Guess I'm in the minority on this one It's just so primal and wrong that sometimes it is exactly the way to finish!



I can see how someone who hasn't thinks it is going to be really really bad or something but it's not. I've done it many times, sometimes planned or sometimes heat of the moment, and I've never seen poop on the guy - I think that is a big myth used by people who don't like anal sex anyhow. It's right up there with needing diapers if you have anal a lot. Make sure you don't have to go before starting butt sex and it shouldn't be a problem. All you taste is whichever lube you're using, and then semen of course. less

I like your response. I have done this once with my SO and she surprised the hell out of me when she did. I never thought A2M was something I would like, but the wrongness of it made it so amazingly hot and turned her and I on more than we thought possible. She has not done this with onyone else and would only do it again if I was "clean" when I pulled out of her ass. To do it or not is entirely up to her, but the Sub in her loved the idea... less

I know, it seems so wrong that's what can make it so hot! For me the two go hand in hand because guys are usually so revved up over anal anyhow that ending it in a way that is equally over the top is big fun. I did it too on my first time with anal. I sort of just had it in mind and wanted to, so after we'd been going at it good for awhile I told him what I wanted when he was ready and omg did he cum like crazy, his legs and hands were shaking and everything!



I don't do it everytime I have anal. Often yes but not everytime. Also, about getting sick from it, I've done it plenty of times over the past four years, because sometimes it happens when we switch positions, not just when your guy is getting close to cumming, and I've never gotten sick from doing it. Two other girls I know do it too and same thing. You probably might get sick if you did it like in porn movies where there are two girls and a guy, and the girls are switching with each others butts. But not from your own, no.



And I've never eaten poop either haha gross. that seems to be another common exaggeration in some of the comments here too. less

There doesn't have to be any visible feces on the penis in order to transfer lower GI bacteria. Some people never get sick from it, some do on occasion, then learn their lesson. Some people NEVER connect the two events, as it may not show up for up to a week after exposure, depending on the bacteria. My Man once got ill from a poorly times rim job. (After we had anal sex.) There was never anything visible, as you can't see bacteria.

I know, sometimes it just happens, but we try to prevent it from happening, to keep healthy. It isn't that hard to grab a washcloth and clean up before you go back to oral.

As becoming ill from ass to mouth contact is something that doesn't happen every time, and some people have different digestive bacteria systems and different immune systems, just because one doesn't get sick every time AtM is done does not prove it is "safe" nor "an exaggeration." less

If your guy got sick though, like I said earlier, that involves two people. It's not like you went ass to mouth with your own germs and got sick, he did it with you and got sick. What kind of "sick" are you talking about exactly? Because I haven't noticed anything, and have never had a friend tell me she got sick from it either, or the few guys I've been with who like to lick me back there never were either. And I did quite a bit of ass to mouth just last night and didnt get sick.
I used the word exaggeration because the idea of getting sick seems like the sort of made up health issue people who don't like anal sex prefer to believe because it gives their opinion something solid sounding to use even if there's not much truth to it. When I was in school there were a few snotty people who would use this type of thing to be snarky against gays and any girls they knew by reputation who liked doing anal sex. They really believe, or really WANT to believe that if you do like anal you'll need diapers, that there has to be poop mess involved, gets aids, prolapse, and just have all sorts of problems. And they'd always have a scary story to tell about someone they knew who tried anal and then of course had all of these very serious medical problems from it. It was a joke how some reactionary people would want to believe them even when they didn't have any experience.
Maybe I haven't been one to put safety ahead of pleasure, but sorry, none of the scary conservative talk against anal sex was true for me or the ones I know who also like it. And when I'd look at the people who would say that sort of stuff, it just seemed that it was their type of personality that made them want the stuff they were scaring people with to be true. That's what was important to them, not keeping anybody safe. Hell they'd have been glad if a girl that they knew liked anal had any of those health things go wrong.

I am sorry to hear your guy got sick. Maybe it is something to keep in mind then although its just not something I'd ever heard of outside the circles of those who don't like anal to begin with. less