How loud do you like your ladies when you go down on them?

Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
11/29/2013
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
Silence indicates indifference to me.
That goes for male or female partners equally.
12/01/2013
Contributor: DaddyG DaddyG
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
I like loud in general. Moans, groans, screaming talking...
12/01/2013
Contributor: strangebrew strangebrew
I love to hear her moan and love to hear "oh yes baby" and things like that. And I like to hear her give me instruction if I'm not hitting the right notes, although she's shy about doing so. As for the decibel level, I prefer soft to moderate. During sex, for some reason, I like it louder.
12/16/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
The louder, the better baby! I tend to stay exceptionally quiet, as my own sounds tend to trigger his orgasms (which is bad when you aren't on birth control and not using barrier methods).
12/16/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Ansley
The louder, the better baby! I tend to stay exceptionally quiet, as my own sounds tend to trigger his orgasms (which is bad when you aren't on birth control and not using barrier methods).
Oh yes! The louder the better! Unless we need to be discreet for some reason... like a son who won't leave the house often enough.
12/16/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by RonLee
Oh yes! The louder the better! Unless we need to be discreet for some reason... like a son who won't leave the house often enough.
Isn't it interesting how circumstance will change how much noise you make and then you can almost get "in the habit" of being quiet? I remember never making a peep growing up because I was masturbating or playing around at home, or a friend's home. Then I had close houses and lots of neighbors that could hear everything when I finally wasn't living with others. Now, however, I have my own home and plenty of privacy and I have turned into a sreaming mimi, lol! Well, not real screams, but I moan and make all kinds of noise. I used to be able to control it, but don't even bother and wouldn't you know it, now I have trouble being quiet! It's like there is no stuffing the genie back in the bottle, lol!

And I can totally relate to the sounds causing a climax, too! When I hear a particularly quiet partner making noise and then it escalates, I know he's beyond being able to stifle it and that sends me over every time! It's such a turn on when a partner loses control, especially when they are very in control most of the time! But I agree with Ron Lee, no matter who my partner is, complete silence reads as indifference to me on some level. And it's especially true for going down on a person because it's so hard to read them with no sounds.
12/17/2013
Contributor: NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
I love it when my girl lets me know she is enjoying herself. The more she moans and the louder she gets the better.
01/08/2014
Contributor: authorzero authorzero
The louder the better, as long as it's true enthusiasm. Obviously exaggerated moans and screams are kind of a turn off to me.
01/09/2014
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
The louder the better, but sometimes have to be discreet if there are kids in the house, or if at someone else house..
01/09/2014
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
My man likes me to be loud but that's just not me during that act. He an tell if I like it more by my actions. I don't like to lie during sex. For me, be loud during that is often a lie.
01/09/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
Personally it depends on the situation for me. I kind of get off on her being as quiet as she can be when we are trying to be secretive. Like if I'm going down on her at a friends house in the bathroom or something I love seeing her try to be quiet as I am pleasuring her. I think that she gets off on having to be quiet or getting caught. Now if its at our own house I am like get loud! claw my back!
01/10/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Personally it depends on the situation for me. I kind of get off on her being as quiet as she can be when we are trying to be secretive. Like if I'm going down on her at a friends house in the bathroom or something I love seeing her try to be ... more
Truthfully.... The legs tell the tale....

What does that mean? Making noise and moaning is one thing but when you can make a girls legs shake as shes getting closer to having an orgasm you know shes enjoying it. So either way noise doesen't mean too much to me. When you see her shake that's worth 1000 moans!

Especially when shes trying NOT to make a noise and her legs are shaking while you are going down on her!
01/10/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Truthfully.... The legs tell the tale....

What does that mean? Making noise and moaning is one thing but when you can make a girls legs shake as shes getting closer to having an orgasm you know shes enjoying it. So either way noise ... more
Good point about the legs! I don't know if it's true for most women or not, but mine shake like crazy sometimes, especially when receiving oral or really intense, pinpoint clitoral stimulation.
01/12/2014
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
scream for me, baby!
02/10/2014
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
My boyfriend said he likes to hear me
03/25/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by icelandia
Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?
OH PLEASE OH PLEASE OH PLEASE show me your appreciation!!!
03/28/2014