My sweetie doesn't go down on me. It isn't that I'm too shy to ask, he makes the choice not to. A few weeks after he started sleeping with the first girl he ever had sex with, he decided to venture down there. But apparently she had some hygiene issues and he came right back up. I guess it sort of turned into a phobia for him lol. I'm the 5th girl he's slept with and he's never even tried on anyone since. I've asked him about and he doesn't completely shut it down, he just says, "Maybe one day". And I ask him if he thinks I smell bad, because he'll kiss my stomach or thighs, getting close enough to tell if I stink or not. He says no. And if I do say so myself, I do a VERY thorough job in the shower keeping her clean lol. I'm trying not to pester him too much about it, and I'm glad he's at least open to the idea. I guess we'll see what happens. I know that doesn't offer you any advice lol. I would say go with the one about having a stomach ache and asking him to kiss it, then asking him to go lower and lower. Maybe run your fingers through his hair if he likes stuff like that.