Why can't I orgasm with my partner?

Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
I've been with my partner for over two years and he just now started to get me off with clitoral stimulation. It seems like I just have a hard time relaxing and letting it happen, or sometimes it just doesn't feel as good as when I'm solo. Help
01/31/2012
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Stop worrying about it. Just stop worrying about it. So what if you can't orgasm with your partner?
01/31/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Relaxing is great advice - but there are some concrete suggestions as well.

Try having him bring you to an orgasm with toys before penetration.

Also get comfortable with Cowgirl. On top you can control the depth, angle and speed of motion.

We have also found that the skin-to-skin aspect of clean shaven genitals enhances pleasure for both of us.
01/31/2012