Giving a blow job

Contributor: Mary Jane1 Mary Jane1
I have never been able to give my husband a blow job because I get sick thinking about having to eat the cum. I need to know what I can use to make the taste ok so I will not get sick when I try to do this. I am going to purchase the good head jel to see if I will be able to do this for him. He is deployed and I will be meeting him for his R & R. I would like to be able to do this as a surprise for him. I would appreciate any help or suggestions.
05/27/2010
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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Have him drink pineapple juice, or any juice for that matter-it will make him taste less bitter and more sweet. Less meat will make him taste less nasty also. A BIG difference is made if your guy has finished within the previous 24 hours as well. The longer it has been since he has finished the thicker and stronger tasting he will be. Using flavored lubes will make HIM taste better, but not his semen. There are products that he can use to make it taste better though. They are pricey however. Semenex sold on Eden costs about $50.
05/27/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Have him drink pineapple juice, or any juice for that matter-it will make him taste less bitter and more sweet. Less meat will make him taste less nasty also. A BIG difference is made if your guy has finished within the previous 24 hours as well. The ... more
Interesting. Thanks for the tips. I’ll have to keep that 24 hour thing in mind
05/27/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by *Ashley*
Interesting. Thanks for the tips. I’ll have to keep that 24 hour thing in mind
Yea have him masturbate and finish on his own or try oral later in the day after you two have finished together.
05/27/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Honestly this is a mental problem. If you're convinced you're not going to like something - anything you will not. The proverbial self fulfilling prophesy. Being a straight guy - I can only guess that semen - like beer, wine, etc is an acquired taste. I'm sure you can think of many foods you didn't like the first few times you tried them - but eventually you learned to eat your peas!

For the first 15 year of our marriage my wife anticipated my orgasm and either pulled back or let the semen dribble out. About 5 years ago my wife decided to go for it - she tries to deep-throat me and swallows every time. When I asked what changed she just said that she decided to try to make me feel as good as I did for her.

Talk to your husband - get him to warn you (if you can't already tell) before he has an orgasm - back away and finish him with your hands. As you get comfortable with that - you may try to keep him in shallow enough to control the flow allowing it to dribble out. Once you get use to the taste you may decide to go all the way. Basically its a desensitizing process.

BTW - the pineapple works pretty good!

Enjoy your husband and I'm sure he'll reciprocate!
05/28/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Gunsmoke makes a good point - you don't have to swallow.

Some people get by ending blowjobs with the cliche face shot (make sure you shut your eyes) or boob shot and many men actually find it very exciting to end that way. So if you go that route, don't assume you are short changing him on the experience... he may LOVE doing it that way.

You might find you become much more comfortable with the concept if you know ahead of time that you won't be swallowing. Just talk to the hubby about making sure he warns you it's time.
05/28/2010
Contributor: Mary Jane1 Mary Jane1
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Have him drink pineapple juice, or any juice for that matter-it will make him taste less bitter and more sweet. Less meat will make him taste less nasty also. A BIG difference is made if your guy has finished within the previous 24 hours as well. The ... more
Thank you for the information. This is very new for me and I am a little overwhelmed by the whole thing.
05/28/2010
Contributor: Mary Jane1 Mary Jane1
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Gunsmoke makes a good point - you don't have to swallow.

Some people get by ending blowjobs with the cliche face shot (make sure you shut your eyes) or boob shot and many men actually find it very exciting to end that way. So if you go ... more
Thank you I never thought about that and that my husband might be willing to have me start out slow and work my way into the process. I appreciate the feedback.
05/28/2010
Contributor: Mary Jane1 Mary Jane1
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Yea have him masturbate and finish on his own or try oral later in the day after you two have finished together.
Very interesting and a whole new idea to think about. That would help with the amount of semen I would be dealing with.
05/28/2010
Contributor: Mary Jane1 Mary Jane1
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Gunsmoke makes a good point - you don't have to swallow.

Some people get by ending blowjobs with the cliche face shot (make sure you shut your eyes) or boob shot and many men actually find it very exciting to end that way. So if you go ... more
Thank you I appreciate all of the feedback. It gives me a lot of options to think about.
05/28/2010
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
il have to try some of this
04/13/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Just suck it up and do it.

Sorry to sound like a dick, but that's what you just have to do. There's no magic pill. You have to want to do it, to do it. If you wanted anal, you have to learn to relaxe and find the joy in it, otherwise you'll never like it. Same applies here, you have to learn to like his taste. You have to fantasize about swallowing it every time. You have to convince yourself that it's sexy, hot and a beautiful thing. The prior posters are right, your problem is 100% mental and one that you much overcome on your own. To help you with this, start watching porn with swallowing finishes. They are very easy to find and free on many websites. I know Stileproject has an entire catagory of swallowing porn. Flood your mind with the images until seeing and thinking about it no longer has an ill effect on you. I remember the first time I saw a mere facial, I got sick. Now I snowball my wife and love it. All because I wanted to.
04/14/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
how did it go?
11/26/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
i personally like to be warned before it happens. that gives you the option to either at least back off a bit so it doesn't go down your throat, or even to finish with your hand
11/26/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
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Originally posted by Mary Jane1
I have never been able to give my husband a blow job because I get sick thinking about having to eat the cum. I need to know what I can use to make the taste ok so I will not get sick when I try to do this. I am going to purchase the good head jel to ... more
I give my hubby a blow job but I don't like the taste of hie cum. We compromise and when he's close I titty fuck him.
11/26/2012