How about adding some chapters to Vnessa's oral pleasure manual.

Women : What do you want your SO doing and how? Please give specifics. Include where to start (nipples then work your way down ?), how long you want it, side to side, up and down, circling the button, sucking sensitive parts? etc.

Men : What's your technique? And do you make her wait after she's all hot and bother, itching for the next step ? less

Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!? less

Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!? less

Inquisiter... im taking notes bro!

My technique is a bit different.

I enjoy starting off with her still in her panties. I kiss her on the lips and tease her through her panties. I even enjoy having her keep her clothes on if they are shorts and just gently rubbing them against her.

I find that she is super sensitive in a bad way to start out with and she needs to be warmed up before I go anywhere near her clit directly. So slowly I will hook my finger on her panties and pull them over to the side and start rubbing the outside of her labia gently with my hands and my tongue every once in a while sticking my tongue inside of her to taste her and see how wet she is getting. I usually stick around the outside of her smaller labia and to the skin at the base of her clitoral hood.

As an indicator I get closer to her clit when I feel her getting super wet. You can also tell when her clit starts to swell that it wants more attention. Once her clit is nice and hard I go right to it and pull back her clitoral hood and rub my tongue directly on her clit. Usually around this time I can feel her hips start to buck so I know im on the right path. If she isn't bucking for me at this point I usually pull back a little bit and go back to the technique before basically making her want me to make direct contact with her clit.

I have used toys, but I dont use anything on a regular basis. (Truthfully if she would give me the go ahead id use all sort of things to figure out a good toy to step up my game.) I will be ordering that toy the inquisiter uses because why not! (Good looking mentioning that dude)

The only other thing I do is I have been known to use coconut oil and a butt plug also during this activity. I find that when she cums its much more intense with a butt plug and if we don't have a butt plug I do massage her ass with my thumb or pointer finger.

I also made her a belly ring that has a nice sterling silver heart that hangs from a pretty heavy stainless steel ring and I like tugging on it just a little bit as she starts to cum. She says it drives her nuts.

That's my technique, and I am always hoping to learn more and improve my game. Lets hear more! less

Great Idea O.H. Please forgive the gramatical mistakes. There will be many. I promise.

My technique varies depending on how much time I have, when the last time I went down on the partner was and how she is feeling overall. Sometimes, I'll just ask outright. Well, I tell her what I'd like to do and see if she is on board with it.

Anyway, the process is what this thread is about, isn't it. I like to caress her breasts and fondle her nipples while I start off slow and gentle in an up and down direction. Sometimes I will give them a gentle flick. As far as the neighbor down south, I will lick her clit only going in the up direction slowly and deliberately. Eventually I give her the up and down directions. As I'm doing this, I also like to look in her eyes. This gives me an idea of when I can switch it up and move faster. Plus, its just hot. I like watching her eyes roll back into her head and the look on her face is priceless. I wish I could explain it, but, I just don't have the words or emoticons.

While I'm doing this, she is usually either watching me or has her eyes closed. I can only hope she is off in fantasy land. That's where I'd be if this was happening to me. When she has her eyes closed they are usually rolling around in her head. I find that interesting to watch. I can only wonder what she is thinking about.

As for the finish, remember in the first paragraph when I mentioned how she was feeling, the amount of time I have and the last time I went down/had sex with her? This is where it matters. Usually I have a toy tucked away somewhere she can't see it and this is when I break it out. Not at the finish but just before. I'd say about 2-3 min before she orgasms from oral alone. Depending on the criteria mentioned in the first paragraph, I try to choose the right toy for the mood. We, well I, have this pink glass toy that looks like a tentacle and is textured. I think Carrie Ann and a few others reviewed it. Let's see... Ah, here it is! Anyway, this is my current favorite toy to use with/on her.

Anyway, so she minutes from orgasming, no cumming all over my face, but I don't want it to end just yet. I mean I just got started. Why should the fun end so soon? So, in order to slow down the process, I give her a good spank or two. This brings her attention back to me, but, I'm still licking her clit.

After a nice sounding slap on her ass, I rub the area with my hand to cool it down. By now, she should be nice and wet. This is when I tease her with a finger for a little while. I like to hear her beg for me to go in a little deeper. If I do penetrate her with my finger, I usually place my index finger of either hand pad up and rub the top of her wet vagina. I don't go too deep, only about an inch or two in and rub that area for a little while. I'm always looking for that G Spot. I want her to remember what happened.

Finally, that toy I mentioned you know the one Carrie Ann mentioned and it looks like a tentacle, I slowly push the toy into her. I use it with all the little bumps facing the top wall of the vagina. I slowly at first, but pick up speed depending on what signals she is giving me, pump that sucker into and out of her while I'm trying to look into her eyes till she cums. Or if I get the green light...

A well lubed and covered finger with a "finger cot" on it goes into the back door. If it does, I can either just move it in and out or I will curl the finger in the shape of a hook and rub the top wall of the anal cavity. She seems to like that.

When she is finished, I'll try for a round 2 but this time with me insider her. If she is too tired after all that, I just clean up and hold her. If she isn't and wants something more, that's where I come in.

I've gotten her to squirt a hand full of times, but, I can't do it for some reason while I'm giving her oral or reliably. I think it would be really hot if she squirted while I was going down on her. I gotta figure that out . I'm doing something wrong, but what!? less

What I like, is a lot of teasing to start. I have a super sensitive clit, so he cant get down and dirty with it right off the bat. My little button needs primed first.

So, I think it's super hot if he's teasing me through my panties first. Nipping, biting, mouthing me like he wants to eat me alive. I love feeling his warm breath through the silk, making my clit warm and aroused, to the point I'm whimpering and squirming. This is is green light to slide them off.

Then, I like my nipple played with as he continues his route back to my lower region. I want them bitten or pinched so I can feel a contrasting touch to what he's doing between my legs. Remember, I'm extra sensitive, so a little touch goes a long way. As he's playing with my nipples, I'm ready to feel his tongue all over my lower lips, circling my clit, but avoiding it directly at first. Then, I like when he straight up takes his soft, flat, tongue, and slowly licky me up like a dripping ice cream cone! Soft and slow a few times. Then, as my eyes are rolling, and they will close and roll, my breathing gets shallower, this is when I like him to puck up the pace. I like a little finger action added inside, hitting that G spot, as he us now seriously and vigorously swirling his tongue around my clit. It's totally primed and ready for heavy manipulation! Flicking it now and adding in some more of the heavy ice cream cone lick...Goood! At this point, I should be twitching, grabbing his hair, and not capable of much more than a few gasps.

Once my orgasm hits, I'm ready for HIS pleasure, and he's usually dragging me straight on top of him. lol Giddy uuuup less

WRONG??? You're young and still know to really give a girl a thrill like that....I'm entranced! Geez.

Ok...now I want someone to come over here and do exactly that to me...that look you said that was with her eyes closed ....Maybe it was this with eyes closed....that'd be me.

Whooooeee! Mr Stud!!! less

What I like, is a lot of teasing to start. I have a super sensitive clit, so he cant get down and dirty with it right off the bat. My little button needs primed first.

So, I think it's super hot if he's teasing me through my panties first. Nipping, biting, mouthing me like he wants to eat me alive. I love feeling his warm breath through the silk, making my clit warm and aroused, to the point I'm whimpering and squirming. This is is green light to slide them off.

Then, I like my nipple played with as he continues his route back to my lower region. I want them bitten or pinched so I can feel a contrasting touch to what he's doing between my legs. Remember, I'm extra sensitive, so a little touch goes a long way. As he's playing with my nipples, I'm ready to feel his tongue all over my lower lips, circling my clit, but avoiding it directly at first. Then, I like when he straight up takes his soft, flat, tongue, and slowly licky me up like a dripping ice cream cone! Soft and slow a few times. Then, as my eyes are rolling, and they will close and roll, my breathing gets shallower, this is when I like him to puck up the pace. I like a little finger action added inside, hitting that G spot, as he us now seriously and vigorously swirling his tongue around my clit. It's totally primed and ready for heavy manipulation! Flicking it now and adding in some more of the heavy ice cream cone lick...Goood! At this point, I should be twitching, grabbing his hair, and not capable of much more than a few gasps.

Once my orgasm hits, I'm ready for HIS pleasure, and he's usually dragging me straight on top of him. lol Giddy uuuup less

Inquisiter... im taking notes bro!

My technique is a bit different.

I enjoy starting off with her still in her panties. I kiss her on the lips and tease her through her panties. I even enjoy having her keep her clothes on if they are shorts and just gently rubbing them against her.

I find that she is super sensitive in a bad way to start out with and she needs to be warmed up before I go anywhere near her clit directly. So slowly I will hook my finger on her panties and pull them over to the side and start rubbing the outside of her labia gently with my hands and my tongue every once in a while sticking my tongue inside of her to taste her and see how wet she is getting. I usually stick around the outside of her smaller labia and to the skin at the base of her clitoral hood.

As an indicator I get closer to her clit when I feel her getting super wet. You can also tell when her clit starts to swell that it wants more attention. Once her clit is nice and hard I go right to it and pull back her clitoral hood and rub my tongue directly on her clit. Usually around this time I can feel her hips start to buck so I know im on the right path. If she isn't bucking for me at this point I usually pull back a little bit and go back to the technique before basically making her want me to make direct contact with her clit.

I have used toys, but I dont use anything on a regular basis. (Truthfully if she would give me the go ahead id use all sort of things to figure out a good toy to step up my game.) I will be ordering that toy the inquisiter uses because why not! (Good looking mentioning that dude)

The only other thing I do is I have been known to use coconut oil and a butt plug also during this activity. I find that when she cums its much more intense with a butt plug and if we don't have a butt plug I do massage her ass with my thumb or pointer finger.

I also made her a belly ring that has a nice sterling silver heart that hangs from a pretty heavy stainless steel ring and I like tugging on it just a little bit as she starts to cum. She says it drives her nuts.

That's my technique, and I am always hoping to learn more and improve my game. Lets hear more! less

Hope the Siberian chill/Artic Freeze doesn't deter the activities. Kinda of cold to be au natureal and body paint tonight. Even with the fireplace on. Uhh, cold glass toys?

Have fun and don't forget, report weather induced activities on our EdenF Weather Team report. less

Hope the Siberian chill/Artic Freeze doesn't deter the activities. Kinda of cold to be au natureal and body paint tonight. Even with the fireplace on. Uhh, cold glass toys?

Have fun and don't forget, report weather induced activities on our EdenF Weather Team report. less