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Women, do you prefer to come before penetration or do you prefer to come for the first time during?

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Contributor: mailroomorder mailroomorder
Curiosity
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Come for the first time before, during foreplay
3
Come for the first time during
5
Come after
2
Come before penetration and after penetration, but not during.
1
Other
3
Come whenever my body has me come
18
Total votes: 32 (25 voters)
Poll is closed
07/16/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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07/16/2013
Contributor: Asher Asher
I like to cum several times...but my gf has to not cum before or else she cant have penetration cuz it hurts...so that sucks
07/17/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
First time while enjoying foreplay and again during penetration.
07/17/2013
Contributor: DirtyAngel7 DirtyAngel7
Quote:
Originally posted by mailroomorder
Curiosity
Hmm, kinda whenever and every bit beginning to end.
07/18/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
The more the better, doesn't matter when...just make me cum!
07/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by mailroomorder
Curiosity
during forplay
07/22/2013
Contributor: SecretCouple SecretCouple
Quote:
Originally posted by mailroomorder
Curiosity
My wife cums multiple times during foreplay and sex. Sometimes foreplay is short so she does not cum, but definitely a few times during sex. She can cum in a matter of seconds from g-spot or deep penetration.
07/22/2013
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I usually like to several times, but they always take so long to get there that settling for just one whenever it happens is more than enough for me.
07/28/2013
Contributor: matry matry
Quote:
Originally posted by Asher
I like to cum several times...but my gf has to not cum before or else she cant have penetration cuz it hurts...so that sucks
i'm the same way, penetration doesn't feel good after i've come. too bad because i'd like to be able to do it before, during, and after lol
08/17/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
anytime - yeah baby!
08/17/2013
Contributor: DirtyAngel7 DirtyAngel7
Quote:
Originally posted by mailroomorder
Curiosity
I like to come whenever my body has to come, it typically happens during penetration though.
08/17/2013
Contributor: peppermintgal peppermintgal
I like during penetration.
08/18/2013
Contributor: cagypsy cagypsy
If I can get going during foreplay and start to climax as he thrusts in for the first time that is awesome in my opinion.
10/05/2013
Contributor: Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Definitely before for my first cum. Then again(and again) once hubby is in me.
10/05/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by mailroomorder
Curiosity
When ever it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen!
10/17/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I usually come during.
10/18/2013
Contributor: Badass Badass
i chose other. how about before, during, and after.
10/18/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Doesn't matter when it happens. More is better!
10/25/2013
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Before, during and after!
11/29/2013
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
Ideally, once during and once after.
My rhythm kinda gets thrown off if I come during foreplay.
12/26/2013