Do you need to watch yourself masturbate or can you cum with your eyes closed?

Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
I have this weird annoying thing where I need to see my clit in order to work it right. Do you think that that's because I haven't spent enough time at it? I'm 35 but I sorta quit masturbating every time I was in a relationship and I've only been single for 6 months. plus I have to pull up on my labia to keep my clitoral shaft in a position to stimulate it properly
any thoughts?
05/01/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Useful topic breakdown on Cumming Dildo:

Do you cum faster while watching porn and masturbating at the same time?
I know when I am it happens so much faster compared to not watching while masturbating. Just wanna see if I'm not the only one.

cum fast?
how fast is too fast to cum

I can't cum from sex with my boyfriend
It's not that I can't orgasm, he just can't get me off. I don't get it. He makes me feel really good but we could be going for hours and i just won't.

He wants to cum in his own face
My husband's sexual appetite has recently exploded. He's up for anything and everything from anal play for him to more oral for me. I can't complain

world cumming to
what is the world coming to? with the bans, laws, and accordance... what is this all going to lead to industrial wise?
05/01/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
I experience the opposite of that! I always keep my eyes closed, and either facing a blanket or with the lights off. Light coming through my eyelids is distracting, and I can focus more on fantasizing with my eyes closed.
05/01/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
What's funny for me, is if I look, I can't come. My body is like 'a watched pot never boils' so to speak. -laughs-
05/01/2012
Contributor: nanamondoute nanamondoute
I can do it with and without seeing myself. I usually do it without seeing myself and just close my eyes to focus more on the feelings.
05/01/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I don't think I've ever looked at what I'm doing, I've always gone by touch and feel. Even when my husband is doing the rubbing, I don't really watch.
05/01/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by pootpootpoot
I experience the opposite of that! I always keep my eyes closed, and either facing a blanket or with the lights off. Light coming through my eyelids is distracting, and I can focus more on fantasizing with my eyes closed.
Me too, I instinctively close my eyes to imagine.
05/01/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I like to watch myself actually. If you have a full body mirror try it sometimes. You might be surprised. I close my eyes often, but I do love to watch myself.
05/01/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Uh, I've never really thought about it. I guess it doesn't make much of a difference to me. I know my body well enough that I don't really to watch what I'm doing.
05/01/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
I have yet to watch just me. I close my eyes!
05/02/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I don't think it matters for me, but I usually have my eyes closed I think. Everyone's different!
05/02/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I always have my eyes closed - I've only watched myself once, maybe twice.
05/06/2012
Contributor: Thomas90 Thomas90
I dont really care if im honest. Sometimes i may look, but normally my eyes are shut and im in my own world
05/08/2012
Contributor: prettynpink prettynpink
I like to watch myself
05/21/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Maybe I'm weird, but I never really thought about watching myself. I usually am either watching porn or just have my eyes closed.
05/21/2012
Contributor: pinkpetals pinkpetals
I have this powerful urge to close my eyes just before I cum. After reading this thread I tried to keep them open as I came and it was SO hard.
05/23/2012