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Contributor: PeppermintPatty PeppermintPatty
I am very interested in teaching myself how to squirt. My hubby and I bought a Cytherea SQUIRT WOMAN dvd a few years back. He did not care for it so muuch, but I played that dvd so much it will no longer play lol. I think it was the best porn dvd we ever bought.

Anyways, we will be married for a year soon and I want to spice up our sex life as much as possible. I just bought my first gass dildo for g spot orgasms and for sqirt practice. So are there certain techniques and toys for this? Were you able to teach yourself or does it just happen for you? The squirt porn has caught my attention and I am ready to learn
04/17/2012
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Contributor: catsin catsin
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Originally posted by PeppermintPatty
I am very interested in teaching myself how to squirt. My hubby and I bought a Cytherea SQUIRT WOMAN dvd a few years back. He did not care for it so muuch, but I played that dvd so much it will no longer play lol. I think it was the best porn dvd ... more
I haven't squirted but once or twice, yet some advice I have is this; relax!

I read somewhere awhile ago that when a woman is about to squirt, it feels like she's about to pee, so many ladies hold back from enjoying the moment by tensing up the kegel and pelvic muscles. Relaxing those muscles more is supposedly a key to squirting.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Try to figure it out on your own first because it will be easier to figure it out with your partner. Watch your DVD, if it helped you, alone. Castin is right, RELAXATION is key to enjoying an amazing O that leads to squirting. What works for me is an insertable toy with weight or vibrations. I insert the toy and leave it inside. I do kegels while I focus on clitoral stimulation. I usually end up squirting all over the place. However, I can squirt with just clitoral stimulation too. I squirt the best when I have anal sex along with pin pointed vibrations to the clit. This results in me flooding the bed. I seem to be able to squirt easier than other women. You might be able to too. You have to figure out what works best for you. Good luck and have fun exploring.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Relaxation is indeed key and for me at least, being comfortable with with me and my body. Masturbate. Lots. And lots. Get comfortable with yourself and what your body feels, and have towels under you and yes, it is messy. Practice does make perfect.

Be patient. You have to teach your body how to squirt and think of it like perfecting a new recipe. It takes a few tries to get it just right.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I agree with the comments above - relaxation and privacy are great starting points. I bought my wife a Pure Wand and told her to figure it out - then teach me. Once she figured it out, now it happens regularly - sometimes from toys and sometimes during intercourse.

The Pure Wand has a near perfect curve to facilitate a rocking motion that provides strong and prolonged pressure on the g-spot - and deeper. It wasn't that hard for her to teach me how to do it.

However now it seems that g-spot stimulation is not sufficient. She gushes mush more from deeper a-spot stimulation.

Enjoy the journey - pretty sure you'll get there!
04/17/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by PeppermintPatty
I am very interested in teaching myself how to squirt. My hubby and I bought a Cytherea SQUIRT WOMAN dvd a few years back. He did not care for it so muuch, but I played that dvd so much it will no longer play lol. I think it was the best porn dvd ... more
Get the Pure Wand. seriously.
04/18/2012
Contributor: PeppermintPatty PeppermintPatty
thank you for your replies everyone, I will practice and relax
04/21/2012
Contributor: Alan Kasich Alan Kasich
I'm impressed with so many women having it. I'm 36 years old, I had only 3 gf. They has never had it. But it sounds really awesome. Hope God'll give squrting girl like i've seen on camsdesire.com or here
05/24/2016
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
Hey there. The first time I squirted was also the first time I ever had an orgasm. My husband and I had recently bought a very basic, plastic vibrator. He was at work, kids were asleep, and I wanted to surprise my husband by getting to like my first toy. So, I sat down on the couch, and played around. It sucked! So, I played around some more, trying to find some thing I liked. I finally found that pushing the part where the motor was located hard into my clit felt really good. So I did that. And I just held it there. That was it. I held the toy on my clit, relaxed, and tried to figure out why these things were so popular. It got harder to think and I was feeling really good. So I stopped thinking. That's when it happened, I had my first O and "peed" all over the couch. I started freaking out, thinking I was abnormal and cleaning up the couch. This is the scene my husband came home to. His wife on her hands and knees scrubbing a large wet spot, a toy on the couch, and me crying. I explained what happened, he explained what happened, and now it's a normal thing! I can make it happen with intense vibrations on my clit. So, seriously, don't even think about it, relax, and think about having an orgasm.
05/24/2016
Contributor: AshMegJo AshMegJo
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Originally posted by PeppermintPatty
I am very interested in teaching myself how to squirt. My hubby and I bought a Cytherea SQUIRT WOMAN dvd a few years back. He did not care for it so muuch, but I played that dvd so much it will no longer play lol. I think it was the best porn dvd ... more
The first time I ever squirted was by using a dildo suction cupped to my tub. I was simply riding it and when I came up and went to move, I felt an amazing rush of liquid. At first I was confused, but a few minutes later after riding again, I knew I was squirting.

I think relaxation is key -- I was thinking nothing of it, I was trying to "make" myself do it, I was just really enjoying the sex. Once I start to feel a build-up like I'm going to orgasm, I just relax and focus on the sensations.
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