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Women: when you want to cum, do you reach for a toy or use your fingers?

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Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
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04/08/2012
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Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I use a toy.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I need a strong toy.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Toys give me stronger orgasms and give them to me more quickly. I only use my fingers if I don't have another option.

Spending 45 minutes rubbing with my fingers for a weak orgasm sounds like a lot of work when I know it would only take 5-10 with a toy.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
I prefer toys over fingers.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I prefer a toy inside while using my fingers on my clit... personally.
04/08/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
Toys give me stronger orgasms and give them to me more quickly. I only use my fingers if I don't have another option.

Spending 45 minutes rubbing with my fingers for a weak orgasm sounds like a lot of work when I know it would only take ... more
Exactly the way I feel!
04/08/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
I prefer toys over fingers.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Either way works, it depends on what my husband's using to make me come!
04/08/2012
Contributor: Sally Forth Sally Forth
Depends on how much time I have and my mood. Manual stimulation takes me longer, but can be oh so rewarding. If I just wanna get off quick, like between jobs, or because I can't sleep, I usually grab something that vibrates.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I gush way too much for my liking when I use a vibe, so they're usually a shower-only thing. That and the orgasms I get from them, while awesome, feel weird and incomplete - it's hard to explain.

So in a pinch, I just use my hand. My best, most "complete" orgasms come from a hand/dildo combo, and that's what I really prefer. It's more tiring, but more satisfying.
04/08/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
yeah i can't really come without a vibe on my clit, and a strong one at that.
04/08/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I started out masturbating with fingers only, so it seems more natural to do it that way than with a toy. I find that most of the time my clitoris ends up numb or hurting before I orgasm when using a toy.
04/09/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'm essentially incapable of having an orgasm with just manual stimulation. It's happened in the past, but... it's just too much work. So I reach for a toy in almost all cases!
04/09/2012
Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
I can ONLY seem to do it with my own fingers... Trying to learn other ways!
04/09/2012
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
I used to be fingers, but now I'm toys.
04/09/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
Toys give me stronger orgasms and give them to me more quickly. I only use my fingers if I don't have another option.

Spending 45 minutes rubbing with my fingers for a weak orgasm sounds like a lot of work when I know it would only take ... more
This is about the same for me.
04/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I require high powered clit vibes to achieve climax, my fingers just won't do. I haven't found anything that works for internal use yet so the jury is still out on that for me.
04/09/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Little of both works wonders
04/10/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I love, Love, LOVE my toys!!
04/10/2012
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
fingers turn my girl on incredibly for some reason
04/10/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
Depends what I want, my nails are long enough where penetration is not really a good or comfortable option for me.
04/10/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
A toy and my very active imagination!
04/10/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Toys are easier. =P
04/15/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
Toys give me stronger orgasms and give them to me more quickly. I only use my fingers if I don't have another option.

Spending 45 minutes rubbing with my fingers for a weak orgasm sounds like a lot of work when I know it would only take ... more
I feel exactly the same! Sometimes I can take under 5 minutes with a toy, which is awesome.
04/18/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
Hitachi & Wand. I forgot my fingers can get me off.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I have found that lately I have been using vibrators almost exclusively, so I have been trying to use my fingers more. Even so, I would fall on the toy end of the spectrum. Where does everyone else stand?
My fingers tend to cramp at the most inopportune moments...so my toys are more reliable!
04/19/2012
Contributor: kitty377 kitty377
I try not to get to used to toys, I try to use fingers often to make the real thing the BEST
04/26/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
I can use my fingers but I don't find it that exciting unless I'm doing it with my partner. I think I feel like I have too much control when its my own fingers. I always use toys for this reason since it makes it way more exciting and it makes my orgasms much more intense.
04/26/2012
Contributor: NewEnglandCouple NewEnglandCouple
Neither, I use my husband.
04/27/2012