some people really love being filled and used. not myself personally, but some people do.

Like Mr Chickhabit said, some people (like me) get off on being used so getting to the point of gagging isn't a negative for me or for him. Particularly when he applies force. I don't wear mascara as someone else wrote but I do often tear up which I also find very pleasurable.

I'm not voting either because I'm not a guy but I really prefer to watch porn where there is oral sex with force to the point of gagging. The ordinary blow job porn doesn't do anything for me at all.

But then again I'm as submissive as they come and love to be used. To each his own.

No, you're not broken. There is nothing wrong with you or your sexuality. Your sexuality works as it should.

The following is a critique on the industry.

Give it a rest people...the sound of gagging and near vomiting! First, it really is disgusting. Second, are you such a sucker that you believe anything that is presented to you?

What you see on the porn flicks are SO BOGUS! The actresses are paid to do more than show up looking hot, act like they are in heat for (what a coincidence!) whatever the movie is about, and have sex. It turns out that they have to "play" the part even in the comments, words, and exaggerations that they yell out.

Each production company/crew/artist has their "cue" words that sound like they are enjoying it, but in reality are CUE words that signal something else to the other actors/actresses and the filming crew. This is for keeping the "image" or "fantasy" of the script going. Even when there is no script you can listen for and hear the "cue" words.

Here's an example:
When the actress can not take it any more she says to the actor something like, "Oh baby, I want you to come!". Sometimes the actor asks back, "Are you sure?" And she says, "Yes, I want you to come." Or, she says, "I want to taste your cum."

This exchange of communication is really about something else. The "cue" words really translate to this. ACTRESS, "I can't take it anymore so finish up." ACTOR, "Are you sure? We have to make this scene fill a full 5 minutes of video time." ACTRESS, "Yes, that' all I can take of your pounding/bad breath/smelly body."

Now for the gagging scenes. This has actually taken the industry by storm in less than a few years. It did exist before but it was not the fad that it is now. Do you remember the song by Lady Gaga, Poker Face? In that song, the chorus actually is misleading, but if you listen closely you can hear it go something like this, "Poke, poke, fuck her face" (not exactly but close estimation). That song turned it, gagging, into a rage across the porn industry. Add to that the incredible competition that porn studios have and you can begin to see why this is so huge.

Porn video companies are not just looking for the hottest performers anymore, they are looking for the performers that can out perform their competitors' actors/actresses. This is similar to competing horse racing stables attempting to bring in the fastest performing horses. What is that performance exactly? Well the action played out changes from time to time, but one thing does not change...the incredible ability of the female performer to withstand pain. No joke.

About a 10 years ago, the fad was anal...everything had something anal going on. From time to time the fad is girls right out of high school/barely legal (this has had many cycles). That was the case about 5 years ago. Now, the fad is gagging. What will be next? Who knows? But it will include the performers looking at the camera and saying that they love it, or it's all good, or whatever it takes to not pop the fantasy bubble. Because the fantasy that those images contain, well let's just say that that is where the real money in porn is.

Thanks for your time.