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Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
My ex used to do it alot. I told him it bothered me and he complained it was just an impulse. So I enstated a no blow jobs unless he sat on sat on his hands policy. Eventually he got tired of feeling like he was in time out and changed his behavior.

The current man responds by rubbing my shoulders, holding up my hair and combing bangs out of my face so he can see my eyes. Such a sweetheart
06/29/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
My guy grabs my hair and controlls my head when I am performing oral sex on him. Does yours do this? And your thoughts on the matter.
he tried it once, but i told him not to and he never did it again...
06/29/2011
Contributor: lustfully lustfully
Sometimes I enjoy it when my fiance does that, & there are times I don't
Rough makeup sex; he always does it & its amazing. The Love-making sex; no-no.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I hate it when he does this. I've told him but I guess it's just impulse. Whatever though if it bugs me too much I just stop and go on to something else.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'll occasionally put my hand on my wife's head while she's going down on me, but more to caress than control. On the rare occasion when we're having rough sex I'll be more forceful, but only after we've discussed it ahead of time.
07/02/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
He only holds my head to run his hands through my hair, or he just places his hands on my head, not really holding, and not controlling at all. I like it that way
07/02/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
I don't really mind it, unless the gagging gets excessive.
same here.
11/28/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I only put my hand on her head to hold her hair back. I do not try to control her movements in any way, that is what communication if for. She does fine on her own.
Same with me one time my wife said she liked it cause when she went down I would give a little tug on her hair and kinda made her feel like I was being more dominant but not shoving my cock in her throat
11/28/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
When I'm down there on a girl, I like my head being held/directed.
11/28/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
On the flipside of things, I enjoy having hands on my head and grabbing my hair or steering me where to go - makes it that much more exciting
11/28/2011
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I totally get that he likes to have that control by holding your head. Unfortunately, I tend to have a gag reflex, so if he takes control over that way, I start to panic that if I needed to pause a stroke, I won't be able to...it's all downhill then. I lose a lot of pleasure in such a pleasurable action then as my focus turns to my fear instead of feeling him in my mouth and him moaning with excitement.
11/30/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
My guy grabs my hair and controlls my head when I am performing oral sex on him. Does yours do this? And your thoughts on the matter.
Yep!
12/01/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I haven't done it until my girlfriend requested that I do it.
12/05/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I hate when my guy does this. I don't mind if he holds my head or gently maneuvers, but he chokes me with his penis sometimes.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I use to hate this, but as long as it is lightly guided, I love it. By lightly I mean when I take a jaw break I get to take a jaw break.
12/06/2011
Contributor: x203 x203
I would talk to guy about it if he was being too forceful. I like it when my hair is being played with though. I do that go guys who go own on me.
02/26/2012
Contributor: HugsAndBites HugsAndBites
i dislike some one trying to control my head, i dont wish to choke. but hair pulling otherwise is a fav of mine
02/26/2012
Contributor: 425shark 425shark
It turns my girlfriend on.
02/27/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I encourage him to do this. It's exciting.
02/28/2012
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I only put my hand on her head to hold her hair back. I do not try to control her movements in any way, that is what communication if for. She does fine on her own.
Same here
02/28/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
My guy grabs my hair and controlls my head when I am performing oral sex on him. Does yours do this? And your thoughts on the matter.
I hate having my head grabbed and held because I have a BIG fear of not being able to breathe. I also need to adjust so that I don't injure my soft palette at the back of my throat which is super sensitive. I have a huge gag reflex and live in mortal fear I will lose my lunch on my guy...such a mood killer just the thought...
02/28/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by HugsAndBites
i dislike some one trying to control my head, i dont wish to choke. but hair pulling otherwise is a fav of mine
~Agreed I LOVE hair pulling just not the whole holding my head thing.
02/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
no my partner does not do that.
02/28/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
my boyfriend isn't forceful or anything at all. he just touches my head lightly.
03/26/2012
Contributor: cathy23 cathy23
he holds my hair especially if I'm wearing pigtails.
07/25/2012
Contributor: ciderspider ciderspider
My boyfriend only puts his hand on the back of my head lightly, so no force. I think I prefer it that way, but we have talked about having him do that to me some time, so yeah. Hopefully it won't be too bad.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Liberalqueer Liberalqueer
He runs his fingers through my hair, but that's about it.
07/26/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Yes i like it sometimes..He holds my hair back when needed at times but it lets me know what he wants and how it feels..but I enjoy it makes me feel like he enjoys it more too.. Also when i go down deep it help moisten the mouth gives you extra saliva to help finish the job or just go longer which is a plus when you can go for a long time..gotta love the penis!!!
07/26/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
i dont like it
07/28/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Yes, he does this sometimes. I love it and find it incredibly sexy.
07/28/2012