How did you learn to have oral sex?

Contributor: Badass Badass
Did someone teach you? Or did you have a natural knack for it?
03/08/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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03/08/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Um, I put a penis into my mouth. LOL!

No, My Man guided me. I bit him one of the first times I gave him head. I felt really badly about it. I gained confidence as his satisfaction grew. He loves getting head, and I love giving it. He's also a Master at cunnilingus, so it balances nicely.

I never "practiced" on anything other than a real man. I never had a dildo or used a shampoo bottle or any of the things you hear about. Just got experience when I could, which was often.
03/08/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Um, I put a penis into my mouth. LOL!

No, My Man guided me. I bit him one of the first times I gave him head. I felt really badly about it. I gained confidence as his satisfaction grew. He loves getting head, and I love giving it. He's ... more
LOL I think I love you P'Gell I had the same experience...Sigel convinced me to put his penis in my mouth! This was after he had showed me the delights of cunnilingus so I was more than happy to return the favor. I, too, have never practiced on anything other than a man and I have only gotten complaints when I decided I didn't want the guy to orgasm in my mouth so I guess it might be a natural knack or I am just a good listener.
03/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm still learning. My husband doesn't do foreplay so neither one of us gets to experience oral. I'd really like to learn, but I'm not going to practice on a dildo, banana or anything.
03/08/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Did someone teach you? Or did you have a natural knack for it?
I guess a knack...
03/08/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
Natural born talent I suppose...I never "practiced", but have learned as time went by what produced the biggest "effects" and what didn't work so well (teeth are usually bad ).
03/08/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Did someone teach you? Or did you have a natural knack for it?
as i was performing oral on my boyfriend, he taught me what to do. it was really cute actually
03/08/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My first boyfriend requested it.
03/08/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
In this day of ubiquitous internet porn I can't imagine that young people haven't seen it all before they try it. From there it's a question of attitude - if want to enjoy it you will - if you want to be good at you will be.

Pay attention to what makes your partner feel good and don't be afraid to ask for a little advice if your not quite sure what's working. If he or she doesn't like talking about it - tell them to learn to moan at the right time!
03/09/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
A little help from my high school boyfriend, and a little common sense? LOL
03/09/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Mostly from watching porn. Then I just kind of guessed from there.
03/09/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I saw it on the Internet in porn and picked up my techniques from there!
03/23/2012
Contributor: lustylusty lustylusty
Im a natural. I think porn blow jobs are just for looks. So I could imagine it not feeling to good for your guy. Thats just my opinion though.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Fawkes Fawkes
Learn?.... never thought about it
05/11/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
Just went to it and figured out what she liked.
05/11/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I just... did it. I shocked my male partner by swallowing the first time -- he'd never had anyone finish him that way. XD And for going down on my female partner, I just did what I thought would feel good for ME. So yeah, I never really learned much. After that, I did things that they told me felt good, so I like to think I've improved, as well.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Jenny Swallows Jenny Swallows
Lots of fantasizing about what I thought I'd like to do, and then trying to put as many of those ideas into practice as I could...
04/13/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I'm still learning. My husband doesn't do foreplay so neither one of us gets to experience oral. I'd really like to learn, but I'm not going to practice on a dildo, banana or anything.
Doesn't... do... foreplay..? But... why? :C
04/13/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
My current boyfriend is the first person I've ever given head to, and he said I was a total natural. He seemed quite surprised lol.
04/13/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
My first serious boyfriend "taught" me. He basically explained the basics and then told me to experiment. So I pretty much crash coursed it with no practice and with him guiding me into what he found pleasurable. I must have a natural talent or am just a quick learner because I have yet to get any complaints and have had guys ask for a repeat performance.
04/14/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Ummm, I just put it in my mouth and learned by doing.
04/14/2013
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Trial and error??
04/14/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Desire to bring pleasure to my partner.
04/14/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Trial and error for me too.
04/14/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
I learned from my partner's reactions to what felt good and what did not.
04/14/2013
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
Still learning! I haven't given many blowjobs so far.
04/14/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I... didn't learn. I just started doing it and was told I'm good. lol
04/14/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I just went for it and listened to the person for extra tips.
04/14/2013
Contributor: CarmenCaligula CarmenCaligula
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I'm still learning. My husband doesn't do foreplay so neither one of us gets to experience oral. I'd really like to learn, but I'm not going to practice on a dildo, banana or anything.
Your husband doesn't DO foreplay? I bet if you went down on him, he'd be more into it. I suggest you ask him if you can try it. Talk to him about it. Tell him you're interested in learning how to give a good blow job. I don't know of any man who can turn that down!
04/14/2013