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Guys - do you want your significant other to put toys or finger in your anus during foeplay? sonetimes or never?

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Contributor: Herzer Herzer
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?
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30  (71%)
7  (17%)
5  (12%)
Total votes: 42
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06/02/2013
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06/02/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i would love if sh played down there. she is grossed out by it although she loves me playing with hers.
06/02/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Quote:
Originally posted by Herzer
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?
Answering for my partner, he is quite opposed to anal play for either of us. Luckily, I am as well, so we're a perfect match in that regard.
06/02/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Absolutely love it - it took my wife a little while to get use to it, but she's OK with it now.
06/02/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
sometimes, it all depends on how I feel.
06/02/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Answering for my husband - he's totally against having anything in there.
06/02/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Not opposed to it, but not necessary each time. I would like some play but it would need to be a longer foreplay session.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Yes, it helps the session last longer and is more fun.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Yes, but she doesn't..have to insert stuff myself.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Most of the time, definitely.
06/03/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
I don't particularly enjoy it, which ends up working out nicely as my girlfriend thinks it's a bit icky anyway,
06/03/2013
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
No, I am not interested in that.
06/03/2013
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
We do and we both enjoy it, it isn't all the time, as most of the foreplay is geared towards me getting her hot and bothered, but there are times where she focuses on me during foreplay and fingers and toys are never out of reach from the bed or shower.
06/04/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Answering for him...Yes, please!
06/04/2013
Contributor: John E W John E W
I love the feeling of it but she is not into anal. Giving nor receiving
06/04/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
My partner isn't into it.
06/16/2013
Contributor: meitman meitman
I love when my wife does it.
06/18/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Yes to finger, yes to toy, yes please from both girl and boy
06/20/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Herzer
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?
I like it a lot, and my wife has gotten used to it. And we don't do it all of the time, just when the mood hits.
06/21/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
We just started with some anal play during foreplay. We are currently just using a plug but look forward to a prostate massage
08/06/2013
Contributor: jake53 jake53
my wife use's her finger, but I would love for her to use some nice toys or even peg me.
08/08/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We just started doing this. Mainly because he gets so hard from it. Less work for me.
08/09/2013
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'd be curious to try it, but my wife has absolutely no interest in any type of anal experimentation.
08/13/2013
Contributor: Corydalis Corydalis
Tried it. Just made me feel like I had to use the bathroom, but got no particular pleasure out of it other than knowing we tried something new that night.
09/12/2013
Contributor: Varmint Varmint
Sooo great getting BJ and prostate stim together!
09/13/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Absolutely love it - it took my wife a little while to get use to it, but she's OK with it now.
Update - looking at my response I'd have to say it's a bit understated.

My wife pretty much demands anal stimulation in one form or another during most activities.

Example; using a finger or two anally in combination with a dildo in her vagina is fantastic for her. I use my fingers to press the dildo up into her g-spot greatly enhancing the effect for her.
10/17/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
For us, anal is an occasional treat - but it does work both sides. It's more frequent for me, it's more of a rare occasion for him. He certainly likes to play around my butt with his fingers, while I always "embark on an adventure" when I do oral on him.
10/22/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by GingerAnn
For us, anal is an occasional treat - but it does work both sides. It's more frequent for me, it's more of a rare occasion for him. He certainly likes to play around my butt with his fingers, while I always "embark on an adventure" ... more
Although an old and tired cliché - "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

I for one can attest that having my wife try our various anal pleasure techniques on me - made me far better at understanding what would work for her. Simple things like learning the art of going slow, making sure things are over lubricated, pausing after entry to enable the person to adjust and progressing in size properly (tapered toys are invaluable).

It's the perfect couples activity. You don't have a penis and he doesn't have a vagina, but when it comes to anal there are a lot of similarities.

Tell him it's part of his education about how to do anal properly - maybe he'll 'loosen up' oh what a bad pun
10/22/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Although an old and tired cliché - "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."

I for one can attest that having my wife try our various anal pleasure techniques on me - made me far better at understanding what would ... more
I know exactly what you mean - you're so correct.

Although the anal play does feel a bit different for guys, you have to agree on that. And I don't even mean psychological implications, of which there are enough, I'm only talking about plain anatomy stuff.

The stimulation of the P-spot must feel very special.

Also, for women, anal stimulation comes more naturally, especially during oral, for example, because there is a straight pathway down there. With men, you have to mingle a bit to dive deeper - I'm on to you with your puns
11/12/2018