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Contributor: KnK KnK
So, I web cam part-time and last night, while I was a little inebriated (back from the bars), I happened to somehow deepthroat one of my realistically-shaped dildos.

I say somehow because I have NO idea, what happened. I just suddenly became aware that it was in my throat. I've tried deep-throating before, but it always made me feel like I was going to puke.

It was a bizarre experience, although not a bad one. It was strangely satisfying. My throat is feeling it a little today, but I'm fine nonetheless.

However my question is, how did I do that? And secondly, how can I do that again (gag-reflex exercises, do they exist)? I'd like to take this accidentally discovered ability and add it to my arsenal. I just think it's funny how it happened.
03/27/2011
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
It's likely you were just relaxed and not thinking about it because of the booze. You were also in complete control so that probably allowed your brain to back off a bit. If your head was tilted backwards that probably also added to your newfound glory. (Laying with your head hanging off the bed is usually the recommended position for those who wish to deepthroat.)
03/27/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
My guess is that you were half corked and thus a little more relaxed and so you were not so aware of the reflex.

Have you read the Deep Throat Diaries here?
03/27/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by Ansley
It's likely you were just relaxed and not thinking about it because of the booze. You were also in complete control so that probably allowed your brain to back off a bit. If your head was tilted backwards that probably also added to your newfound ... more
Good point. I knew that the booze had to have made it easier, but I didn't think it would work like that. It just sorta popped in. And yes my head was tilted backward, wasn't aware that it was that important, but it makes sense. Lol
03/27/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
My guess is that you were half corked and thus a little more relaxed and so you were not so aware of the reflex.

Have you read the Deep Throat Diaries here?
No I had not heard of this til now. I'll look into it. Thanks Jobthingy!
03/27/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I'm always able to do it if I relax. If I think about it, there is no way I can get it back there, and I end up gagging. I just have to think about other things so I don't focus on that specifically.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by KnK
Good point. I knew that the booze had to have made it easier, but I didn't think it would work like that. It just sorta popped in. And yes my head was tilted backward, wasn't aware that it was that important, but it makes sense. Lol
Just remember to breathe through your nose while doing it and all should be well!
03/28/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by Ansley
Just remember to breathe through your nose while doing it and all should be well!
Lol, I was learning about that. Bizarre sensation. Lol
03/28/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by PiratePrincess
I'm always able to do it if I relax. If I think about it, there is no way I can get it back there, and I end up gagging. I just have to think about other things so I don't focus on that specifically.
See, now we all know the secret. Let it happen, don't focus on it.

It's almost a Daoist or Buddhist viewpoint on sexual pleasure. Lol
03/28/2011
Contributor: Seharra Seharra
I absolutely love deepthroating, but I used to have a horrendous gag reflex. I've found that as long as I breath through my nose I don't really worry much about choking (and it's easier to simply relax). Also, every time that I thought I was going to gag I would swallow. My boyfriend says he loves the sensation, and it's as though swallowing allows me to pull him deeper while working through the gagging at the same time.
04/08/2011
Contributor: kfdarling kfdarling
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Originally posted by Seharra
I absolutely love deepthroating, but I used to have a horrendous gag reflex. I've found that as long as I breath through my nose I don't really worry much about choking (and it's easier to simply relax). Also, every time that I thought I ... more
Great idea with the swallowing.
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Contributor: John E W John E W
Gee I wonder if the swallow part would work on my girlfriend bad gag reflex!!
03/30/2012
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
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Originally posted by KnK
So, I web cam part-time and last night, while I was a little inebriated (back from the bars), I happened to somehow deepthroat one of my realistically-shaped dildos.

I say somehow because I have NO idea, what happened. I just suddenly became ... more
You relaxed and were probably shoving it in pretty hard without realizing.
The trick is to ignore your gag reflex, you can do that by desensitizing yourself, or by gargling sore throat spray (good head is a brand of topical anesthesia that does the same thing but is more expensive).
When it gets to the back of your throat you have to try to make yourself literally swallow it, and make sure to apply liberal but not painful pressure.
The best position in which to do this is with your head tilted upwards, so from bellow the base of the penis.
04/04/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
You just need to relax and not think about it, it takes practice.
04/04/2012
Contributor: Jenny Swallows Jenny Swallows
Relaxing is the main thing... And definitely not taking any clues at all from movies. The first time I saw the movie Deep Throat I thought it was the most unattractive thing I'd ever seen, and I swore I would never make such ghastly faces and noises just to get a cock in my throat. And then I found out that I didn't need to. Just relax, get into it - and it will get into you
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