Do you swallow?

Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Recently during a discussion with a girlfriend she told me that she cannot and will not swallow cum. She revealed that if she does get cum in her mouth she spits it out into a tissue. Says the taste makes her nauseous....
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I readily swallow cum.
299  (68%)
I do not swallow cum.
143  (32%)
Total votes: 442
Poll is closed
06/30/2010
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06/30/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I didn't vote because I'm not gay - but my wife does swallow.

However she did not early on - I liken it to an acquired taste. After all, who liked beer or cigarettes the first time?

Eventually she just realized that 'its a mental thing'. If you tell yourself it's nasty - you're not going to like it - the old self-fulfilling prophesy. When she decided it would be sexier to swallow than slink away to spit, she learned to enjoy it.

At least in our case it was a matter of maturity.
06/30/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
My girl swallowed the first time a huge amount. Never cared for it again. Now she hates it actually. BJ's are a bit over rated to me anyways, but a lil swallow is always sexy, but only if she enjoys it.
06/30/2010
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I spit it out too. I used to swallow it when I was younger, but can't do it anymore - the taste IS nauseous!
06/30/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
It doesn't matter to me what happens to it after I'm done with it. It could be used for Paper Mache for all I care
06/30/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
For me, it's not an always/never type of thing, so I'm not sure how to vote
06/30/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I always swallow. Poor guys...it must feel horrible if you cum in your lady's mouth and she runs to the bathroom and spits it out!

I guess it's about being polite. That, and it's sexy as hell
06/30/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I heard that women have more taste buds than men, so when I hear gay friends say "all the boys swallow", I tell them well maybe because they can't taste it!

I've done it a few times and it really depends on the consistency of the cum. If it's like water, it goes down easy. But my partner's is thick. I'll pass.
07/01/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've always swallowed, from the first time I went down on my HS boyfriend...for me it just seemed like the natural and convenient thing to do. And I've never minded the taste and while some men are neutral on the topic, some really do seem to like that I never seem to have a problem with it.

Also, for those that don't do it because of the taste but really want to - I rarely taste semen anymore because I make sure when my man is about to orgasm, his penis is pushed to the back of my mouth...it goes almost directly down my throat and rarely touches my tastebuds.
07/01/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I swallow cum readily. The only time it bothers me is when it has a strong taste as when my partner eats asparagus (he doesn't anymore). Cum contains protein so it can be healthy as well!
07/03/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Strangely, I'd like another option. I've swallowed at times, but not always readily.
07/04/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
I always swallow. Poor guys...it must feel horrible if you cum in your lady's mouth and she runs to the bathroom and spits it out!

I guess it's about being polite. That, and it's sexy as hell
Hahaha, that's not exactly what I do when I do not swallow. Sometimes, I just made a nice mess, it just gets everywhere, so we get to clean up. It's the nicer option to swallowing.
07/04/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I've never not swallowed, not once. You just have to do it like a shot, throw it to the back of your throat. I think its worse if you have to keep it in your mouth longer than necessary. My current boyfriend rarely tastes like anything so it isn't bad at all. If he has a taste after not finishing for a few days its slightly salty and I don't mind that either. I've gotten sick from a past boyfriends a few times, but that was rare too.

I've never dreaded it.
07/04/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I've never not swallowed, not once. You just have to do it like a shot, throw it to the back of your throat. I think its worse if you have to keep it in your mouth longer than necessary. My current boyfriend rarely tastes like anything so it ... more
I think taste was the main issue with the boyfriends I've had. It was more that than the thought of swallowing semen. But I want to swallow more if I got the chance.
07/04/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
IMO, taste has little to do with it. For me, it was first, getting over the idea of "swallowing" (which, when I was in HS was equated with being "loose" for some ridiculous reason) and also the texture. I actually choose my food, and my likes and dislikes more from texture than taste.

I didn't swallow for YEARS. I don't really know why. The idea of it, (although I always loved giving head) the texture, something. A few years ago, or less, My Man said he swallowed MY juices when he went down on me, which I had NO idea he did, and suddenly, swallowing didn't seem like such a big deal.

He'd asked me to do it for years, and I'd just kinda hold it in my mouth and discreetly deposit it in a tissue. NO running to the bathroom for me, that would be insulting, IMO. Once it was over, he didn't seem to care. Ejaculate doesn't bother me in any way. When he comes ON me I can lie there for half an hour with it slowly liquefying, he's the one who grabs the Kleenex and cleans it up. He says "It'll find it's way to your egg and then we'll have to deal with an other kid." UM, from a Pearl Necklace? Highly doubtful. It'll seep through my belly from osmosis and impregnate me? He's so funny.

Anyway, one day, I was just so turned on, had just had a mess of beautiful orgasms, was coming again just from going down on my beautiful Man and he Came without warning and it went down. I was so proud of myself, after years of "not being able to do it" (yet doing things a lot more "advanced" IMO) Now, it just depends on my mood, if he asks me, if we're somewhere that it would be more convenient, like sometimes he comes last, and all I want to do is go to sleep and am too lazy to even reach the headboard and get a Kleenex, I'll just dispose of it orally. *SHRUG*
07/05/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
IMO, taste has little to do with it. For me, it was first, getting over the idea of "swallowing" (which, when I was in HS was equated with being "loose" for some ridiculous reason) and also the texture. I actually choose my food, ... more
P'Gell - your experience pretty much parallels that for my wife and I. This is why many people report that intimacy improves with age. A more mature approach to sex by passes old stereo types and pretense allowing one to focus on pleasing our partner. The good news is that there always seems like another barrier to pleasure that can be experimented away!
07/05/2010
Contributor: Shelli Shelli
I've never even thought of not swallowing it. If swallowing is gross to you, I would think that spitting it out would be even grosser, because wouldn't that be like spitting out the likes of toothpaste? *spit* (hanger on) *spit* .. repeat

lol... gross
07/09/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
I’m kind of in practice. We rarely have the time with work and kids. But I think its more of a mental thing with me. But he tells me he doesn’t care what I do with it. I always end up spitting it out, he never seems to mind.
07/10/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I think taste was the main issue with the boyfriends I've had. It was more that than the thought of swallowing semen. But I want to swallow more if I got the chance.
That is totally understandable. I had a past partner who sometimes tasted HORRIBLE. Like, gag horrible if he hadn't finished in a few days, ate a lot of meat, or had worked hard that day. Other days he barely tasted like anything but salty. It got to the point where sometimes I was afraid of what he would taste like, so I had to make sure he had finished some other way first since I love giving oral. My partner now has only tasted icky once. And he hadn't finished in 5 days while I was gone for a trip. I look forward to giving him head instead of dreading whether or not he will taste good.
07/11/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Well, I answered that I readily do it..although "readily" might be pushing it a bit much. It's actually not the taste of it that gets to me, it's the texture of it and the idea of swallowing something while something is in my mouth. I have trouble swallowing pills even sometimes as they cause me to gag, and liquid medicine is the same way. So, it's really nothing against cum itself, it's just the swallowing itself.

So, I do swallow because spitting is just messy, but I don't often give him head to the point of orgasm. Not just because swallowing is awkward to me, but because we like to use it during foreplay and then move onto sex.
07/11/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
Hahaha, that's not exactly what I do when I do not swallow. Sometimes, I just made a nice mess, it just gets everywhere, so we get to clean up. It's the nicer option to swallowing.
I actually think it's sexier to kind of let it spill out and use it as like a lubricant almost for a bit of post orgasm gentle rub down. Although that does make a huge mess.
07/11/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Never found out - my gag reflex is so shallow that the two guys I actually did it on just didn't want to make me end up throwing up on them. I don't mind. You don't miss something if you've never done it, so I'm neutral on the matter.

I did have one friend who was asked 'Spit or swallow?' and she replied "Ducked!"
07/11/2010
Contributor: Janis Janis
I swallowed the first couple of times and it didn't bother me. After that, and now, just the smell makes me nauseous.
07/13/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Janis
I swallowed the first couple of times and it didn't bother me. After that, and now, just the smell makes me nauseous.
Oh geez...pineapple juice!
07/13/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
Depends on the mood I'm in
07/17/2010
Contributor: clp clp
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
It doesn't matter to me what happens to it after I'm done with it. It could be used for Paper Mache for all I care
Haha, that would make for an interesting pinata, indeed!
07/17/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by clp
Haha, that would make for an interesting pinata, indeed!
ewwww

That's one mental image I don't want!
07/17/2010
Contributor: Bamagirl Bamagirl
I have heard on several occasions that cum taste different depending on the mans diet... Now I'm thinking if my man ate nothing but chocolate and strawberries I might could swallow some of that... however he doesn't and it doesn't taste like that and I'm NOT swallowing it
07/17/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
I personally have no issues swallowing and generally always swallow unless he wants to cum over my body.
I love it and think its sexier than anything else you can do with it, also a lot neater and tidier
07/17/2010