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Contributor: Risque Risque
So I have been doing some research about female ejaculation. I am finding that it is controversial about if woman can truly ejaculate for one but also what that means. What do you think is this real? Is squirting and gushing the same thing or two different types of orgasms? And do you think any woman is capable of this?

I do have personal experience with it and think it is very possible. I am also beginning to think that it can be possible for anyone based on your ability to relax and the intensity of the orgasm. Once reaching that point it is easier to achieve the next time I believe anyway.
11/03/2012
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Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I have never squirted! I would think it was pee and stop myself, even if I were capable, from what I've read, so oh well, rather than accidentally pee I'll just deal with only 'gushing'.
11/03/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
I know, they just have to make it SO confusing! Or to me, anyway. But to answer your question, squirting/gushing is the same type of orgasm (G-spot) but it just comes out differently. LOL. I have wondered myself how common it is for women to actually have a... projectile orgasm. LOL. I think it's actually more rare than we're made to believe because so many people refer to the g-spot orgasm as "squirting" even if no shooting ejaculation is ever involved. I think the majority of us "gush." I do. Mine just rushes out like turning on a faucet. Nothing shoots, it runs out and runs all over my rear end and crotch.

Anyways though, either way, it is the same orgasm -- gspot, of course every woman's orgasm probably differs in the feeling/intensity, but it is all coming from g-spot stimulation.

Now, I have to wonder -- since women are always asking "how do I make mine squirt out?" What's that about? Why do we feel like it needs to shoot? Shouldn't the orgasm itself be the important thing? Not saying that is what your goal is, but your topic just made me curious about this as well because lately, I've been thinking "wait a minute, what if this whole shooting come is a better... visual. What if you're even better if you can do that since everyone makes a big deal of it." So now I'm curious. I love the orgasm alone, and I never felt like I SHOULD be ... releasing it a certain way. Just another pressure to put on women? Another pornography thing that's really not that true, but gives everyone the idea that all g-spot O's should come shooting out? Hmmm... This is definitely sparking some more questions and IDEALS for me. LOL. Okay, I think too much.

I am sure it's possible, but I have heard more women say theirs runs out all over the place, as does mine. No matter how hard, fast my partner or I have stimulated, mine never shoots. It will just produce more and more and end up soaking more of my clothing/sheets, but it just doesn't shoot out for me.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Risque Risque
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Originally posted by emiliaa
I have never squirted! I would think it was pee and stop myself, even if I were capable, from what I've read, so oh well, rather than accidentally pee I'll just deal with only 'gushing'.
I was saying the same thing not long ago. I learned I basically wan't allowing myself to do it. As soon as that area is stimulated it can feel like you have to pee. You end up fighting that feeling so much that you almost turn of all sensation. So I tried to focus on this a bit mor each time and was eventually able to find the differences in the area and new when I needed to relax. It did take some time. But I think it is attainable with a little information and practice. Our body shows us the difference sometimes it's just not real obvious because the feeling can be so similar to other feelings.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Risque Risque
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Originally posted by K101
I know, they just have to make it SO confusing! Or to me, anyway. But to answer your question, squirting/gushing is the same type of orgasm (G-spot) but it just comes out differently. LOL. I have wondered myself how common it is for women to actually ... more
I have actually experienced both types now. They do feel a bit different to me. Event though the squirting seems to have a more intense orgasm for me, the gushing is a similar orgasms but more enjoyable. Maybe it's just me that sees each one that way. I seem to almost be able to point the orgasm in the direction I want to go. It does depend on where the stimulation is occuring and how intense it is too though.

I did quite a bit of reading as well on the subject. I was surprised how many woman thought they needed to be squirting even if they were gushing. I agree with you. The orgasm itself is what is important to me.

I was clueless to all of this until about two years ago. So not only did I research the topic but studied myself. The different feelings I was getting and how I would react to them without even thinking. I think more of us than we think can reach this but we are fighting the sensation. It is easier to fight it, it seems than relax and let it happen. This is very interesting to me though. It never stops amazing me how little we really know about our bodies in this day and age!
11/03/2012