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Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
I am curious to know everybody's opinion on whether they like their partner coming on there face?

Some love it and think its a great moisturizer for there face and others think its degrading so lets find out what everyone here on eden thinks!!!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Love it - wish i could get it more often
112  (24%)
Dont mind it but mainly do it just for my partner
155  (33%)
Hate it and think its degrading
47  (10%)
Havent Tried - but willing to give it a go with the right person
63  (13%)
Havent tried and never will
63  (13%)
Other - Please Explain
33  (7%)
Total votes: 473
Poll is closed
04/20/2010
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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I think that it can be a very degrading act, but I also think that acts that are generally considered to be degrading can also be performed with lots of love and/or all the right feelings behind them if you're with the right person. If my last partner had tried this with me I would have felt as though he were just trying to act out a porn, but my fiance has brought up always wanting to do something like that and I've put some serious thought into it. Did that make sense? lol
04/20/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I don't mind it, as long as it doesn't get in my eyes or hair.
04/20/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I have not actually done this because my last boyfriend said it was degrading and he would feel like he was with a whore if he came on a girls face. My current partner wanted to cum on my glasses which I allowed even though I think cumming on the face is demeaning. To me it has no sexual value in terms of arousal.


But I'm with Sammi. I allowed the glasses as long as it didn't get in my eyes or hair.

With my last boyfriend, he was allowed to shoot it into my mouth from a distance as long as he didn't get it into my eyes or hair. The deal was, if he did, he had to lick it off. It took some practice, so there was some licking lol. It made me not feel demeaned in the slightest.
04/20/2010
Contributor: GNGenie GNGenie
Honestly, it actually turns me on. It's a hard sale (my husband seems to be afraid I'll somehow get offended), but the occasions he does do it, I find it quite sexy.
04/21/2010
Contributor: KBToys24 KBToys24
I probably should have picked other but I went with havent tried never will. Essentially I've been shot in the eye one too many times to want it anywhere near my face lol That and it just doesn't turn me on or anything nor does it for my husband so why bother.
04/21/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Sometimes if the feeling is right it is actually a complete turn on but other times it's just icky. Neither guy feels like it would be demeaning to me...unless I'm in the mood to be demeaned LOL Usually when they are that close to my face I am a bit too aggressive with the blow job for them to have time to pull out and both figure why jack themselves off when I'm more than willing...ya know?
04/21/2010
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
There have been a few previous relationships where guys have wanted to do this, while others think that its disgusting or demeaning. In my current relationship, he has only asked to do it a handful of times, and I will oblige. I don't like it getting into my hair or my eyes though (or my nose, ugh), and it holds little to no erotic factor for me, but I'm sure he would do something that I asked him to do even if he wasn't 100% into it.

I've never really thought of it being demeaning. Do I take offense to it when he asks me to? No. But I definitely understand where those of you that feel this way are coming from.
04/21/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I love it. I don't think it's degrading. I don't think any sexual act is inherently degrading, actually. If two consenting adults are doing it and enjoying it then how is that anything but empowering? I do think that some people get off on cumming on a woman's face for the wrong reasons (because they feel like they are humiliating her, sullying her, etc.) but I don't think this act is any more inherently degrading than missionary sex or any other sex act for that matter.
04/21/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I love it. I don't think it's degrading. I don't think any sexual act is inherently degrading, actually. If two consenting adults are doing it and enjoying it then how is that anything but empowering? I do think that some people get off ... more
* because they feel like they are humiliating her, sullying her, etc.

I don't mean to imply that humiliation/degradatio n play is somehow wrong or fucked up. I mean I think that some men enjoy humiliating women in a very REAL and non-play sort of way, in a twisted dangerous way.
04/21/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
For me, it's OK sometimes. The first time my b/f did it, I was pissed, as I thought he was acting out a porn vid. I don't see it as humiliation but I don't want his cum in my hair...ever... but it has happened.
04/22/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
I find it a bit humiliating for my girl. Not crazy about the idea. Now if she was really into it, I think I'd enjoy it more. Never tried it.
04/22/2010
Contributor: Elodie Elodie
I agree with Sex, Lies & Pre-Law. If consenting adults want to do it, then it's not degrading for them. I don't want it because it's messy and not at all a turn-on for me.
04/22/2010
Contributor: JPito JPito
I do like it, though I think mostly because it's such a turn on for my boyfriend. He doesn't do it often. He usually cums on my stomach or back, depending on what position we were in, or I end up swallowing (which is what I prefer; it's yummy and no mess!). He rarely gets any in my hair, but if he does it's not that big of a deal since we always end up showering after sex. He's got it in my eye a couple times, but I didn't even notice it because it didn't sting or anything, it just made my eye bloodshot for a few hours, which I actually found kinda humorous. lol

What I really do like about him cumming on my face is he'll lick some of it off and then kiss me. Now that's sexy to me! :-]
04/26/2010
Contributor: Spicy Sunday Spicy Sunday
I'd be an "other" - I've done it with past partners, and for me the sexiness level just depends on the mood and the person. If it's going to go anywhere, I'd prefer it to be on my breasts, though.
04/26/2010
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I love it. I think the feel of the cum on my face is very arousing, and I just think it is sexy as all get out. My husband doesn't do it as much as I'd like, but then, he'd usually rather put his cum in other places. lol. ^^
04/27/2010
Contributor: Cinnamon Cinnamon
This may sound strange, but I don't like it anywhere on my body. It totally squicks me out! If it has to go somewhere I would prefer it down my throat.
04/27/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I love it. I think the feel of the cum on my face is very arousing, and I just think it is sexy as all get out. My husband doesn't do it as much as I'd like, but then, he'd usually rather put his cum in other places. lol. ^^
I've got a couple of girl friends who also love it and complain that their partners dont do it enough as they'd like!

I find it amazing how different people love it and hate it in different places.

Obviously we have seen how people like it on their face, but also some love their guy cumming inside their ass, while some hate it. While there are also differing views on cumming on tits, ass cheeks, stomach and even feet/shoes/boots.

I find it really interesting how different people like it and where
05/15/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
It's like blowing snot on someone.
05/16/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
Haven’t tried and never will.. more than likely. I mean anywhere else but my face.. and hair. Above my neck is a no, no; unless its in my mouth.

I just don’t find it very attractive and defiantly wouldn’t find it sexy, or anything of the sort.. I'd feel like a little whore who meant nothing to my partner, like he didnt respect me.. I don’t know if he'd even like do that or would be into it. He’s never brought it up so I don’t think he does.. I don’t know, but I'd more than likely would never do this..
05/18/2010
Contributor: NY Toyfan NY Toyfan
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I love it. I don't think it's degrading. I don't think any sexual act is inherently degrading, actually. If two consenting adults are doing it and enjoying it then how is that anything but empowering? I do think that some people get off ... more
I couldn't agree with you more SL&L. An act is only degrading if one of the participants finds it degrading. Peeing on someone (for example) can be either incredibly degrading and disgusting or incredibly hot, depending on whether you want that to happen. If you have mutual respect between partners and are open to exploring each other's interests, there is no such thing as degrading.
05/18/2010
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
Love it, when I have female juices all over my face.
05/19/2010
Contributor: Dame Saphir Dame Saphir
Quote:
Originally posted by Cinnamon
This may sound strange, but I don't like it anywhere on my body. It totally squicks me out! If it has to go somewhere I would prefer it down my throat.
I agree with you I don't really mind if I get it on my hand or something, I like doing things for my baby but...I'd just rather -not- have it anywhere else.
05/20/2010
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I have to say I've always been a little baffled as to why so many guys seem to love this. I wonder if it's just because of its prevalence in porn? I'm not sure, I've never had any interest in cumming on my partner's face and I don't think she'd be too happy about it either. I don't knock anyone for liking it though...as long as your both into it, go for it, enjoy yourself!
06/04/2010
Contributor: PolyGirl PolyGirl
If a guy is really into it, I don't mind, but I'll try to close my eyes and I'll want to get it out of my hair and off my pillow pretty soon. Shrug, not my thing, but not a big deal. I'm the kind of girl who swallows to avoid the mess.
06/10/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
I hate giving oral but love him finishing on my face. No matter the mood he knows to pull out and go on my face, what makes it sexy is him licking it all off me.....then time for him to well get me off again
06/23/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
My man loves giving a good face shot. I don't mind at all. I do it for him. I do beg for it, think it does anything for my skin or anything like that. It's more for him. And that makes me happy.
06/29/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I like it and don't think it's demeaning. I think it's hot, as long as it doesn't get in my eyes or hair, like Sammi said.
07/14/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I've never done it, it's just not my thing. I don't particularly find it degrading, although depending on the reason the guy wanted to do it I suppose it COULD be. For me it's just a texture/feel thing that turns me off from it. When we got married I didn't want the cake in my face either, because I don't want to feel something wet/gooey on my face. In a lot of ways I'm not grossed out by things..but certain things freak me out. Stuff like that on my face happens to be one of those things.

Now, if he wants to put it on my back, breasts, stomach..go for it by all means! It's not something my husband has even wanted to do, he doesn't get the point...he doesn't really see the appeal in any area really, so we normally just stick to me swallowing, or stopping before we get to that point and switching to penetrative sex.
07/14/2010