Head on first dates...

Contributor: Jenny Swallows Jenny Swallows
Okay, maybe not the very first date, but the first time you sleep with someone - do you give head? Or do you prefer to wait and see if they do it first?
04/11/2013
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Contributor: spiced spiced
I was always open to sex of whatever kind on first dates (or any dates, for that matter).

I always just went with the flow, and tried to read the vibes my date was sending. If I was attracted to her, and she seemed attracted to me, I never hesitated to go down on her, or to be the first to go down. Of course, I'm pretty orally-fixated!

It always just depended on how attracted we were to each other and how comfortable we were with the pace of things (mainly how comfortable SHE was, since I was usually down for whatever if I was attracted).
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Contributor: libbyv libbyv
oral is usually part of my foreplay
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Contributor: MrWood MrWood
I've always just gone along with the flow. Usually, I've been able to tell if my date is pretty sexual by the way she takes care of her body, ex... if she is fully shaved, trimmed or natural. I've learned that the more a woman is focused on what she looks like, the more she is interested in going with the flow also. Which usually means both of us going down, or I will atleast go down on her if she seems interested. I will atleast try, and if things are going well, I will suggest 69, then we can both get into it. I'm a very orally fixated person also.
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Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I pretty much go with the flow. Oral is a huge part of foreplay with me. I know that some females are a little reserved due to fear or rumors or reputation but I seem to have been blessed with an "I don't give a shit" attitude when it comes to others opinions of me. Call me a slut because I give head/sleep with guys on a first date...I really don't care lol
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I wait till I want to. but he has to be giving me oral from the get go.
04/11/2013
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenny Swallows
Okay, maybe not the very first date, but the first time you sleep with someone - do you give head? Or do you prefer to wait and see if they do it first?
i wouldn't complain about getting head on the first date :-D
04/11/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Giving and/or getting oral, with nearly all of my long term relationships we've had sex in one way or another on the first or second date.
04/11/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenny Swallows
Okay, maybe not the very first date, but the first time you sleep with someone - do you give head? Or do you prefer to wait and see if they do it first?
No. I wouldn't do it.
04/11/2013
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Hard to remember, but I'm pretty sure I did on our first date
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Contributor: SassySam SassySam
only if it was a really good date.
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Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
i am the type that i only give oral to the special ones. ones that i plan on being with for a while.
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