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Contributor: Dragon Dragon
The other night I had an orgasm that was unexpected and unexplained. Wasn't an anal orgasm, it wasn't a clit orgasm, and I don't think it was a g-spot orgasm.

I was laying face down, (not doggy style) getting fucked from behind. There wasn't a lot of depth of penetration, more of like he was fucking the head of his cock only. I wasn't even that excited. Then I came. So what the hell happened? Ideas?

(There had been no anal or clit stimulation leading up to this.)
02/02/2009
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Contributor: Nashville Nashville
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Originally posted by Dragon
The other night I had an orgasm that was unexpected and unexplained. Wasn't an anal orgasm, it wasn't a clit orgasm, and I don't think it was a g-spot orgasm.

I was laying face down, (not doggy style) getting fucked from behind. ... more
Tantric orgasm?
02/02/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
I don't know enough to know or understand what a tantric orgasm is... Someone want to add some detail here.
02/02/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
Sorry, I posted so fast. Usually tantric orgasms mean full bodied orgasms that last for 20 minutes or longer.. what I referred to was this one episode of "Real Sex" that I saw- this man received a tantric massage, his penis was hardly ever touched but just from the hands on his body and the idea of having orgasm he finally had one. I'm not sure if referring to what you experienced as a tantric orgasm was appropriate but hopefully you see what I'm trying to say - I barely sleep so sometimes things don't come out right, lol.
02/02/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
No, not a long orgasm. It was very brief- pleasant, not painful. But very much of a surprise.
02/02/2009
Contributor: Firemeup Firemeup
I don't think it has a proper name, but there's tons of nerve endings around the vaginal opening, so it's not surprising that they could trigger an orgasm. I've had that happen before - I guess the vagina gets real excited even though the rest of you is relaxed.

By the way, I always called that position "spread eagle." It's easily my favorite.
02/02/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Firemeup
I don't think it has a proper name, but there's tons of nerve endings around the vaginal opening, so it's not surprising that they could trigger an orgasm. I've had that happen before - I guess the vagina gets real excited even ... more
Hmm. She didn't say if her legs were spread, though.


Could it perhaps be so subtle an orgasm that you just do not recognize itfor what it is?
02/03/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
No. My legs were together.

Honestly- the night basically sucked overall. Yet, the orgasm was a complete and total surprise, and pleasant. It was the last thing that I expected.

That's why I'm wondering what the hell happened and if anyone has a clue. I'm guessing that "Firemeup" might have the best guess. Just lots of nerve endings, but I've never read or heard of anything like this.
02/03/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
I'm going to just add. "Pleasant." Not earth shattering. Not long. Not "screaming." Pleasant, and out of context with the rest of the night, actually.


(I really don't want my husband to actually read this thread...)
02/03/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Just take it and enjoy. Orgasms can come from different nerve endings as Firemeup mentioned. I once had an orgasm riding my bike.I just stopped and enjoyed it. LOL.
02/03/2009
Contributor: Firemeup Firemeup
just wanted to clarify - I call it "spread eagle" even when my legs are closed. Which they often are. And my arms are usually under me, so really I dunno where I picked up that name
02/03/2009
Contributor: Firemeup Firemeup
another thought - I recently read this article:

link

about recent sex research - apparently there's some evidence that women can become physically aroused regardless of what their brains are up to. I don't know how true that is, but it might account for the occasional surprise orgasm
02/03/2009
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Liz2
Just take it and enjoy. Orgasms can come from different nerve endings as Firemeup mentioned. I once had an orgasm riding my bike.I just stopped and enjoyed it. LOL.
I want to know what bike you ride, I want the same one!
02/04/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
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Originally posted by Liz2
Just take it and enjoy. Orgasms can come from different nerve endings as Firemeup mentioned. I once had an orgasm riding my bike.I just stopped and enjoyed it. LOL.
Ditto on the bike, but mine was a motorcycle. I had my arms around my guy and reached down to fondle him while we were riding, and between the erotci nature of that and the vibes from the bike, I had an orgasm. The one and only time, though.
06/08/2009
Contributor: Polyserena Polyserena
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
The other night I had an orgasm that was unexpected and unexplained. Wasn't an anal orgasm, it wasn't a clit orgasm, and I don't think it was a g-spot orgasm.

I was laying face down, (not doggy style) getting fucked from behind. ... more
I have read of the U spot near the urethral opening which I reckon is what got the stimulation. Here's an interesting link which kind of describes it. (The site might not be an authority on the issue but it's where I found the info). link.
11/09/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
Interesting link. Thanks.
11/09/2009
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
The other night I had an orgasm that was unexpected and unexplained. Wasn't an anal orgasm, it wasn't a clit orgasm, and I don't think it was a g-spot orgasm.

I was laying face down, (not doggy style) getting fucked from behind. ... more
Check out the descriptions of something called the 'A' spot or AFE Zone. It stands for Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. The Fornix is where the vaginal wall and cervix come together. sometimes it's also called the deep g-spot.

With you partner thrusting from behind he likely would be making contact with the anterior (front) wall of the vagina. Any way try this link link
11/10/2009