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
she gets way more
03/14/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife definitely needs more attention to get going.
03/14/2012
Contributor: Various Various
We are equal in the foreplay field.
03/14/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
I give him more for sure
03/14/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
She gets more.
03/15/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
my bf and i are working on it but he tipicly gets more because if i give him a blowjob b4 sex he last longer than if we were to skip to sex
03/23/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I'm a giver but she's totally worth it.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Ashley B Ashley B
It's pretty equal now, but I used to give more effort on foreplay. I don't mind either way, though. ^_^
07/03/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
My partner needs more foreplay than I do, but I wouldn't mind having a little more.
07/04/2012
Contributor: justme23 justme23
About equal, sometimes I get a bit more.
07/04/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
I'd say it's equal....hope she would say the same
07/04/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Its pretty equal unless one of us is just in a more giving mood but with whatever we do its equal most of the time.
07/04/2012