Hell YES!!!! (I guess I'm voting for My Man. We LOVE to do this, it's wonderful!!!!)

Gunsmoke asked: "'m trying to figure out a way to introduce double penetration into this scenario - if you've got any advice for me - I'd love to hear it!" END QUOTE (I don't know how to do quotes without quoting the entire post yet.)

Yes, this was one of the ways we eased into DP and anal. I almost always have to come a few times before we have anal, and the familiar sensation of vaginal penetration makes anal even more happy for beginners. (We're not beginners anymore, but we still do it this way.) He'll often get me to come this way and then just leave the dil or vibe in and flip me over.....or sometimes just add a string of anal beads or a dil with a condom over it, for the back door, while he's going down. AMAZING! less

P'Gell - thanks for the advice. I think my biggest hurdle is getting her to agree to experimenting with anal stimulation. The up-front orgasm is a great idea - it's the beginning for most all experimenting we do. I'll definitely try your suggestion. less

Your description of oral with the dil or phallic vibe and then finishing her off with a clit vibe is like you were looking right into our bedroom, or you and your wife are our Doppelgangers. That's nearly exactly what we do, only we use the Fun Factory Boss Lady Vibe and the Wahl for a few minutes of clit stim so I can come after the oral.

I have realized that once we get the Wahl going we have to shut the vibrator on the Boss Lady off (or he just uses his hand instead of a dil) or I get too stimulated and it takes forever for me to come.

He surprised me this morning and stuck in a Crystal Cote butt plug in addition to above and I didn't even realize it (though it was his finger) until I reached back there. (I was kinda like "WTF is that?" hahaa) Amazing.....*sigh* less

That's what I used to say......things can change.



Really, I used to be oddly turned on and fascinated by, and also "repulsed" by the idea of using sex toys. My Man took the lead and bought one. I threw it at him and told him to "get your mind out of the gutter" (that was a long time ago) and told him I "only" liked skin.

A few days later, I was having a hard time with orgasm and I knew that thing was in his drawer. So, I said, "What the hell, get that thing, and let's see what happens. But, you have to stop if I tell you to."

Years later....here I am. My Man says, "I've created a Monster." LOL! I don't know why we didn't use them sooner.

Sometimes a toy that doesn't "look like a sex toy" can be a stepping stone to good toy use. (PLUG WARNING) EdenCafe has a new article (written by me and edited wonderful photos of the toys added by Carrie Ann) on "Beginner's Sex Toys." You may want to pursue the toys that look less like "dildos" and see what works with her. less