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Contributor: Obscura Obscura
Our brain has a lot to say about IF and HOW we experience orgasms. Scientists are finally coming around to studying this once taboo subject and we're happy to enjoy the fruits of their labor.

There is a recent article explaining why we don't usually get performance anxiety when we're by ourselves. It's not just because we know what we like. It gets fairly technical and scientific, but the basic thought behind it is this - it's all in our heads.

Are we our own worst enemies in the bedroom?

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10/28/2015
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Obscura
Our brain has a lot to say about IF and HOW we experience orgasms. Scientists are finally coming around to studying this once taboo subject and we're happy to enjoy the fruits of their labor.

There is a recent article explaining why we ... more
Lol, that's how Ow and I look when eating delicious scrupulous deserts too.

We have a gc for Cold Stone. Think we will use it soon.

10/28/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Have you ever heard of the two bed theory?

It is the theory that if you want to have a good nights sleep you should not associate your bed with anything other than sleep. Such as eating, reading, playing on the computer.

Thus it is said if you want to have great sex you should not have sex in a bed you associate with sleep. That is why having sex in a hotel room etc. usually has a particular feeling. The feeling of "new" etc.

It was suggested in case study that those couples who had sex in another bed of their house felt a similar feeling.

Intrigued?
10/29/2015
Contributor: Obscura Obscura
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Lol, that's how Ow and I look when eating delicious scrupulous deserts too.

We have a gc for Cold Stone. Think we will use it soon.

hahaha, it's all in your head!
10/29/2015
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
Very interesting read, thanks for sharing!
10/29/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Have you ever heard of the two bed theory?

It is the theory that if you want to have a good nights sleep you should not associate your bed with anything other than sleep. Such as eating, reading, playing on the computer.

Thus it is ... more
here's my answer..


TG, good thing I know you have a good sense of humor.

No, the is not worthy enough to the bear.
10/29/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
here's my answer..


TG, good thing I know you have a good sense of humor.

No, the is not worthy enough to the bear.
And which bear are we referring to? hhmmm?
10/29/2015