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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
After a bad experience as a teenager, I used to not be able to make eye contact (no they didn't shoot it in my eye lol) during oral. Now I enjoy doing it every once in a while. I am starting this poll more so because I want to see the guys votes.

So...

Do you make contact with you partner while giving oral? Like it? Hate it? Awkward as hell?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I do it and love it
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I do it and don't care
Emma (Girl With Fire) , LuLu Love , whiteoleander09 , Valentinka , KikiChrome , alicakes523 , Lithaewyn , bunny love , purplekidney , kmm88 , Sinfully , sexystuffeve , Zombirella , Mew , lil ladybug , VelvetDragon , joiedejouets , Hazeleyes2012 , hillys , nimr
20
I do it and hate it. AWKWARD TURTLE!
kck , Kinky Skier , deltalima , Adriana Ravenlust , liljeepr , Mnemosyne , Akikaze , maskineri , TheZombre , rebella , Scension Earthbound , Ajax , MeliPixie , mystepmotherisafish , Eden C. , DCorrelle , Gigi128 , ms.anon , Ms. Spice , Do emu , lustylusty , Thomas90 , WD40watcher , LovesAPoet , Danneh , Scrawberry78 , violets , ChubbyNerd
28
I don't do it and my partner wishes I would
sexysweetieshan , Lime , Xavier7 , Istanbull , froggiemoma , NewEnglandCouple , anonomous , Drakoni , chantalgiardina , MasquedAngel , luv 2 sex
11
I don't do it and my parnter doesn't car/haven't talked about it
joja , Coralbell , Sohotdinosaur , Selective Sensualist , Hot'n'Bothered , Kimbertrees , KnK , 7Miles , MrRainybowbow , firekitten , mama2007 , SexyStuff , MeliPixie , REDRUM , Istanbull , lick123 , bethd1708 , barrettbn2 , tigerkate , AMGuidroz , Vegan Silk , happily.his , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , LaLaLouise , sexxxkitten , Graniteal , ghalik , pootpootpoot , Geogeo , squire , sweetpea12 , HB042 , Squeaky , princessss , Katelyn , SoloJoe , Kitten has left the site , heather-mooney , EmuLove , Full Tang , Silverwinds
41
Other
Sir , Carrie Ann , Annemarie , DeliciousSurprise , Airen Wolf , Illusional , Naughty Student , Sebmissive , Redboxbaby , Teaser , Lindz86 , Spring , indiglo , kawigrl , Morganna , Stephanie Marie , Red Riding Hood , iota , Fannybutts , Keegski , Istanbull , zeebot , bunny love , tigerkate , Cream in the Cupcake , Meeg , M121212 , Eucaly , JRabbits , Crichton , kjkitty , AlaskanBeauty , ParisLove , gloomybear , mistressg , ghalik , Falsepast , noname3 , SadoMas , Breas , ViVix , SneakersAndPearls , Layenna , LadyDarknezz , Bleu , captainsgirl , bettyboom , Fun Lover
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Total votes: 512 (495 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: inbarati inbarati
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
After a bad experience as a teenager, I used to not be able to make eye contact (no they didn't shoot it in my eye lol) during oral. Now I enjoy doing it every once in a while. I am starting this poll more so because I want to see the guys ... more
Not a guy, but eye contact is what makes most everything hot. My partner's pleasure, seeing it on their face, is what gets me going.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I think when I make eye contact with my partner it just ups the adrenaline and makes it feel a little bit naughtier.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I do it and I love doing it, but it also makes my head very dizzy and sometimes I go cross-eyed. It really, really hurts to, so I will alternate between eye contact, concentrating on what I'm doing, and eye contact some more.

As for receiving eye contact while receiving head, I do not care either way. Sometimes, I like it more when she goes squinty-eyed and I can tell that she's choking a bit.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I do and I love it! It makes things so much more intense! I love watching my partner get off.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I just realized this was for the 'guys'...oops! lol
07/27/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Mreh, I answered even though I'm not a guy.
But the awkward turtle says it all. It just makes me self-conscious.
07/27/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Venus
I just realized this was for the 'guys'...oops! lol
Lol! I didn't realize it at all! Oh well.
07/27/2010
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
It depends on what I'm doing. Sometimes, it allows me to have a great view, other times, it helps make things hot!
07/27/2010
Contributor: Wayne Kerr Wayne Kerr
Sorry, Lauren, I don't answer polls, but I'll be happy to participate in a discussion.

I think the eye contact is THE hottest part of a blowjob. Other stuff feels better (obviously) but the sexiest, biggest turn-on part is the eye contact.

Wayne.
07/27/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I selected two, because although I do make eye contact and enjoy it, it's not like a porn-style blowjob with my eyes up all the time. Most of the time my eyes are closed, or looking at what I'm doing.
07/27/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Venus
I just realized this was for the 'guys'...oops! lol
No no! I want everyone to respond. I am just really interested in the guys responses.
07/28/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
After a bad experience as a teenager, I used to not be able to make eye contact (no they didn't shoot it in my eye lol) during oral. Now I enjoy doing it every once in a while. I am starting this poll more so because I want to see the guys ... more
We sometimes make eye contact. My husband says it's really hot when I make eye contact with him when I'm going down on him, so I only do it sporadically, so that it doesn't lose its intensity.
07/29/2010
Contributor: Hopeless Romantic Hopeless Romantic
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
After a bad experience as a teenager, I used to not be able to make eye contact (no they didn't shoot it in my eye lol) during oral. Now I enjoy doing it every once in a while. I am starting this poll more so because I want to see the guys ... more
It's a turn on for both of us, it's very hot and sexy
07/29/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
I love looking at my husband, especially when he tells me how beautiful I am doing it. I don't really like sucking cock, but when I do feel like it, eye contact is my favorite part, because he appreciates that I've gotten up the courage to do that for him, and he loves when I do it.
07/31/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I do it on occasion but, mostly, I just focus on the dick sucking. It's supposed to be about him feeling good, not me going "Oh, look at me, sucking your dick all sexy like". I'd rather he had his head flung back, lost in the sensations than be all focused on looking me in the eye.
07/31/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Man do I feel awkward when I make eye contact. It just feels like he's waaayyy up there and I'm down and dirty. I'll do it once in a while to make him happy but really, it's awkward. And I kind of feel that same when it's reversed.
08/03/2010
Contributor: sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
I like to be under a blanket or something when performing oral on my hubby. It's just awkward with him watching. Maybe eventually I'll change my mind, but for now, I don't like it.
08/03/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
We do unless we are in 69
08/05/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
When I'm blowing a guy, I'll look up at him, just to see if he likes what I'm doing.

When I'm eating out a girl, I'll do little glances, but it's more difficult because there's often boobs in the way, or something. I dunno, it's just different.

When I'm getting eaten out, I'm more focused on my pleasure to look down at my partner.
08/05/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
Oh yea! And lots of dirty talk too!
08/05/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
After a bad experience as a teenager, I used to not be able to make eye contact (no they didn't shoot it in my eye lol) during oral. Now I enjoy doing it every once in a while. I am starting this poll more so because I want to see the guys ... more
I do try but usually either guy has his eyes closed savoring the experience so it usually goes unnoticed.
09/06/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have a hard time physicaly to give a blowjob and make eye contact. Having his dick in my mouth and looking up into his eyes is really hard for me to do. I sort of have to look up on an angle to make it work. Its really uncomfrotable for me so I don't really do it and my partner doesn't care for it.
09/06/2010
Contributor: clp clp
I love to. More so than actually doing it, though, is talking about it during dirty talk. I find that talking about it is just as/more powerful than actually doing it. I know its a turn on for me, but in practice it can become difficult to pull off.
10/03/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
After a bad experience as a teenager, I used to not be able to make eye contact (no they didn't shoot it in my eye lol) during oral. Now I enjoy doing it every once in a while. I am starting this poll more so because I want to see the guys ... more
I love when a women does it, there is a connection there. Hate when they do it in porn, because the connection is superficial.
10/04/2010
Contributor: SomewhatSomewhere SomewhatSomewhere
Ah, being squirted in the eye stings like HELL!! It burns, and looks like you've been crying cause your eye is watering so much! Anyway, I look up at him. I know he loves it. Turns him on even more than what his is.
10/04/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
In theory it's nice, but in practice it is difficult, especially for cunnilingus. I've given up on looking her in the eye and instead concentrate on giving her the best experience.

We often do a modified "68" (69 position but I'm the only giver, so I generally move down a bit so my penis isn't in her face) to replace the eye contact with body contact. Seems to be an OK compromise.
10/10/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
always
10/10/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I like being able to his expressions but after a point his eyes are usually closed anyway.
10/17/2010