The OUCH zone! - Created by TheToyGuy on Aug 19, 2019: EdenFantasys Forum

TheToyGuy

Did you hit an OUCH zone?

Sometimes we do things that we think are a good idea at the time only to regret it greatly. I’m talking the in the mood kinda stuff like forcing that dildo just a little deeper or adding another finger too soon or just letting have at it for a deep raw pounding. The OUCH zone is that terrifying moment you realise this is bad and there is nothing you can really do now that it is done. It may be a physical pain or an emotional event, something you did to yourself or another or have had done to you. Not talking rape. Stupidity however is a contributing factor at times.

Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):

Yes

Chrissy FL CD , karmaqueen

2 (12%)

Not yet...

Perspicace mais érotique , Dodger79

2 (12%)

Came really close...

More than one occasion...

TheToyGuy , SidneyGirl , Soundside46 , GingerAnn , QueenofEverything81 , Gunsmoke , Heavymetalchick666 , ♧SoullessGinger♧ , RonLee , PassionPleasure , DenRu85 , 4ever18

12 (75%)

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Total votes: 16

Poll is open

08/19/2019

TheToyGuy

Honestly there have been times I’ve done crazy stuff and gone “this is going to hurt in the morning” but I’ve also hit the ouch zone more than once. The biggest event I recall was having sex with my future wife and literally having a seizure from the exertion. I just remember cumming so hard that my brain exploded and this massive headache took hold and I really felt like I was dying as I pumped my seed into her. No pleasure, only pain. It settled down quickly and once she realised I was in trouble she (being a nurse also) took action. My electrolytes had bottomed out and I needed fluids and energy. Worst non-sober hangover I ever had.

08/19/2019

GingerAnn

Wow well, we definitely never went to hospital level of the OUCH zone, but I think we've all been there at least a couple of times. When we experiment, we are bound to have a few bad tries - that's just how it is. I see no harm in it - unless, of course, it was done with malicious intent.

But pushing too hard, acting too hastily - those are mistakes that do happen in the bedroom, and we just have to talk it out. And then try something else.

08/21/2019

Gunsmoke

We visit the ouch zone fairly frequently. When you get to your 60s more stimulation is required to achieve the sometimes elusive 'O'

As the saying goes, there's a fine line between pain and pleasure - we live in that zone!

As a side note - this is exactly why no desensitizing agents should be used for anal play. Pain is your friend. If you feel pain, stop and go back 2 or 3 steps - or save it for another session. Never challenge your anal pain.

08/23/2019

RonLee

Many years ago when I was first exploring my Bi side I hooked up with one of the bartenders at my then favorite Gay Cowboy Bar, Charlie's. When Him and I got naked I was surprised but pleased to find that he had the biggest cock I'd ever seen. He told me that he was mostly a Bottom but would like to Top me. I was OK with that until he actually got that huge member in me... WOW I'd never before had something even near that large in me and it REALLY HURT.

That was my OUCH moment.

I was so embarrassed that I never saw him again (another OUCH moment). I actually regret that, since he was a real nice guy and I'm certain that we could have worked on his entry so that I could take him. Nevertheless, I hope that he eventually found someone who could really enjoy what he had and love him.

01/28/2021