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Contributor: zensgirl10 zensgirl10
I usually don't have my BIG O unless I am on top or my man is performing oral on me... I have to be moving my hips. Is that normal and does this happen to you?
11/11/2011
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by zensgirl10
I usually don't have my BIG O unless I am on top or my man is performing oral on me... I have to be moving my hips. Is that normal and does this happen to you?
Same here!
11/11/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I'd say it's not abnormal. Sometimes you have to be at a certain angle for your g-spot to be hit in just the right way. Sometimes I can't get off with my lady until I'm sitting straight upright with her working around inside me.
11/11/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by zensgirl10
I usually don't have my BIG O unless I am on top or my man is performing oral on me... I have to be moving my hips. Is that normal and does this happen to you?
if i've learned one thing on EF it's that we're all normal! many of us are different but there are definitely groups of folks who have the same experiences.

for me it really depends. orgasms are kind of elusive. it's not specific to position necessarily, though there are def. some i can't come in.
11/11/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I agree, it's all normal! I do not enjoy being on top, personally. I will do it, but I don't feel anything in that position - literally, I can't feel one thing in that position for some reason. But, it's great that you know what works for you, and that you and your man are willing to do it so you can enjoy yourself!
11/11/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by indiglo
I agree, it's all normal! I do not enjoy being on top, personally. I will do it, but I don't feel anything in that position - literally, I can't feel one thing in that position for some reason. But, it's great that you know what ... more
I'm like you. Woman on top is a terrible position for me.
11/11/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
Superior is my most likely orgasm position, but not always the only.
11/11/2011
Contributor: spnkegrl spnkegrl
I need to be on top to orgasm, and he does too. It almost always works out OK, me first and then switching to him on top.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Tangerine Tangerine
This is all new to me like 2 years new... Its easiest for me when im on top bc i can control it. But if they go deep enough and at a good enough rythem I can
12/09/2011
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
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Originally posted by zensgirl10
I usually don't have my BIG O unless I am on top or my man is performing oral on me... I have to be moving my hips. Is that normal and does this happen to you?
That has happened to me before, I enjoy having the motions controlled by myself : ) If you want to be able to cum on the bottom try different positions or ones where you are still able to move about.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I've heard a lot of women saying this. For me, I CANNOT orgasm on top, I have to be on the bottom or it just doesn't happen. Don't get me wrong, it feels good, but my arousal drops too much.

I can orgasm from oral, however.
12/10/2011
Contributor: STM STM
Since having my son I can't orgasm on top or with oral but I do have to be moving my hips.
12/10/2011