Do WOMAN "freshen up" before oral sex is received, more or less then men?

Contributor: Funtastic Funtastic
I always try to be clean for him.
02/02/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
oh, totally.
02/02/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
He says he doesn't like the taste, so I'm trying to wash beforehand in an effort to convince him to do it more often.
02/05/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
I never make it a point to just get up and leave the situation to freshen up right before I recieve oral. But just to be sure I always wipe with baby wipes after going to the restroom.
02/06/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm a clean person, so I know that if I don't freshen up, it's not going to be a big deal. I always try to make sure I am though, even though my DH says that he enjoys it "day old" haha!
02/15/2012
Contributor: lemony lemony
I prefer that both freshen up before.
02/15/2012
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies ... more
just depends for me really
02/18/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I usually freshen up before, but not always.
02/29/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
If it's been more than 12 hours since I last bathed, I'll use a washcloth to take a "bird bath" at the sink. My Man also freshens up, but he also showers at least once and often twice a day, so he's a very clean man.

Although he's been known to stop me on the way to the bathroom to freshen up, saying he wants me "dirty." Men....
02/29/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I consider myslef pretty clean all of the time so I don't care about freshening up.
02/29/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
If it's a "surprise", then no, I do not get up and run for the bathroom for a quick rinse. However, if we are talking about it, I'll generally hop in the shower first, especially if it's a particularly hot day and I've been sweating all day!
02/29/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
Always. The cleaner the better
03/06/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I like the idea of being when I receive oral and I like for the woman I'm with to be clean as well if I'm going to eat her out! It's only fair. And who likes performing oral on a dirty person? No thanks!!
03/09/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Being clean is good but freshening up is not something I do before receiving oral.
03/09/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I always try to freshen up.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
I always freshen up if I can.
03/11/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
If it's spontaneous then no, but I always try. And I appreciate it when he does too. There is nothing worse than the smell of sweaty balls and the taste of unwashed cock. If he's showered that morning or whatever, then totally fine. Otherwise, you can bet your butt we're having some pretty fun shower sex before the great stuff!
03/11/2012
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
We always have sex after I get out of the shower because that's when I feel better about myself which leads to being in the mood. Occasionally when we have morning sex I'll freshen up.

When I was younger & with my first partner, I didn't freshen up. He didn't mind either.
03/11/2012
Contributor: destinationtwilight destinationtwilight
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies ... more
Women will always be more concerned with this issue.
03/12/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
its so rare for me that i dont but i make sure my bf does
03/24/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
I want him to be clean for me and loving him is treating him the same way.
03/24/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
I want him to be clean for me and loving him is treating him the same way.
03/24/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
I want him to be clean for me and loving him is treating him the same way.
03/24/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies ... more
I prefer doing it first.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I like to freshen up, but if he's persistent I let him.
03/24/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies ... more
always
04/04/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I freshen up just because I like to feel clean all the time, it's probably a minor OCD thing, but I just don't like feel all sticky and gross.
04/04/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
I'm a home health aide and have smelled things I shouldn't have, so I have become obsessive about staying fresh all the time, I keep wipes on the toilet now and use them all the time.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
I certainly won't ruin a moment so I can go clean up, but I'll freshen up if I know beforehand.

I don't really care if my partners freshen up, usually. I feel like it's really more of a ritual to demonstrate consideration than it is practical.
04/06/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
I like to be clean husband. As long as I've had a shower that day I'm good to go. I don't think guys care as much. We have sex a lot of the time towards the night after my daughters gone to sleep and that's usually after a relaxing hot shower. So I guess I don't worry too much about freshening up.
04/06/2012