How can I train myself to swallow

Contributor: darlingnikkie darlingnikkie
I have been trying and trying to swallow everytime I give head but no matter what I gag everytime. What can I do to be able to swallow without gagging or throwing it up?
07/21/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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07/21/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
For the wife we found that the ejaculate would hit the back of her throat(that little dangly thing) and this caused her to gag. So now she will angle my penis upwards or deep throat me so that it just goes strait past and down.

Now if the problem is the taste, there is some foods that when eaten before can effect the flavor. Pineapple comes to mind. There is also some products like this link may work.

Hope this helps
07/22/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
dangly bit - uvula
07/22/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
dangly bit - uvula
Thank you.
07/22/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I know this is probably not the answer you're looking for, but I've had the same problem and found a fail-safe solution: don't have him come in your mouth.

Works like a charm.

Seriously, though, think about why you want to do this so badly and talk to your partner about it. I did, and found that I mostly felt pressure to do it because I thought it was normal, universally sexy, and what all men want. What I found was that my boyfriend did not want to cause me discomfort in any way, nor did he really care about where he came.
07/22/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by joja
I know this is probably not the answer you're looking for, but I've had the same problem and found a fail-safe solution: don't have him come in your mouth.

Works like a charm.

Seriously, though, think about why you want to ... more
Very good point. Communication is the glue that holds all together.
07/22/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by darlingnikkie
I have been trying and trying to swallow everytime I give head but no matter what I gag everytime. What can I do to be able to swallow without gagging or throwing it up?
Don't stress on it too much. If it's so bad you are gagging or even vomiting, don't DO that to yourself!

I couldn't swallow for years. It was a mix of the texture and a mental block ("this isn't food!")

For years, I would just either let it dribble out or hold it in my mouth and discreetly deposit in in a tissue (have one ready, no running for the bathroom to spit it out, that hurts feelings) and once he came, he really didn't care where the ejaculate went.

I couldn't "make myself" do it for years, and didn't even really try. It happened almost by accident one time and after that sometimes I swallow and sometimes I don't.

Usually once they are done, they really don't care.
07/22/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
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Originally posted by joja
I know this is probably not the answer you're looking for, but I've had the same problem and found a fail-safe solution: don't have him come in your mouth.

Works like a charm.

Seriously, though, think about why you want to ... more
Absolutely agree on this with Prax!

It's great if you want to try it once or twice, but if you don't like it, nothing is going to change that, not hearing from him "it's a mental thing, you'll get used to it, etc.."

I don't like it. Plain and simple. I don't want to spit either. I have a terrible gag reflex and unless he wants whatever is in my stomach all over his junk, he best respect my wishes.
07/22/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by darlingnikkie
I have been trying and trying to swallow everytime I give head but no matter what I gag everytime. What can I do to be able to swallow without gagging or throwing it up?
I used to swallow it as it came down my throat, a little at a time.
07/31/2010
Contributor: PonyPlay PonyPlay
I find that right when the guy is about to cum push it in a deep as you can. That way you don't taste it at all and have no choice but to swallow. You don't taste any of it either so that's a big plus.
08/01/2010
Contributor: darlingnikkie darlingnikkie
Thank you for all the ideas.I had the notion that its something that every woman should be able to do. I found out that hubby doesnt care if I swallow it or not. I was just putting too much thought into it.
08/21/2010